Would you rather have a young doctor or a doctor that's been around a while?

@JenInTN (27514)
United States
November 11, 2009 4:11pm CST
I ask this because I have talked to a few people that have recently changed doctors. Some people say they want a younger doctor because they think he is more "up to date" and has that new job, want to do great attitude. Others say that they have looked for a more experienced doctor that sticks to the ways that things have been done and has great knowledge of different types of things. I can see both sides of this. Which doctor would you prefer?
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@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
12 Nov 09
I would prefare an doctor who is experienced. I believe experience is an asset for any job expecially in medicine where you deal with people's lives. No matter how old you are in any job, it is necessarry that you update your knowledge from time to time. So if I can get a doctor who is experienced and up to date, I am satisfied.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I would like to have the happy medium too. I think that experience is very important but do you think that after a while they are kind of hardened and less caring about their patients? Maybe not but it's something to think about. Thanks for the response.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
12 Nov 09
Dear friend, I would like to have good doctor an efficient doctor. It do not matter whether young or how long that doctor has worked. I would prefer a doctor who could rectify my health and mental problems soon.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hi Shamrack! I feel the same way. Age doesn't matter as much as ability. Thanks for the response.
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I have been to many different doctors and have found that each one I've liked or disliked individually and nothing to do with age, although most that I have gone to have been older. I will say that one older one who I go to I really do NOT like and I know that he is one of the best in town at what he does. I see him as quite stuck on himself and his own importance and I have felt that at times he has talked down to me. He also, recently, would NOT renew a prescription for me, not knowing WHEN I needed it, but did it through my pharmicist and did not call ME at all to inform me of this. My pharmicist knows me quite well, and called my family doctor to get the refill for me at a less expensive cost, but waited for me to pick the prescription up before refilling it!! I am not sure I am even returning to him and I still have NOT made the appointment. He is a neurologist and when I was in a year ago I was told that I would be informed when I needed to make my next appointment, which I have not heard about.
• United States
14 Nov 09
No problem responding........you do have some good discussions! I talked to my family doctor yesterday and she said there is no problem with me NOT returning to him since there has been no problems for several years and she could monitor the meds and if needed refer me back. He will just lose my piddly dollars every year! lol
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
That's strange! I would be mad too. I hate to be talked down to. We are not stupid people and it irritates me that someone that has chosen such a job can be so cold sometimes. Sometimes being given a reputatuion like that can actually hurt someones career more than it can help them when they get the big head. Thanks for responding.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Thank you very much! That's great news! To bad they'll be missing out on your money.. Take care
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@celticeagle (165740)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Nov 09
I wouldn't mind having a younger doctor. I think that it is easy enough to check on creditials and such but you just have to go with your gut on the rest. I have had older doctors that have retired and I have sorely missed them. I have also had young ones, like right now, the one I have is moving and I am going to miss her very much. Experience? I think that depends. A specialitst should have some experience where I think a family doctor may not need it so much. A specialist needs to be very experienced and up to the minute in his knowledge. A surgeon? Ya. I better not be his first patient. There are so many of them now days too that if you don't feel comfortable you can move on. Just depends.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I agree that the field of medicine is important when it comes to the experience. i had a surgery once and I would have never been there had he not done it a couple of times. I think that finding the right doctor is a task. I have yet to find one that I am comfortable with..young or old. Thanks for responding.
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@celticeagle (165740)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Nov 09
I have been fortunate in having had several very good physicians in that past years. They just keep moving on.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Nov 09
I hate it when I get used to a doctor and then they just up and leave. I had a doctor for my children that I just loved and then one day she just up and left. I was very disappointed and a little mad about it.
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@gohan2091 (544)
11 Nov 09
Good question, I guess either is fine but it depends on their knowledge. Older doctors have been around a while and will generally have more information than a younger doctor, but they may be out of date with their information. At least with a new doctor, he/she would have up to date information.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Thank you. The question that really rose in my mind when my friend described her new doctor was..does the fact that he is new make him care more? Is he more in tune with his patients than an older hardened doctor? I know that we all get in a routine and I know that sometimes it works so we use it often and I guess a doctor is really no different. They put their pants on like us right? LOl.Thanks for responding.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 Nov 09
I am all about getting a second opinion if something is really really wrong. I think that it's important to do so because although doctors are very intelligent, they are still people and can make mistakes.
12 Nov 09
No problem! Best bet is to see mulitple doctors if someone thinks something is seriously wrong :)
• China
12 Nov 09
Personally I'd like to have an experienced doctor just as mentioned abve.Since it is our purpose to get rid of desease when we need a doctor,thus an experienced doctor is relatively more attractive for his knowledge of different types of things,namely,he can better diagnose the illness,which meets our original aim. Thank you!!
