disrespect
By BART78
@BART78 (2927)
Canada
October 30, 2009 4:14am CST
how do you deal your partner if he/she disrespect you infront of your friends, colleagues and family who has high respect on you?..me? whether my partner did it with purpose or not, i'll talk to my partner privately, discuss what my partner did...
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7 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
lucky my partner does not do that to me. but sometimes i tend to be over excited in front of her relatives that makes me do some things that make me regret. that also makes her get angry. she makes her so upset. i call her baby but in front of her relatives i sometimes calls her with her real name that sometimes with a force that sounds like i am calling a maid (as how she interpret it) so that makes her mad.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
har har har yes i agree thats the nicest part of a misunderstanding the kiss and make up. i call her by her first name and there is no problem with that with her. but when i get excited with her relatives around or get nervous i call her with a tone that is not pleasant to her ears.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
30 Oct 09
...men! same here, my wife doesn't want me to call her with her real name, she feels like we are not married couple if i call her with her real name, but when i piss off so bad i really call her with his real name and she will stop....but we try to settle our disputes before we close our eyes in the evening after that...you know what's gonna happen next(kissing make up?)....
LOL!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
I first would have to ask what type of disrespect you were talking about? Perhaps he was just kidding about something? or perhaps you misunderstood his jokes or statements. Anyhow, there's no better way to solve this but by communicating to him that he has hurt your feeling and ask that he do not do that again, in private.
I think it's good that you stressed 'private' because talking about it in front of others would also prove that you don't respect each other that well.
But if he keeps on repeating the same mistake nor isn't sorry of his actions, I'd probably rethink of him as someone who's worth respecting either. But you know what, this usually happens when the wife has a higher education than the husband. Though not all, most are affected by this type of attitude.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
30 Oct 09
LOL I would put him in his place right quick! I do not and will not tolerate that from ANYONE let alone my husband!
@syankee525 (6249)
• United States
30 Oct 09
well if she didnt relize she did it i would talk to her alone, if she meant to do it then i still talk to her alone, my often say things and i take as she making me look dumb and keep telling her about she always say sorry for it
@SouravRC (247)
• India
30 Oct 09
Fighting in public is not good. Both will loose the respect. Better sort out any differences privately.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 09
yes, I will do as you did scold us personally partners to maintain our dignity in front of people especially in front of friends
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