Am in trouble, someone help!

I know an overweight woman who has so much self-confidence when she talks, it's only about her. She may ask how I am doing but she doesn't much care for my answer. Her self-centered personality was instilled/learned somehow... Maybe by her self-centered, overweight mom and her self-centered, overweight sister, or her self-centered overweight aunt? Your generalizations are outrageous.

I said Usually I did not say all the time, All I meant was that ugly people and overweight people usually are the ones who are over looked, ridiculed, made fun of, treated very badly, of course underweight people have the same problems they are teased and made fun of as well, and in general treated very badly.

ALSO one of my best friends is beautiful inside and out. She is one of the best people you could ever know, She has a strong faith in GOD, A freind that I just lost in june due to pancreatic cancer, she was only 43 her youngest daughter just turned three in april was beautiful inside and out. I WAS NOT GENERALIZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hmm... you seems to be not happy with her.. Its better to leave her.

one without other is useless for me,i hate god for doing this..and i even regret it myself,anyway my decision is decided to end it with her.

nothing more to it that i will settle it myself somehow.....

He should be honest with her and not ignore her it would hurt three times more and she would not know why he is treating her like this and be wondering what she did wrong. If he cares like he says than he should upfront and tell her that he is not interested in a relationship with her and leave it at that.

easy for you to say, for me not at all okay as for me am handsome to even marry a princess or something its a mistake i got it, and yet i cant even leave the horrid thought in my mind anyway fine thanx for ya concern.

Dude! No hard feelings but you very much of a narcissistic and you really have that guts to tell that your handsome and no ugly woman have a right to be with you? Are you perfect? do not judge the book by it's cover. Don't want to hurt your feelings but, do you think what you are doing right now is right? You told us you like her but now your having problem because of what she looks like? If you were on her position/situation, what do you think you will feel? Ok uhmm don't want to argue with you am just being a true guide right now, if you you don't want her to get hurt, do you think it's best to tell the truth to her? Do you think it's best to be man enough to talk to her and tell her that you are not ready? And what do you think is the right thing to do? You told us that you don't want to hurt her feelings right? That's all... Anyway thanks for the post it is very interesting... It really caught my attention! Two thumbs up for that... Decide carefully and Do the right thing and after deciding make sure that you don't have any regrets. Remember a wrong decision makes a very bad event/very bad things in someones life.

you do have some point in what you say, i did say i like her to her voice not by anything i never even thought about this ugliness behind..i guess,my decision to go hiding even though its not right,i must do so for her sake.

Well yeah, being a je*rk and doing what you know she doesn't like would actually make her go away. That strategy could work.

thats one thing i dont like, the fact that i dont want anyone to hate me in anyway,this is a problem,maybe i should act like crazy to her inaway she will avoid me,from your experience is the same situation as now that girl would stand,i hate this..why i even bother to do this in first place..

i remember now, like me a person had this same situation where in i told him the same ,love is pure and beauty is only an outer appearance..i have to die to change my mind into liking this.

yea i was thinking the same,it was actually my once is while mistake,anyway i do respect for her,otherwise i would have got rid of her long time..i need a solution though,but what!