Do you believe in 'love-at-first-sight ? Have you ever experienced it ?
By letsearn9
@letsearn9 (41)
United States
October 22, 2009 1:16am CST
I do believe in it but I have never experienced it.
I have seen few people get so comfortable with each other within 5 minutes after their introductions, as if they knew each other forever. And the next time I meet them, ohhhh yes, they are a happy couple. When ever I see such people with all that love and happiness in their faces, my belief is strengthened even more. I don't think that everybody will have it, but it sure doesn't hurt to have it.
One of my friends tells me "Yeah! Sure this is the one! It sure feels like 'love-at-first-sight' to me", each and every time he falls for a girl. And later he realizes it's not gonna work and...poor guy. I just wish that he finds his true 'love-at-first-sight' someday. I personally think he's just 'cupid-stricken'...
What do you think about love-at-first-sight?
7 responses
@trilliansramblings (160)
• United States
22 Oct 09
One day I met a woman. She was asking me for some small favor. She looked me in the eye. She shook my hand. She held her head high the entire time she was talking to me. She is proud and determined and willful and strong. Now I believe in love at first sight.
Love doesn't always mean the relationship lasts forever. It doesn't even have to mean romantic love at all. My great aunt Ofie used to tell people that from the moment we first met she knew we had a special connection. Some people will embody everything we admire and everything we want in another human being. Sometimes it takes time to discover this. Sometimes you become aware of it right away.
@letsearn9 (41)
• United States
24 Oct 09
Hi trilliansramblings
You did experience it then. That's a wonderful thing. I believe even if it doesn't last forever, once you experience it you will never be able to forget it in your life. Thank you for sharing your experience and opinion.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I think there are some who experience love at first sight that ends to a successful relationship. But there are also end up being friends. Being in that situations is also situational because love at first sights sometimes never last.
@letsearn9 (41)
• United States
24 Oct 09
Hi Irene
Yes, there is that chance always. I feel that we will never know if we don't take that chance. Thanks for sharing your opinion.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
22 Oct 09
I have not experienced such a thing. But I do believe it because I know quite a few couples who have experienced this sort of thing. I believe that it may not actually be love but it is an attraction, so strong, that it feels like love.
Maybe I will experience it someday. Keeping my fingers crossed.
Maybe I will experience it someday. Keeping my fingers crossed.@letsearn9 (41)
• United States
22 Oct 09
That's true. Hope you will experience it some day. And that day, don't forget to post a comment here in myLot :)
@letsearn9 (41)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Hi Maplegeo
I do agree that true love is not decided by external beauty but why should the relation last for a minimum of 1 year? If you spend enough time with each other, you will know most of the things you should know within few months. Well, that's my opinion.
Thanks for your reply.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.Yes am in true love and its a feeling of happiness life long.
@mylearn (37)
• China
13 Nov 09
i don't have this experienced and i also don't believe it. i think true love based on konw each other deeply , at last know what the partner like. maybe one can met a person, and fall in love with her/him, and they can have a good time with each other, but i dont think this things can happend to everyone...
