i love you...goodbye

I feel blue when i read this one. It came to a point that me and my partner had a problem and i can't bare it anymore or maybe i was just to weak to handle the situation. I said it more than once but after a few hours,days or week of silence I asked forgiveness for saying those words that I don't mean. Those words that so hard to utter but because of the instances and pain I felt I said it without weighing things. Now, I am much careful because i don't want to feel that pain again, the pain of letting go...

hey hey!! Isn't that just like what i have gone thru?? haha =D Well, i have experienced it before, and it's definitely not easy.. For, nobody will wanna let go of their loved ones, especially when we have a choice.. BUt most of the time, the choice does not lie in us, but them.. It all depends on the way, we want them to be happy.. Saying goodbye might not be a bad thing, as temporary seperation allows both parties to think clearly about things.. Because time is a weird factor, which can pull 2 closer together, as well as push 2 further away from each other ^_^

Sounds a bit cruel isn't it? It is better to let go of the person you love to make him realize that you love him and that because of his unfavorable actions that caused you to carry the heavy emotional baggage. I am sure this sacrifice you made will make him surrender to any other love fantasies that he is having outside. The popular saying..'If you love him let him go if he comes back he is yours and if he doesn't he is never yours to begin with.

I have always believed in the saying along the lines of if you love someone, to also be willing to let him or her go. Sometimes things in life work out to be what we eventually didn't want to, but once it has happened, it happens and so, that's it. No matter how much we love someone, we have to go through the aftermath, and I speak from my own experience too. It's not good to always think about the old things, why it became like that and all, and it's best to move on with the present and then, the future..

hey, ck, is that the song of Celine Dion or Nina? How many times did you say that..huh..??? well..i never say that word before, but i do say good bye most of the times..lol.. and I am guilty of that... well..I could say only i love you.. many times but not good bye..very confusing..isn't it?? i love you goodbye for me means having to love someone then have to let him go even it is painful because the situation is not favorable.. on my part I am going to say it when time comes and it is better than keeping a person hang on air when in fact he have nothing to get from you..so far saying those words is like saying to be true to yourself...than holding on when it is impossible as when you never says those word it going to hurt you and not only yourself but the other party involves..th word is a sort of REAWAKENING fro me....

Hello amiga, I never did...i only had fallen in love once in my life. So sad that,i let it go becoz,Love faded and not becoz i still love him.

Yes, I did experience that twice in this lifetime. It's difficult to pursue a feeling that isn't equally shared by both. It was not just painful for me, but it has affected my life so much. I decided to let him know how I felt before finally saying goodbye. Of the two people I have said those words, one has come back while the other moved forward. The other I talked for several times after the incident and he totally told me that when I do decide to move on, I really do it, which actually impressed him, but he said he was said that I had totally said goodbye. The other one is my 'someone' in my life right now and I'm glad I told him goodbye to make him realize it's time for him to grow up!

ouch!!that is so sad.. you let him go? why? are you not willing to fight for him or is he not willing to fight for you? In my case, i have also experience this, mine is different, she is in a relationship and i am also in a relationship, we love each other but we do not know how are we going to leave both our partners,we also love our partners. as of now, we don't have any contacts already, we decided just to separate and as far as i know she is already contented with the relationship she have now.

I think that loving truly doesn't mean one has to let go and say good-bye. Loving means working it out with your loved one no matter what. If the decision to say good-bye was because of some inappropriate relationship or some legal matter, then the initial loving was not supposed to have taken place. The decision here was the correct thing to do because nothing good will come out of the relationship.

hello ckyera, well, it was hard at first but after not talking to her for a long time i realized i made the right decision. probably it was for the best because she had a lot of things in her things in her mind and i don't want to be part of her burden. it's hard when she thinks or her family, job and me. but i felt that i wasn't necessary for her because she's doing quite well.

