Does it matter to you how others think about you?

gieeeeeeee...thanks friend..lol! i dont know why other people always like to mind other business..heehhehe! and loves talking behind someones back.. we are not perfect!were just humans..duhhhhhh... hehehe! take care! hugs and kisses!..

that is very true!!! hope you'll enjoy life even if there are lots of people who tries to mess around!!! *HUGS*

it's nice to know that someone here had change for the better :) keep it up girl!!! even if people have done you wrong, just always be good to them...it's not your loss!

Hi dear! Please do not worry about those people who talk bad about you in your absence. Let it be. You yourself know that how good and nice your are. If you are really good and behave decently, their saying silly things about you, will not make any difference. Cheers! Keep enjoying your life!

Yeh, I know.. I have to keep that in my mind though because I forget to enjoy life whenever I hear what they have to say about me. It just hurt, you know! Thanks for the cheers .

Owww... You are so right! Indeed! That must be the main reason why people tend to destroy other peoples' lives by saying bad things about them. Just can't help but think on saying to them "Get a life!" But of course, I can't do that. Just so sad why some people talk too much at my back wherein they seem so nice on my face.

Yes very much correct we can answer to the peoples who talks behind us. we can only reply to those who come and ask staright. if we are going to mind the peoples who talks3from behind we will call trouble to ourselves and gets depressed and even sometimes we cannot move forward and miss the better opportunity, so it is always better to ignore such talks and even such peoples.

You are right and I can perfectly relate to what you are saying. I have been living that way. I always think about what others say about me.. And in the end, I get so much affected. While the people who are talking at my back aren't worth to be thinking about... Owww... Now, I know!

Yes, you're right, we can really never ignore those people who try to talk at our back... So, like you have suggested, it is better for us to live a good and honest life. So that no matter what they say, we won't be affected too much if the things they say are only lies...

Yep! You're right. And as the saying goes, nobody's perfect... so why do we need to try to impress them? Those people should know that they are not perfect too, right? Haha

yes, so don't waste your time thinking what they think about you. as long as you know that you are not doing anything wrong and not hurting someone... and besides, if they keep on talking bad things against you on your back, it is them who were sinned and not you. and most of the time, those people who do such things are worst than we are and they are usually the one who have such issues... yes, nobody's perfect.

YES, right! And they say that other people points their fingers on others not consciously aware that they are actually the ones who have that issue.

That is good. Golden rule must still be applied in our time today. Though a lot of people have been trying to ignore that. I hope that there will be more people who see the advantages of using the golden rule again. It will help us live a peaceful life..

You are one positive person huh? That's a good attitude. Yeah... Let's hope that we will have the positive outlook in life so as not to be bothered by the people who talks bad on our back...

Right! Mind your own business...

Yeah, you're right. It's really hard to ignore what other people thinks about you. And that is also my problem, that's why i started this discussion. I live in a world that is at the center of some attraction. It's hard on my part knowing that people are expecting too much from me. And i got really annoyed when somebody is talking about what I did, especially when I'm present. But I can't imagine how harder it is when you just know that others are talking bad things about you at your back right? So my father, the ever diplomatic man, always teach me how to do my best on my given duty. Or else, I will fail if I keep on worrying about what others think about me. Yes, it's easier said than done. But I tell you, I really tried hard to impress them-those people-but nothing good comes out. So, I think I better focus on what I'm doing rather than thinking about them. Hard! Really!

Hahaha. Go girl!

Yeah. And to be fair, you'll never like everyone that you meet, too.

Yes.. You've got it all right! I hope you had a nice life ahead...

Right. I have the same feeling about curiosity. And I hope it's easy to get by when they say bad things about me...but I'm trying to ignore them. I salute you for being a forward person.

Yeah--I feel the same way about that. I hate it when other people talk about me especially when they are all lies. Grr!