What do you do if you think a friend likes you romantically, but you don't?

I would wait until some conversation about would come and then i would clarefy everything.

hai skaterx :) personally, I prefer not to say it (rejection)..if I'm not interested, I would never give her hope or any sign of acceptance..its all over my face (also in my body language), even a child can tell what's going on..its cruel, I know, but it's also necessary and best for her :) unless if I'm interested, even just a bit interested, I'll show her that i love to have her around..say like, texting or try my best to get the conversation going. so, bottom line is, if I'm in this kind of situation, I choose to send her the sign of rejection, rather than try to talk her out of it..action speaks louder than words!! I'm a believer, and always will

In most cases, you can just say "I'm sorry, I just don't feel that way about you and just move one with your lives as friends." In some cases, however, like the one involving me, unfortunately, people just don't get a clue and wouldn't even if it bit them in the butt.

Romping other people into the fray is one of the best ways forward, and in particular the one you're involved with.

To be or not to be? This is a fix. It seems that you have wavered between telling him your feeling and being afraid f his propable affection on you. You have to make a decision before he goes too far. Given that the hurt is hardly preventable, earlier and less pain is much better than later and more. Perhaps there is never a perfect remedy for such matter.

It's a good thing if a friend suddenly likes you romantically, because you can utilize him better and he will do it, i mean it happens to me, i mean just go with the flow, who knows as time goes by you might like him in return.

It's been a lot of years since I had your problem, but I still remember how I solved it. It always worked for me. I always seemed to have as many male friends as female friends. I was equally comfortable with both. When a fellow started to get interested in me as more than a friend, whether he expressed it or not, I always managed to maintain the friendship. I simply started talking about how he was the best big brother a girl could have and how much I appreciated his friendship. It was seldom a sit-down let's talk kind of conversation. I just always tried to work that in to our every day casual conversations. Sometimes they would come right out and tell me they did not want to be a big brother. I would then try to keep it light and be honest in letting them know that they would find a girl who cared for them the way they deserved and I would be the best sister-in-law she ever had. Why lose a friend if you can help it. If you know how he feels, then you owe it to him not to lead him on. Your silence is a way of leading him on. Even if you let him know you have a bf, there is always the chance, in his mind, that he can lure you away since you are spending time with him. Since you are friends, you will find a way to let him know. I have faith in you. Good luck.

I woudl just let him know that I wasnt interested that way and value our friendship too much to mess with it...If he hasnt said anything but I suspect it I would ask him I think and THEN let him know how I feel about it

i will tell him that if he tells me that he has plans of making a move that is if he has feelings for me. if he doesnt then he can go on with his feelings and not tell me and i can go on with my life. i mean im married and its such a hassle if i have a male friend who is flirting with me.

I would not suggest u that you dnt say anything to him till the time he doesnt say anything, and at the same time, keep on trying to tell him what all you would like to have in your boyfriend that should be completely opposite to what he is, in this way even if some day he says u can say him nicely i have some different image and u do not fit in that he wnt feel that bad after that...

I would never break a girls heart straightly like that , what would it cost any way . I think will be even more happier to be loved by one more ! It wouldnt cost that much i think and i wont mind hanging out with her when im free atleast i wont be breaking her heart . But this is a very good question i must say you know !!! Nice one really , thanks for posting , cheerz !

Well just be honest with them an say, I only like you as a friend, if you can't understand that then we can't be friends anymore.

Well, it doesn't cost too much to solve your problem. frist, put a ring ,somethiong not expensive that representing affection , on your middle finger if possible and tell him that's from your BF. second, reveal now and then that you have dates with yout BF and you have little spare time. third, place your BF's image as the backgound of your cell phone or PC. In general, make him understand ,in a mild way, that there is no more space for him in your heart.