Do you listen to music when you're angry?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
November 11, 2009 5:44am CST
I'd a room mate before every time she get mad she didn't talk and just turn on her favorite music and that's when we know that she's not in good mood. So we didn't take time to bother her. It's the only thing that help her to calm down. How about you, do you listen to music when you're angry? What do you do to calm down your self?
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13 responses
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Yeah, my youngest brother does the same thing like you. I know when he got angry because he turn on his DVD player quite loud with heavy metal music. But when he's okay his room is so quite.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@reco13 (605)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
hahaha. I guess I can't manage to listen to music when I'm mad. I love music and I usually listen to it when I'm in good mood. I also sing with it. When I'm mad, I'll just stay in my room, write my anger in my diary, and that's it. I'll drink a glass of water and every negative forces in me go away. I don't usually let anger control and destroy my day. I manage it as soon as possible so I won't have to displace my anger to anyone else.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Congrats! It's nice that don't let your anger take over your day. Anger is our greatest enemy that's part of our self. Most of the times if bring us to shame and destruction. That's why it's good to have the ability to control our emotions especially anger.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I used to do that when I was young. I don't get angry very often now so I don't really have a specific thing to do.
@Picquarian (724)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I listen to music when I'm sad, happy, angry, excited, etc. What kind of music I listen to depends on my mood.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
11 Nov 09
Everytime, when I am getting angry, I will tend to listen to some music to calm me down gradually.
Uaually, when feeling bad, I won't talk to anyone and stay there quietly. Then I will try to cheer yourself up with happier tunes. When it comes to listening to music, most people may choose to listen sad and lonely songs to comfort themselves, but I prefer to listen to the cheerful ones. After a while, then I may calm down and everything goes well again.
It is really helpful when people get into troubles.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I also listen cheerful and happy tunes when I'm sad because somehow it takes away the pain and I tend to sing along with the music.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@216ashutosh (27)
• India
11 Nov 09
well, i think its not jst the music that can calm you down but anything depending on one's personality.i agree with you that music is really helpfull in taking to to calmdown level,but if a guy/gal if intrested in lonliness ,would feel better in a lonely place,or what soever is his/her feeling. i like to chat on net,or browse on internet when angry.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Everyone of us has different way of releasing our negative feeling. Some would tend to go out with friends, or prefer to stay in a quite place and be alone, while others would love to play with different music instrument or watch movies.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
12 Nov 09
When I am angry only time and the thought of the proper revenge calms me down. I don't listen to music when I am angry. Music is great joy to me and if I am angry , happy and loving songs would only make me angrier.
@mama_bear (1118)
• Canada
12 Nov 09
well, i listen to music all the time, whether i am angry or not. but i do have different playlists depending on my mood. when i am annoyed or upset, then it is all about the chugging angry guitars and lyrical content that is in line with my mood. whichever mood i am in, it is metal all the way. pantera is a great band to play when you are angry, phil anselmo is a very angry dude (that is the lead singer of the band by the way)
@mrssator2002 (281)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
I usually played my collected songs everyday I can't survive to live the day if I can't hear my favorite songs. When I am not in the mood or in anger nobody can make me calm down only music. Really music can help me to take away my anger.
@sonuherenz (258)
• India
11 Nov 09
Hi Care Guarden..
I love music..and i hear them all the time, in every mood....yes i do take the help of music to get myself calm down.....no one know what one can do in anger thats why its better to keep quite and listen to the music and analyse it later...
:)
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
11 Nov 09
Yes i listen to music when i am angry. it relaxes me and keeps me sane! the type of music that i listen to are those slow and mellow music.