I haven't experienced this. It's sad to let go of someone you love because it's the right thing to do. All I know is that there is a song titled "I love you, Goodbye" ans it is such I nice song. I bet you would like it if you hear it

I have been in that kind of situation that I needed to say goodbye to the person I really love to make him.I was in love before to a guy who fall out of love with me when we have lots of misunderstanding, he still care with me but it's only that. I don't feel the passion of love and then I ask him if he is liking somebody and he told me yes so I let go though it is very painful.I really need to.

...i suddenly remember my high school days, i was new in this school and i had already somebody especial, we dated several times, when she started to join the cheering squad and always hang-out with basketball team guys, i got jealous, so i break her up turned around and cried...her friend told me that she supposed to give something that day and go out for date...too bad for me...

IT'S ALWAYS HARD SAYING GOOD Byes... i have already passed experiences of saying goodbyes, and I realize there is even "no good goodbyes," because there is always somebody who gets hurt...Huh... And there is a lot of times when you let them go even if you still love them. There will always come to the point when you just realize, Do you really LOVE because you needed more than you wanted him/her, or Do you wanted more than you needed Him/her??? I really wanted to share some of these.... Whatever Happens, you Just Wish that May God Bless The Both of You if it Happens... And May God Bless Us All Always.

I have done that recently. I very much love my ex-boyfriend but he wanted things that I couldnt give him and he wasnt ready to give me what I needed. He would tell me one minute how much he needed me to move with him yet never did anything to show after he moved.

Sometimes, there are things that happen for a reason. God gives the right person that would fit for you. Maybe, that someone you once loved is not the right person. Although, you really feel that love for him. Just as the song goes, "I'm not the one you needed, I love you, goodbye." Yes, I have experienced it and learned the art of letting go.(tha's another song) Happy mylotting my friend.

Love is without conditions. That means if someone you love wants to go his/her own way, then be it. Love means doing what you think is best. One does not control the mind and body of the person one loves.

Before I met my husband I was in a relationship and I thought that I loved the person a lot. I went away out of town on holiday and when I called to tell that person that I loved them, his phone was anwered by another women. I knew then that he was cheating on me. I hung up the phone and decided to deal with it when I got back in town. When I got there I walked up to his door and knocked, when he answered I gave him a box of his things, including things that he had given me. I then told him that I loved him, but that we were finished because it was obvious that he wasn't in the same place as me. He then told me that he loved me too and that we could work things out. I then told him that while I might love him, I was no longer in love with him and that his cheating had destroyed any chance at finding out just what he had. A while later I met my husband and fell maddly in love. I know now that until I met my husband, I was just cruching and that I had no idea what love was. Now I know and I have to say that I am very happy with the way things turned out because if I hadn't let the cheating guy go, I never would have found my soulmate and we wouldn't be happily married 12 years later.

hahahah!...like this one.. i think i can relate..hmmmmmmm.. maybe i can say yes i need to let him go.. for the sake of my mothers peace of mind.. and i think its for the best of us.. though moving on is so hard to do.. but i have too say ..sometimes when i see him..its like questioning myself.. "have i moved on"...??heheheh! silly but true..a heart cant easily forgets someone, most specially his one great person who changed you for good..the one who picks you up when your down.. the one who is eager to sacrifice for you happiness.. the one who aches so much and leave it all behind for you to be happy.. to forget the past but to see his love once again aches his heart again.. see how cruel love is .. but in the end happiness will always remain.. even though the heart aches many times love will never stop beating weather its wrong or right in the eyes of the others.. but just remember love has its perfect timing and that's what you called destiny.. there's no forbidden things when it comes to love.. heheheh!thanks!

Hello, I am saying these words to a person right now. She has been very special to me and I am her beloved as well. I also think, she is not only the best girl but one of the most good human beings I've ever met. But for some reasons we can't stay together and we are both aware of this. So we are in a process as mentioned by you. The departing words, they hurt, but sometimes you have to take firm decisions going beyond the individual necessity and considering the future. God bless you all