Would you offer your help to your ex if he/she asks for it?

it depends on how he/she needs me. But i think the best you can offer is not your presence unless you are his/her bestfriend.

right,i would give financial help to my ex if he was really in a big trouble,but i never offer help of emotion!

I have been in that situation once. I had a boyfriend who often borrowed money from me while we were together. He usually "forgot" to pay me back and we had many arguments about money. When we broke up, we remained friends, and we still met every once in a while. On day he called me and told me that he had found a new girlfriend. I was in a new relationship myself and I was happy for him, but then he added: "We want to get married, but I can't afford the party, could you help me pay for it?" When I said no, he got angry and stopped talking to me.

nope I would never ever offer any help to my ex If he ever were to ask me, for the following reasons: - he's never ever helped me out when I needed his support, and I never asked for anything material. All that I ever needed was affection but he never gave it to me, he was always pointing out how my problems were stupid If compared to his own ones. I now realized that he basically had no problems other than fighting with his parents who were angry at him because he never even cared about his own future and spent his days in front of a computer screen, playing games. - he told me lies for four years, he left me making up other lies and excuses withot ever telling me what was wrong between me and him. He only said I didn't want to marry him, which was a funny thing to tell me since none of us had a job. He then told me he left me because he didn't want to get married. As you can see, nothing more than lies. - he cold have his own money and a job but he isn't willing to go on in life. His parents spent money for him to study and he can't even speak his own language correctly. Spending time online isn' the best thing to do when you seriously need to get a job and plan your future. - he's always been rude with my family when my parents even paid stuff for him like train tickets or food. So nope, I wold never even give him a cent, also because when we were going out I was always the one to pay and god knows how many times I even had to pay him dinner, tickets, bus tickets and so on.

I have 2 ex husbands and the first was abusive to me simply because i was the wife. Now we get along fine, he is the father of my daughter and I have lend him money on several ocassions.the 2nd ex is father of my son and he abused my son I have nothing for him because only God can help him! I would have to hear Gods voice pretty loudly telling me to lend him a dime lol! So I say it depends on the ex!

I wouldn't give my ex financial support, I wouldn't give my ex the time of day.

yes I would. I think that I don't want to see anyone fall, but especially someone I obviously cared about.