broken heart

That's the hardest part of getting into a relationship, that is when it doesn't work out and worst, it's her/him who gave up then you will be left with a broken heart, the best thing to do is try to make yourself busy and occupied as much as possible,spend your time with your family, bond with them just to avoid that feeling of being alone, talk to your fiends,call them, avoid love songs, avoid thinking of him/her, if can't be avoided, just think about all the bad/hated things about him/her, those turn offs I mean and slowly you'll get over it in no time. Atleast it works for me.

oh God! having a broken heart was the worst experience i ever had. i can't actually say that i was over it. because it was healed when my boyfriend and i we're together again after 3 months of break up. i suggest that you keep yourself busy. don't listen to love songs and try to meet new people. =) good luck my dear ^^,

It hurts like hell ofcourse. I remember when my boyfriend of 7 years got another woman pregnant. I was devastated. I couldn't muster enough courage to say anything when he told me what he'd done. No words will ever compensate the pain I felt at that time. From this experience I surmissed that to deal with a broken heart, we have to let it take its natural course. I cried every night or day, or whenever I feel like crying. I did not scream but instead I wrote down my pains, my wish my anger. Then I prayed that the pain may end. And it did. The moment I accepted that he is no longer mine I was able to move on. I promised to make my life better. I concentrated on my work. I did not pressure myself to go into another relationship because I believed it will come when its meant to come. Comfort food always help. Eat ice cream eat pizza eat deep fried chicken, fries mojos...whatever you feel like eating it helps. Pray it always give you the right direction and somehow eases the pain. Right now i am in a new relationship and I am very thankful I did not end with my past boyfriend as the last I heard he has left his wife for another woman. God always have a beautiful plan for us. Trust Him.