do u leave your parents alone

India
November 20, 2009 12:12am CST
2 months ago i read an article saying that an women was left to be alone as her son and daughters were setteled in foreign countries .even though she was provided with all financial support .she felt alone .her maid and driver realized her lonliness and made use of it to make money and to cheat her. they made her addicted to drugs and did all illegal things.they got all her money and one day she was in her dead bed .when her family relised the mistake they have done it was to late. we should take care of our parents as we care for our childrens .do u accept it.what is ur opinion.
7 responses
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
I'm don't want to leave my parents alone especially my mother because she needs us. Her condition right is not good because she has asthma and high blood she needs someone to look after her. We should be the one who going to take care of our parents and we should be the one to look after them when they gets old. It is a sad story you going to realize the value of person if he\she are not in this world anymore. I don't want that to happen to us as much as possible I'm going to look after with my parents.
• India
21 Nov 09
Good Brother.. May God Bless you..
• India
21 Nov 09
yeh u will realize their absence when they r not in the world.we should take the responsibility to take care of them. what u do to others today will come back to u.u r right ur parents need u and not some strangers to look after them. good thing take care of ur parents.
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
21 Nov 09
It is unfortunate what happened to the mother but she should have gotten of the lonliness and get a life. Her children left the country for a good reason I believe, if she wished them well, she should have been happy for them and get on with her life. I believe she was communicating with them by phone. Every child must leave thier parents at one time or the other and the parents would have to go on with thier lifes.
• India
21 Nov 09
yes that is unavoidable in todays life style that is why our ans-esters insisted on joint family structured life.
• India
20 Nov 09
We should not leave them alone,someone should be there to care of them,sometimes its necessary to go away from parents for career developments or for some business activities,but it should not be like as if we've left them forever,for sometime period we be away from them but have come back soon to make them happy .....
• India
20 Nov 09
that's good if the situvation is like we have to stay in far away places we can try best to take them with us if they r willing to.
@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
20 Nov 09
see on this matter there are 2 aspects .Depend how you will leave alone your parents now I am telling you first mostly people after marriage use to forget parents and want to live alone and leave them alone so that is shameful and totally wrong because parents do alots of thing for their children but in end what they get in return only lonliness Now second is when children has to leave their parents alone for sometime because they are living out of city or country to make their future which is most important and after when they acheive what they wanted they will call their parents so I think In that way parents never feel lonliness because they also want best future for their children
• India
21 Nov 09
u r right when children forget to call them them back they feel lonely.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
Its both responsibility not just the parents to their children but vice versa. But major responsibility of the parents to their children because they are still needed to be guided & monitored if they are growing up especially if they are in their adulthood stage. Parents should be very vigilant at this stage in order to track down the activities of their children. Discipline is highly useful.
• India
20 Nov 09
thankyou for responding .
@baba2020 (80)
• India
21 Nov 09
Hi Friends... ---------- "Your Parents & your children, you know not which of them is the nearer to you in usefulness; this is an ordinance from GOD:Surely God is knowing, Wise." Noble Qur'an(4:11) The above verse from Qur'an show the attitude towards the relationship between parents and children. From infancy to adulthood, it is unparalleled tender love and care of the parents which brings the child from the stage of absolute weakness and helplessness to perfect strength and independence. Conversely, In old age a man becomes like a small child; the mind and body turn so weak that GOD say in Quran: If We grant long life to any, We cause him to be reversed in nature: Will they not them understand? Qur'an(36:68) Yesterday, your parents looked after you when you were too feeble to look after yourself; today you must look after them.
• India
21 Nov 09
thank you very much for responding.
@anishak (12)
• India
21 Nov 09
nooo i dnt leave my parnts alone .....coz i luv them we have 2 respect them when they r becoming old.....so i cant do dat ever .........i luv my mom nd dad