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pengyachu @pengyachu (296) • China 26 Jan 10

Maybe you are a little out of date if you have no idea about the "Naked Wedding",which means the couple just get married with no house,no car,no wedding celebration and even no wedding rings.This phenomenon emerged under the...

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Rohensweety hi. even before the strike of the so called global and financial crises, here in the Philippines, " Naked wedding" is already a fad among couples who do not have the real preparation for marriage and who most of the time belongs to the lower middle social...

6 Feb 10

Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 6 Feb 10

Hello everyone...valentine's day is coming and surely you are now making preparations on what you should do to express your love on your significant other or your partners. However monetary considerations bother you because you...

couples

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lyuesong @lyuesong (72) • China 23 Jan 10

I have worked for 3 years, and I want to study more to improve myself. BUT I've found that I can never spare some time to study something I want.Maybe a 8-hour work a day makes me so tired, and there are always trifles...

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Rohensweety Hi, there are a lot of techniques on how to manage time in order for one to schedule his preferred activities in a day...but id like to share to you the term called your peak periods. I understand each person do have the peak period when he can be ready to...

6 Feb 10

Emerald @chavezrmc (6095) • Philippines 6 Feb 10

When was the last time you have a good laugh with your partner? Did you ever share it after a few years of marriage?

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Rohensweety Hi, I was separated from my husband when my kid was just a small baby so we really did not have the chance to have some good laughs together. However, in my work as counselor, i have observe some successful relationships of friends, classmates, neighbors...

6 Feb 10

mjmlagat @mjmlagat (3170) • Philippines 5 Feb 10

Hello all! I want to hear your thoughts on this matter: do kids matter in every relationship, may it be marriage or just a love relationship? I'm posting this because I have known so many couples making themselves martyrs because...

kids

relationships

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Rohensweety Hello, To couples whose intention of being in a relationship is a lifetime of togetherness having kids or children matter because it is the true and genuine bond of two persons, for them to finally call their relationship as a family. Having kids is a...

6 Feb 10

xannebull @xannebull (1793) • Philippines 22 Dec 09

I love nature, i love breathing the fresh farm air and peaceful environment. But i prefer living in a city than living in a farm, i just wanted to have a rest house in a farm and visit there for a vacation and holidays. Living in...

farm

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Rohensweety My life has been in the city eversince i was a kid. I love the busy state of the city and all the comforts which are just within one's reach..meaning everything is just there in minutes you get to have what u want. However, the thought of living in the farm is...

23 Dec 09

anjalisharma_iipm @anjalisharma_iipm (805) • India 23 Dec 09

For me if some one is ignoring me is mean that i am missing that a person a lot, not that front person is ignoring me. what it mean for you, please comment.

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Rohensweety Although the two terminologies are phonimically the same, they are different.Ignorance means a lack of knowledge, a state of unawareness of something, an absence of detial or idea. On the other hand, to ignore someone means not to pay attention to that...

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cudamani @cudamani (996) • India 14 Dec 09

It is true that education gives a sense of security. Uneducated peopled always have the fear of being dominated by the educated. If each of us get educated we can live without fear of domination. Education after all can be...

education

people

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Rohensweety Dear Cudamani, Yes, educaton is always perceived to be sense of security among most people. Education is the source of knowledge and if one is learned then he feels a sense of confidence to live which of course could also contribute to the development of...

16 Dec 09

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 13 Dec 09

Life is giving and getting. Your friends and relatives may often ask you for some help. If it is genuine request you can help them within your capacities. If it is not genuine and if it is not with your capacities, you have to say...

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Rohensweety Dear Vija, Of course every man is entitled to his right to say "no" to a request. However, it all depends on the kind of request that is being asked. For sure, it would not be proper to just right accept a request if you dont know how to do or comply with...

16 Dec 09

Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 18 Nov 09

A friend of mine came to to ask for advice regarding her problem. Her relationship with her husband is straining because he made her choose between her career or her family. I was telling her it would really be a major decision...

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Rohensweety Thanks Wallacb3. Yes, as i have mentioned i too believe that women should already be empowered and making a choice for herself is one of the empowerements which she has to have. However, not all people are in this thinking. For us whose perception in life...

25 Nov 09

Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 18 Nov 09

A friend of mine came to to ask for advice regarding her problem. Her relationship with her husband is straining because he made her choose between her career or her family. I was telling her it would really be a major decision...

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Rohensweety thanks Hatley. Yes i also beleive that women should now be empowed as persons, not as controlled robots.

25 Nov 09

Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 18 Nov 09

A friend of mine came to to ask for advice regarding her problem. Her relationship with her husband is straining because he made her choose between her career or her family. I was telling her it would really be a major decision...

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CatherineLeeV @CatherineLeeV (49) • China 16 Nov 09

Hi~ How do you define success? What kind of life is successful? Recently I heard someone talking about his future, and he planed to work in the top investment bank. I was wondering whether we can judge him as a very successful...

life

success

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Rohensweety hi Catherine, Success is a relative thing and each person defines success in relation to how he finds meaning in life. I remember one author who said, that success is just but the end of a journey and the beginning of mounds of other challenges in life....

16 Nov 09

redphile @redphile (2264) • Philippines 31 Oct 09

most of the time, work is so stressful and you only have little time going out and the rest of the time is for sleeping and some house stuff. How do you put fun at work? What activities do you have during work?

fun at work

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Rohensweety Work can be as much fun as fun itself. One of the things that workers should remember in order for them to eliminate of prevent burn-out or stress from work is to make their work as sources of fun. Even if one's work tends to be boring it could stil be a...

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riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 8 Nov 09

Few days ago, I met a person. I see her with her brighness ideas, I like her. Unfortunatelly, she treats me as her opposite. I don't know why? Am I a treath for her? How to win friendship?

friendship

opposite

win

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Rohensweety There are a lot of ways to win friends. In the past i have read of a famus paperback book written by Dale Carneigie who actually offered some very practical suggestions on how to win friends. However, in my expereince i have already gathered some observations...

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itsmauricecassidy @itsmauricecassidy (298) 8 Nov 09

So I was curious when this came to my mind. Do you feel that you need friends in your life? People might say no - I have my family for that and others might state the other way around saying Friends help you out when...

friends important family sleepover people life

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Rohensweety Having friends is one of the most important social tasks in an adolescent life. They may not be as important as one's family, but they do play an important role in a person's development, especially in the development of one's interaction towards the later...

10 Nov 09

Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 3 Nov 09

I have been in education for almost twenty years now and im lucky enough to have served several bosses from the different positions i have acquired in the University. But just some few observations, it seems i am more comfortable...

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Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

It is All Souls Day and everytime the celebration comes, television shows would always feature on ghostly experiences of people and their stories seem to be very credible. Although i myself is a very sensitive person who also...

all souls day

belief

ghosts

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Rohensweety @Rohensweety (25) • Philippines 30 Oct 09

I have always wondered at the idea of what makes us persons more like human beings. Does having all the physiological signs of our developmental age or the idea of succumbing to to fleshy temptations make us more human? I have...

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dianmelydia @dianmelydia (2269) • Indonesia 29 Oct 09

Sometimes i worked over time than my normal working hours. But my boss is not willing to give me chance for having over time work, i think that's all is just about paying more salary to me which my boss won't do it. Never mind....

workaholic

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Rohensweety If there is one weakness which my boss could identify about my workbehavior is my being workaholic. I dont mind working overtime or even beyond the time required of me to work because i love my job so much. I get a lot of satisfaction after working and...

30 Oct 09

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