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello sun2rain and welcome to myLot. I think that it would be important to have someone that is familiar with certain illnesses if we get them. Thanks for the response.
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@max1950 (2306)
• United States
11 Nov 09
i had both when i lost a kidney to cancer 5 years ago, the way it seemed to me was if the older doctor didn't go to updated seminars regularly as he's supposed to, the younger doctors have a leg up on knowledge and newer procedures . i had a very good friend my best friend get diabetes and the older doctor kept him on a certain insulin for 6 months knowing it wasnt really helping, i kept asking him to change the insulin and he said just wait a few more months , well screw him ,i went to a different younger doctor who changed the insulin and within 1 day the sugar levels were fine. i felt like going back and yanking him over the counter and sticking the old insulin in the needle when the sun dont shine. ill stick with the younger doc;s thank you
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hi max..thanks for your input. I am sorry to hear that you have suffered through such an experience but glad that you are here to tell about it.I have been thinking that a younger doctor may not be a bad idea when it comes to certain situations and scenarios. I think that more practiced doctors sometimes become set in their ways like we all do. That can be a double edged sword. Thanks again for sharing.
@max1950 (2306)
• United States
12 Nov 09
hey im fine ,things happen, but that was my purpose for telling ya about the diabetes doc who " was " stuck in his ways....enjoy
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
15 Dec 09
Hi Jen. It doesn't matter to me if they are young or old so long as they are capable of doing the job right. Because to me that is the most important thing. Happy mylotting!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
16 Dec 09
That is the most important thing. I think that sometimes people meet a doctor and automatically make an assumption on their ability based on how old they look. Same as with anything I guess. I am like you though. I just want a good doctor. Take care.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
16 Nov 09
Honestly, I do not care much if the doctor is old or young. What matters is he is experienced. Some young doctors have pretty good experiences in the cases they handled as compared to some older doctors. What matters most is the doctor is able to identify the problem, find the medication to fix the problem.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
17 Nov 09
You are most welcomed!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I agree. Sometimes it doesn't matter the age for the amount of experience. An older doctor may have never seen a case that the younger one has had to deal with often in his new career. And visa versa. Thanks for responding.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
12 Nov 09
I prefer my own personal doctor because he has my records and everything and knows which medicine ticks me and not and all that, but I am like you too; don't mind the 2nd opinion of other doctors; especially a young and fresh one. Sometimes when new doctors are in the field, they would tend to be eager and all (this, my opinion), and their views might be fresher and more enthusiastic in a way. So, sometimes just to see what it's all about, I go to a new doctor just to find out about things. And I know I'm bad like that, but I tend to compare. And my family doctor is still the best, but I'll still go visit a new doctor once in awhile just to humor myself.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
13 Nov 09
Perhaps my allergy to certain medicine makes me stick to my own family doctor. Not really a serious allergy, but he kinda know my dosage because it's all in the records. Perhaps you can stick to one or two if you want, otherwise, it's alright to change every-time..
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 Nov 09
Hi zed! It would be best to have a doctor that had seen you all of your life. I don't remember having a "family" doctor when I was little. I just remember the one that my grandparents took me to when I needed to go and that was not very often..thank goodness.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
23 Dec 09
Hi, Jen, it really does not matter to me just as long as this doctor knows how to treat me and if he is smart in being my doctor. Just as long as he knows what he is doing, it does not matter if he/she is young or old. I go to my back doctor and he is a very young man. He probably is in his late 30s. He is very nice and he loves to conversate with his patients. Some older doctors are like that too. If a doctor knows his job well it is good enough for me. Age does not really matter. Just as long as he is knowlegeable and mature in his field of expertise.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
23 Dec 09
knowledgeable is the word that I was trying to spell correctly.
• United States
1 Dec 09
I was always told to find a doctor your age so you could grow old with them. I guess sometimes you don't have a choice in doctors, male or female, but you should find one that you like and one that listens to you. There are plenty of doctors out there and referrals are a great way to find one, I'd rather have one my age that I can learn from and they can learn from me.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
2 Dec 09
That's a very good way to look at it. I think that a doctor around the same age would have a unique understanding about the way you feel and the treatment you might need. Thanks for the input!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Nov 09
i SORT OF LIKE THE IDEA OF A younger dr. I think when they are first trying to build up their practice they are more interested in you & your problems.I don't think any of them pay as close attention to u as they should.Seems like the money is more important than anything to all of them.. Have a good one, Jen.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I think it is alot about the money Jo. I have considered the striving practice and in a lot of ways I think you are right. They are more about the person then. They want to prove someting and then later on they forget. You have a good one too.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Nov 09
Thank u for my best response. Hope u are enjoying your long weekend. hugs.
