How can you tell that your boyfriend is cheating on you

Well from my own point of view, it´s sometimes difficult to know when your boyfriend is cheating on you, depending on the person you are dealing with.Some people are really smart and you can´t study nor read their actions especially when you are in love with them, well this also applies to girlfriends too, not only boyfriends cheats, but the thing is we should just learn to be careful so we don´t get heartbroken often because it might cause a personal decision not to love again. But also I would say there is no need trying to know when you boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you because this might give you an unhappy state all time, if you are a lucky one day the truth will come out and it will be to your advantage. Humans are in perfect, and these days it´s quite difficult to find someone who will love completely although there are poeple but few. It takes grace to find them. Please just live life and don´t worry too much about knowing if your boyfriend is cheating on you and try not to expect too much in a relationship so you don´t get heart broke constantly. This is my view although there are other views that can help.

There are many ways to find out a man's lies ; but there are more ways if a man want to cheat. I always think that men are smarter than woman. When in love, you can always find MORE silly girls than boys. Let's name a few tricks here; If your boy turns off his cellphone very oddly, or pretends that he doesn't hear the phone in a party or noisy place, that might be Trick ONE. When running into some acquantices, he doesn't introduce you to them formally, this is a good signal that he doesn't want to make it known that you are his girlfriend.

i always trust my instinct when it comes to that. womens instinct is the best way to know if your partner is cheating on you. lol. guys know how to keep secret when it comes to cheating, so girls should be more cautious and vigilant. watch carefully the actions of your partner. if they're doing something wrong you can see it in their actions.so you have to activate your instinct always. (",) happy mylotting!

Although a BR has been picked I feel that in my honest opinion there are always some signs when it comes to someone cheating. For one thing if they turn off their phones and become not available so to speak that can be one sign. Another sign in my opinion would be the fact that you kinda have a feeling in your gut. For a woman I see it as a intuition thing. I hope this helps answer your question and happy mylotting to you.

I have had the same experience. My ex-boyfriend seemed like the perfect guy. He was sweet and affectionate and I was like a princess when I was with him. We were together every single day so when he finally told me that he got another girl pregnant, it was a shock to me. I guess some may think that I was naive to not have seen the signs but it is sometimes hard to spot a cheater. Some of them are just really good at it. But i guess if I had paid more attention, it would have boiled over sooner.

I also have a friend who are have the same situation like your friend. Her boyfriend is very nice and a total gentleman and none of us expect that she also have a girlfriend. That man can manipulate a woman so easy, he can make any woman fall in love with him easily. We didnt know that he is a cheater until my friend saw him with other girl. He is the one who broke up with my friend when she knew it. So I can say that no matter what how nice or kind the man is, he can probably became a cheater soon.

This has happened to me twice, of both times I caught him. I caught him because I refused to go on routine. Meaning, I would divert my routine suddenly. When there's a routine, like what time to talk to meet to go somewhere, he would find where to schedule his extra affairs. But still, there's no perfect formula for this one. One must always be on his/her toes in any relationship. It doesn't mean that we shouldn't trust the person we're with, but perhaps it's best if we don't expect too much so as to minimize the hurt when it happens. I'm sad for your friend, but really perhaps there are things she missed or signs she ignored. Or perhaps the man needed something she couldn't give. Remember that in boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, it's a test area if your relationship could go well beyond marriage. Which is why, it's not a good idea to plant your roots at this moment. Study him/her, and try to see if you could be with her/him for life. If it fails, and you've done everything you could and you have no regrets. Then let go. It's hurting but it just means you're not meant for each other.

You have to go with your heart. sometimes there is no way of knowing. Some people are just very decietful and good at it. Also sometimes people talk and create rumors that have no truth at all. Is your friend really sure that her friend isn't the victim of stupid and vicious gossip? Did her boyfriend admit to cheating? It does happen. Her best bet is to chalk it up to the values of that person and move on. He is not worth her time. She should not even worry about the why but only that he did it and move on....no excuses.

There are so many clues. I think you can tell when they start taking extra care of themselves such as exercising, dressing a little different (for the better). Not keeping previous planned dates. Not being interested in the bedroom with you. Also when you start catching him in lies. I think men don't really alway do a good job of covering it up. I think women are better at this then men. Then again I think most women are better at everything then a man.

Hi Santos_mlirs, I can relate to your friend, it happened to me too, when I was younger. My friends said I was lucky to have myy boyfriend as he had the best traits any good girl can ever ask for, and I believed indeed I was. We were always together and I didn't see/feel any change in him. One day, he dropped the bomb. He delivered the infamous "it's not you, it's me who has the problem" break up line that ended a 3-year relationship. He found another girl.

There are guys who are quite good in hiding their secrets to their girlfriends. One can notice if the boyfriend is cheating her when her bf is starting to reason out or showing more attention to her gf.

oh its so sad to hear that. now i started thinking what if my boyfriend is doing that too. well the best thing to know find out is trap your boyfriend like give him a surprise visit.

Sometimes your another half would choose to lie to you because he/she doesn't want to heart, normally,these lies are not disaster, just something could be say or not. As a guy,i dont wish my gf cheats on me.No matter good or bad thing,I wish her to tell me the truth and i am willing to share or suffer with her. If you cheat on him with something unimportant,keep this secret. If you found your bf cheating on you,and he does this is just to protect you,you'd better forgive him,If he cheats on you for his big mistake,you may communicate with him and find out why he does that. Forgive him 1st,2nd,not 3rd.

It could also be in that the signs were in fact there with your female friend, but she chose to be in denial about the signs. It can be difficult, but also keep in mind people need to have relationships where they live "in the real world" instead of too much of a "fantasy" type relationship. In the beginning, that does happen quite a bit with that "Nothing can go wrong" but if you are with someone long enough, reality sets in and the "Newness" wears off. At that point in time, if it is meant to be, you will be able to be with that person and still in love with them even though you are "used" to each other.

May be your friend is too confident... as you said the guy was head over heals in love with her... And she is aware of that, which is why (maybe) she somehow ignored the signs of cheating. Also on the other hand, some guys are just really good in hiding... Sometimes you would feel that the guy was becoming too jealous because he is starting to accuse you of the things he is doing. He will make a way to twist the situation and make you appear guilty.

I know that in one of my past relationships I was cheated on. In my opinion, I was just ignoring the signs. He was actually accusing me of cheating which is the first sign of a guilty heart. However, this is not the case with all guys. In your friend's case, there have not been any signs. Not only guys, but people in general are sometimes really good at hiding infidelity.