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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Cobrateacher I am sorry you had an abusive childhood, but like you said looking at the positive side you turned out to be a strong and wonderful person who adores her family. And I am sure they love you to pieces. It is very important to focus on the...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Yes, true indeed. As someone mentioned earlier, if you change something it would cause a butterfly effect. Good luck. And happy holidays.

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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi I agree. What you think as 'put your foot in your mouth' might have seemed like a different thing to others. It all depends on who is the other person and their view too. So don't worry. Whatever happens, happens for a reason, and there's no harm in...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi That is one serious thing to want to change. I am sorry you were not able to get a degree. I am sure it's tough without one (actually even with a degree it's hard), and that too in this kind of job market, I wish you good luck and hope you find...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Noveclai Let me tell you, there is nothing wrong with you. It's just that life isn't always fair. I am sure your Mr Right is already on his way to you. If you are patient enough, you will meet him soon. Always hope for the best. Good luck to you and...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 Hi Jodylee I agree with you. And I sure can understand the 'butterfly effect'. Being so farther down the lane of life, it's hard to imagine your life in any other way. I am glad you have no regrets. Let's give thanks for our good lives and pray for those...

22 Dec 09

MissMarlaSinger @MissMarlaSinger (43) • United States 21 Dec 09

Greetings MyLotters! I was just curious, how often are you on the internet? What do you spend the majority of your time doing there? Listening to music, on mylot, email? And what site do you most frequent. (Besides mylot, of...

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letsearn9 Hi Miss I spend around 6-8 hours online. For the most part, I check e-mails, respond to them, social networking sites like Facebook, music sites, and yes of course youtube, and I am absolutely crazy about photography so I keep looking for tips on how to...

22 Dec 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 22 Dec 09

I often wonder about this, if I was given a chance to change one thing, and absolutely one thing in life, what would that be? Fortunately I have had a good life (and yeah am having still, Touch wood!) with no regrets, but when...

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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 So true. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 Your response reminds me of this saying 'Faults are thick when love is thin'. It is always difficult to forgive when your love for your friend is already lesser than what it was. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 I agree, we are more bewildered and hurt than anything else. Like you said, 'but the friend?' None of us should really suffer such pain. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 Sorry to hear that. But well, if you thought you should teach him a lesson, he must have done something bad to deserve it. I hope you are O.K with it now. Good luck. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 Very well said, 'ravend'. I believe that taking the easy way out is..yeah easy. But then you lose a dear friend. If we believe that he/she is worth it, we should take the second path. Thanks for your reply.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 I absolutely agree. Trust is a very important detail in any relation. But as you said, change happens. Thank you for your reply. Have a good day.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Hey everyone We are going to Orlando for a week long trip. I was thinking, are there any specific 'things-to-do' or 'sights-to-see' I shouldn't miss? I would appreciate any kind of suggestions. Thanks!!

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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Is it hard for you to change your opinion about a person after your first impression/opinion about them? All of us are familiar with the saying 'First impressions are the best impressions' How many of you think this is true?...

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letsearn9 Yes, totally agreed. As they say, only time will time. And I believe it applies to relationships too. Thanks for your reply. Have a good day.

18 Nov 09

letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Why is it that you can forgive your enemy for the hurt they caused you, but you can not forgive your friend for the same? I think it is because when the person is already an enemy, you expect them to hurt you anytime or all...

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letsearn9 @letsearn9 (41) • United States 18 Nov 09

Is it hard for you to change your opinion about a person after your first impression/opinion about them? All of us are familiar with the saying 'First impressions are the best impressions' How many of you think this is true?...

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sagnik42 @sagnik42 (3592) • India 17 Nov 09

... One of the most common things we say when we want someone to stop talking. I however find it extremely difficult to say this to someone, whether he is a close friend or a stranger. I just feel it very rude. I...

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letsearn9 Hi sagnik I don't use it so often because I consider it to be rude. If I really get annoyed with somebody I would say 'Be quiet' or something similar to that. On the other hand, if it were my friends I would just glare at them (sadly this doesn't work...

17 Nov 09

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 17 Nov 09

This is the news that I am trying to make myself speak out about. I am a victim of Domestic Violence. Four weeks ago we separated. I had enough. I was completely devastated by the whole situation. My Doctor said I should have...

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letsearn9 Hey jenny I am so sorry to hear that. Am glad you were able to the right thing for yourself, even it took a little while. I am fortunate to have a boyfriend who treats me like a princess but I have seen a second person account of this happening. My best...

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