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
12 Nov 09
hi for me the word itself sounds the same,irrespective of their age.well, you can add the advantage to the old ones because of the experience that they carry.but,you can give some weightage to the young ones too for being upto date with the new discoveries and findings with the ever changing technology... i would prefer a doctor who is a good one,doesn't matter young or old...
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
12 Nov 09
one of my old acquaintance who's a doctor once told me that in their study of medicine they are also taught of not listening much from the patients, rather directing them with a mark Rx to take ...may be something to deal with the patients psychology...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I would like to find a happy medium too. Age wouldn't really matter if they were attentive and helped me when I needed them too. Thanks for the response.
• United States
12 Nov 09
I would rather have a doctor maybe middle aged between the young and the old doctor. I say this because I don't want a young doctor that is just out of school and hasn't really had much experience on his own patients yet. But I don't want an old doctor that is kinda out of date on the new things going on. I'd like to have a doctor in the middle so that they have had experience with their own patients and they also still are in the know of all the new things going on.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
I think that would be more ideal too. I can see what your point. Thanks for the response.
@suzzy3 (8341)
13 Nov 09
Theres a lot to say for experience and alot to say for new ways of doing things.As long as they make me better I don't really mind.We have had the same doctors at our surgery for years they know us really well,family doctors,so none of them are exactly young anymore.I suppose if I had to choose I would go for experience.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Nov 09
Hi suzzy! I think it would depend on what was wrong with me as to who I would choose. I think it could be very important to have a doctor that was familiar with us sometimes. Thanks for responding.
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
1 Dec 09
Hi, JenInTN, it is hard to say. Age does not exactly mean qualification, but normally you need experience to be a good doctor. Good background and continuous education are equally important. Personally, except for special cases, I will give young doctors a chance to demonstrate their performance.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
1 Dec 09
You are very right and it is a hard choice. I think that a younger doctor may actually exhibit a kinder side or maybe more attentive because they are new to their job and are trying to make it and do well. An older doctor has most of the time already made it and is more settled into a routine. He is more experienced though. Thanks for the input.
@Hvaniday1 (550)
• Malaysia
13 Nov 09
I don't think I'm that choosy though but most probably prefer those with the right remedy to cure my sickness. See ya!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Nov 09
LOL..those are the right doctors for me too.
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hello JenInTN, to me it really doesn't matter the age it really depends on more of their experience and attitude. I have a doctor now that is maybe in his mid to late 30's and drives me nuts at times. I always say outside of the office we could probably be friends but as my doctor I would sometimes like to kick him in his "low hangs". I just feel like he doesn't spend enough time with me and although he sometimes seems to listen and is very straight forward with me he also seems to always be in such a rush. I am a severe diabetic and am suppose to go for an A1C test every three months and he tells me every time I am there he will get me one at my next visit because we just switched medicines or some other reason and then next visit comes and he says next visit. I know this may sound weird but I actually asked my OBGYN for the papers to be sent to the hospital for the A1C test and have gotten it from him a few times. I know it is part my fault because i should look for a different doctor but I am one who likes to stick with what gets me there plus there are only two other doctors that take my medical and the one works in the same office as my present doctor and the other is a complete jerk a*# that I have heard but bad things about and I wouldn't trust with my worst enemies life...and for as often as I am at the doctors I can not afford nor do I want to travel a long distance to see another doctor(the closest one would be about 48 miles away). So to me young or old, it doesn't really matter as long as they are experienced and treat me decently like a person and not a number.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Sounds like you do need a new doctor but I can also understand why you haven;t gotten one. Your doing the right thing by making sure you have your tests though. Sometimes we do have to take things into our own hands. I hate the way a doctor rushes in and out and acts as though they don't have time for your questions! Hello!(I want to say) I am a person with fears and feelings. I want to understand what's wrong and be comfortable with the fact that you at least act like you are caring for my needs and want me to make it to another visit. Sorry..I get a little carried away sometimes..lol
• India
12 Nov 09
I would prefer a experienced doc not very old and clumsy but yes a doc around 30s or 40s would be my pick ,, ,coz he will be exp as well as dynamic in his knowledge
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 Nov 09
It would be ideal to have one that is in the middle. Thanks for the response and welcome to myLot.