When to give up on LOVE
By michael74
@michael74 (122)
Singapore
November 5, 2009 11:01am CST
Just like to ask you guys, In a relationship either husband and wife or boyfriend and girlfriend type, when would you say its enough?
When or what event would you say that you have to give up your love to that person.
When would you say that love is not enough to continue the relationship?
Hope to hear from you soon!
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4 responses
@nextellady (126)
• United States
5 Nov 09
Thats so hard to answer, everyone is so different! I think if someone is abusive to you that you should not stay with them, I think if they are unfaithful you should not stay with them. It really depends on the person and the issue I guess
@michael74 (122)
• Singapore
6 Nov 09
hello nextllady'
I agree with you, it depends on those two things you mentioned. thanks for the reply
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
5 Nov 09
If you love the person, meaning you care about them and you have strong feelings for them, then you love them, but if you do not care of this person and you have no strong feelings for them, then it is time to go elsewhere.
I would never say to give up on love, but be realistic. Find the person who is right for you! Have a list of what you want in the opposite, what do you want and what don't you want in a partner, and if the person you are dating is not completing this list, then don't waste your time. When you love someone, more often than not, you know it because you are not your normal self around that person. You might be nervous or scared around this person. Often times, if you know who you are and what you want, it makes things easier in the love department. Again, you have to know you, and you have to know what you want.
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
I think I will have to give him up if he continuously cheats me. I definitely do not want to be with someone who can't give me back the love and loyalty I give. It's so hard to say goodbye to the one you love but I guess this way is better than be with the man who will just give you heartaches and pain.
