Am I too old to dream?

hi there i thought this was a dream discussion its a goal pursuing one,listen keep on believing in what u set out to pursue,most would not really like to see u rise above leaving them behind,in a state where they would now be afraid to talk with you cause your levels of reasoning would be higher than theirs',they all see what u r interested in and they would have love to be in your shoe,but just because of old traditional ways that they are tied to they can't so they envy you be not mind full of that,you are very young let age never be an obstacle in your life,age is truthfully just a number,pursue your goals let no one stop you,may the blessings be

gud morning sweetyethot. age should not be a hindrance from stopping you to dream. as i was reading your post i can tell that at your age(26) you're still young and there's so much out there in store for you. dont't bother yourself not having married yet because marriage is just there and it's a lifetime commitment. just do your things first and by the time that you fulfilled all your dreams then it's time for you to think about getting married. everyone is entitled to dream regardless of their age.

If that's your dream, the chase it. Don't settle for someone else's idea of how to live your life. If you don't do it now, you will regret it every day of the rest of your life and could well come to resent those things that talked you out of your dream and those things that you chose instead of your dream. Honestly, that is no friend, someone you know, certainly, but a friend would be telling you to go for it. I have many regrets, but I chose to not marry and have children and have NEVER regretted that. Once you start a family that needs to be your priority, don't let "settling" for that to get in they way of your dreams.

I don't think you are too old to dream. As a matter of fact you are single and make a good living I assume so why not dream or even try to make small steps tward it. Those dreams get harder when you get married, buy a home, and even more crushed when you have kids.... so if you can find a way to do it make it happen girl!

Hi sweety It is never wrong to have dreams. You are your own person and you shouldn't do something just because your peers do. Isn't that what you would tell your kids in your class. It is meant for you too dear. Dreams keep us young at heart and have a purpose to succeed in life. Don't ever give up on your dreams.. Have a nice day and keep smiling.

I don't think that you can ever be too old to have your own hopes and dreams. We've all heard of the 98 year old woman who finally graduated from college! You are only in your mid-20's, so I wouldn't even worry about having lost your chance.

Hi there sweety, I admire your courage and plans. I would say that you will certainly reach your goals if you want to do it. Do not let others influence you perfect plan for yourself. People who become successful are the people who live up to their dreams. So go for it and live your life the way you want it to be.

You are never too old to follow your dreams. Personally, for me, dreams and goals are what make me feel alive. I strongly believe that if a person in general works hard, stays positive, and most importantly has patience and faith in himself or herself, and in a higher power, anything is possible when it comes to achieving those dreams and goals.

Decide for yourself,what u feel to achieve dear,I got married at 26,,study is fine,then u cannot study once u are married,also many girls have problems having children at a later stage,U decide for yourslef.

hello sweety, why worry about having a boy friend or getting married if that's not even in your interest, you should go for your dream first, no matter how long takes it for you to achieve it. i know how worried your parents are but you know having a relationship gets you to sacrifice a lot, i mean a lot, compromise this and that..i believe that with will and determination you can do it, you need to have the clear mind to focus on your dream and prove that to your parents. relationship and love can actually wait, it's just that some arrive early or too late for others, but the important is that if that will make you happy.

It is never late to have a dream. As long as you have some dreams and want to make them come true through your efforts, you should make efforts for your dreams and don't pay much attention to others' ideas. In the eyes of our parents, usually, girls shouldn't pay much attention to their career and what they should do is to get married with others and have babies. In fact, in such a society, the ideas of them have been out of date, which is the gap between two generations. If you want to make your dreams come true, then you shouldn't act in conformity with the majority. If you choose to follow public opinion, it will be difficult to follow your dreams.

