do some couples bored sometimes when making love?
By amyson
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
October 24, 2009 2:41am CST
i do sometimes feel bored and sometimes tired to make love to my husband due to many factors.sometimes i feel that he didnt find me attractive,unfulfilled and a little rejected.to women and men out there do you feel that too sometimes.doing the deed all oover again sometimes makes us bored.some of the following are when requesting permission to perform some things common couples do but ask for permission to make love.another thing is that making love sometimes is predictable so we kind of bored doing the same sequences again and again.another thing women likes to be pampered and treated by their partner so even our partner is good in bed but our needs is not address our desire to make love decreases.what are other factors that boost and make s#x an interesting for us?
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7 responses
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
25 Oct 09
Hi amyson: it's normal that couples get bored after a couple of years. In those cases is good to make something special some times just to help love keep growing. The reason this happends is that both partnerts forget that they have to surprise their couples everyday and don't make something mechanic
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@frenzybabe (92)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
I think starsailover mean of putting spice in your relationship is not just about s3x. Go out on a date or leave special notes to each other. Make sweet surprises to remind each other of your love. Don't let making love come to a point where it becomes your duty as a wife. You should make love because you feel the love. This differentiate s3x made out of duty from s3x made out of love for each other. Maybe that is why you get bored aside from the fact that you are tired. Let him massage you or something to let your body relax. Or better yet have a candlelit dinner with him, dance to your song, or walk in the park with him and talk about your life. You may be surprise how an open communication helps your activity in bed.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
24 Oct 09
hah!!! got you here!! i thought i was only one throwing some S's Q's, LOL!! anyway back to your topic....yah sometimes...if we notice it to ourselves we tend to make our carnal knowledge more spicy and juicy, besides experimenting some positions, we change the place, or use some inviting scents, or she will ask me to help her to choice a lingerie when we are shopping...we never run og sort of things to spices up our carnalnating, LOL!!...happy weekend!
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
good to hear know that lol from you.
but there are times were not into our mood to do it.we are tired from working all day long so when he wants i cannot do it to satisfy his wants.i am human so sometimes we need to rest or likewise i will be look haggard.
but there are times were not into our mood to do it.we are tired from working all day long so when he wants i cannot do it to satisfy his wants.i am human so sometimes we need to rest or likewise i will be look haggard.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Oct 09
I think all the couples will have this problem some days. It is because the same body, same methods, you know everything about the whole show. So what can be done?
Try to stay attractive . clean body and clean dresses , clean inner wear etc.
Try something new in the love game.
new places, new postures, new methods will help a lot.
Don't go for a new partner, that is wrong, hehehehe.
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@daliaj (5674)
• India
24 Oct 09
I don't understand the boring factor which you are talking about. May be because I have been married only for around one year. Making love is not the responsibility of one person. It is something which a couple does together. So, each person should do their part to make it interesting. Each person should understand the other and make sure that other person is also enjoying. If you are bored with the same routine, you can try differnt styles and different place. That is what we do.
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
we been married for 6 years lol,since you are married for a year s#x is an enjoying part of marriage basically i felt sometimes tired making out of it because i am working all day so there are times i am not in the mood.i cant say no because i am his wife after all i understand him and s#x is a big thing in a relationship.
