How to win friendship?
By riani2009
@riani2009 (581)
Indonesia
November 8, 2009 10:26pm CST
Few days ago, I met a person. I see her with her brighness ideas, I like her. Unfortunatelly, she treats me as her opposite. I don't know why? Am I a treath for her? How to win friendship?
2 responses
@Rohensweety (25)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
There are a lot of ways to win friends. In the past i have read of a famus paperback book written by Dale Carneigie who actually offered some very practical suggestions on how to win friends. However, in my expereince i have already gathered some observations on how one can win friends. It is important that you know yourself first because this is the first step in developing friendship. Knowing oneself will give you the opportunity to be comfortable with your own body and therefore would make you feel more self-confident. Having the confidence and radiating it outwardly is the second step of attracting or winning friends. If you feel happy about yourself, this feeling is shown in your face and will be the bridge in your capability to look for friends for you become happy in your dispositions, you are capable of smiling. The smile you will have on your face will attract people because it connotes a very warm and accepting attitude. Having the warm accepting attitude promotes attention from other people and they will also open theirselves to you. Calling people by their names,practicing propriety, courtesy, good manners, participatiing in various activities
and having that sense of altruism ( helping others without expecting something in return), being genuinely interested in other people and in their uniqueness are some of the ways you can practice to win people to your side. So start now and enjoy the benefit of having freinds.
@xinguang800 (68)
• China
9 Nov 09
It is not a difficult thing to make friends.you should maintain modesty when interact with samexx person. Do not show your talents,if not, it will arouse the jealousy of others. You should show your ability when you on the opposite xx person to attract their registration. The interaction between men is in order to get the help from each other, the exchanges between women is in order to show their beautiful.
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 09
waw, nice comment but is it true that a women tands to choose a man as a legitimate way to show that she is exist because of her being as a beautiful person?