Hi,sweetyethot,Earning money is not the only way of life. we must conform to the development of the nature and the development of the society.what's you mum said is right I think.you need to adapt to the interpersonal relationship of you and your mother's. married life is an important course,you need to think it over.hehe, I also do not want to get married at first.but now it is very funny.I have a son It can replace everything. Hope this info is helpful.

no thats no t at all teacher sorry baby just kidding god created this beautiful world for u and to enjoy in the way u want but not against the rules and we can dream everthing in any age because it is dream and dont come true if you can you can make ur dream come true

Hi, i am also from china, you are never old to dream. Dream make us confident and forward. Pls try your best to make your dream come true. Otherwise, you will regret for your life in the future. But it is not easy for us to reach our goal, sometimes we need to have the opportunity, we need somebody help. Not only our effort is enough. Marriage is the important part of our life, we marry because we meet someone that we love each other, it is a single thing. And i think it is not the direct connect between dream and marriage. Only do what you like and follow your feeling.

Hi sweety, Age is not a bar for achieving something. You are young and you can dream and can work hard for fulfilling your dreams. Don’t feel bad on other’s words and it is their view points, just think like that. Those kind of people are everywhere in the world, they need to discourage others and thinking that marriage life is everything for girls. Marriage life is also important but it is not a bar of achieving something or dreaming something. You please focus on your goal and you will get a suitable life partner in the meantime. All the very best.

26? of course you're still young. Achieving a dream has no limit. it's better to pursue your dream than looking for boyfriends. Men may come and go and leave you but when you pursue your dream it's a lifetime. The right person will come knocking your door you'll never know. I'm 31 and still single, and I am still looking forward for my dream. And I know God will give me the right man and the right time. Go for your dreams, pursue it and you'll never regret it. Keep being positive and everything will follow. Believe you can....Good Luck in pursuing your dreams

Hey im also 26 and still dreaming...where in the same boat,,,,,still single....it depends on you..you your own decision....the only question is... what makes you happy???? it is enough to make you happy to fulfill your dreams??? im happy for you taht you have a broad mind,, just keep dreaming.....its only free..and no other persons will take that from you ^^

I am also stuck in the same conundrum , I was in the military before I got my first degree which I got recently in computer science at a local university but I don't yet feel satisfied , I wanted to go back in the military as a specialist after my undergraduae degree was completed but I am reluctant to do this anymore , I feel that I should be doing something more with my life .. Basically what I want is something that I can do to give me financial freedom , create a solid foundation for my future family and also help people around me ... and the most important bit of it all ... I want to leave a good name behind to be remembered by many for years to come .. I don't want my life to be just ordinary ..I want it to be extraordinary . I also don't want to mint money like bill gates and other world billionaires do , I just want to be comfortable financially and be able to use my advantage to help other people archive the same level of comfort that I will be getting out of this. Time flies past very fast , I am 27 years now with no foundation or stepping stone to get me there where I want to be ..perhaps I am overly ambitious and will end up wasting my life pursuing futile dreams ....regardless of what happens .. I wont quit trying .. I hope it helps you to know that you are not alone ...there are many out there wanting to get more out of this life ... so don't feel bad ..just think keep thinking positive...our dreams will one day come true ..

Hi, sweetyethot. Nice to meet you here. As i see it,it's never too late to dream. I am a chinese girl like you,I am 20 now and receiving aducation in university. I think 26 is the most valuable time a girl have. Since you have a good job and have your own carrer. My parents don't allow me to have a boyfriend and urge me to receive further education. Maybe marriage is a fantastic thing for a lady, but I think we shall go with the flow and enjoy your life. Have a good day, perhaps MR.right is just around the corner.

Is there an age limit to dream? I don't think so. But how you visualize your dream? You have a dream to earn money, to go abroad and so on. Now assume that you achieved everything, will you be happy? I'm sure you will need someone to share your happiness. What if you lose all your nears and dears by the time you achieve all your dreams. You are 26 years old and your mother is right. But you need to find someone who will help you achieve your dream, who will walk with you in the path of your success. It's not that difficult to carry family and career simultaneously and at the end you will never regret that you lost one for the other. Believe me, you can do it.