Do marriage is the answer to unplanned pregnancy?
By winzkiedevz
@winzkiedevz (38)
Philippines
November 9, 2009 11:30pm CST
Is it necessary to get marriage in a rush in order to save the so called dignity because soon people will know that you are pregnant? Some says that marriage is the answer but what if you really are not ready to settle down or you are not even sure that you are willing to spend the rest of your life to the person who impregnate you? I think marriage only comes in when both mind & heart agree but if you are unsure in tying the knot do not force yourself. Having a baby is a gift but rushing to the marriage that you are not sure of can make your life more miserable it could end up into a broken family. Some are lucky rushing into it but some are not. Life still goes on even if you are raising a child alone others are happy in that particular situation we can't blame them its the life they make.
3 responses
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I know that it takes two to make a child but its only up to you what path to take either to get married or go on being single with a child. Happiness doesn't follow that you really have to get married but its up to you how to handle raising up a child on your own besides in our country some of our relatives criticize us, our immediate family may be offended for what happened to us but never will they leave us alone. I know you can manage it, it may be hard at first but when you get used to it its a piece of cake.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
10 Nov 09
this is common to young ladies now a days, but here's a thing, what is dignity if you are living in hell for the rest of your with your husband?...like you said having a cute baby is a gift so never mind the dignity mind your baby..
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
no, its not.. most of the time, it even makes things worse, not only for both parties, but for the baby as well. i agree with your point on getting married only when both their hearts and minds are ready and willing.
