sasmitadas

@sasmitadas (23)

India • Age 46

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Children hitting and being bullys

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 10 Dec 09

My son has come home from school yet again today and has said that this child has been punching my child in his chest,this has been an on going thing since Monday with the child punching my child in the chest,considering the child...

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sasmitadas You have taken very good action rather than personally handling the bully child. I've observed a particular nature of bully kids; they don't obey if you order, punish, or nag them. Probably when he will she your son's scar and his parents will make him...

10 Dec 09

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Do you think it's a good idea to tell your Partner how many lovers you had?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 10 Dec 09

I was listening to the radio this morning. The topic was talking about your past relationships with your current partner. They were asking do you ever think that it's a good idea to tell your new partner how many partners you have...

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sasmitadas It depends on your partner's attitude. If he/she is matured enough to understand and take it easy then no problem. Or else it's better to keep it secrect for the happy relationship. It's no-way wise to spoil the present and future because of the unsuccessful...

10 Dec 09

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Could you live without cell phone? Why or why not?

ck3259 @ck3259 (248) • Malaysia 10 Dec 09

I own a cell phone, I used it when necessary. I saw people in restaurants, driving down the road, walking, running, using the cell phone in any situation one can think of. Sometimes I go out with friends and their phone is ringing...

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sasmitadas I agree. As long as you are not using a facility, you don't feel any problem as such; but once you get used to and then someday you can't avail the facility then it becomes really tough to manage. In case of mobile, I feel this is a most essential way of...

10 Dec 09

Able to Forget your first love?

arunmails @arunmails (3011) • India 9 Dec 09

[b]Love. It creates magic in most of our lives.. most of us might have met love in our lives, during school days, college days, or in work place or whatever it may be... some may have the blessing of living with their first...

first

love

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sasmitadas For me, my first love is last, I'm blessed with a very successful love life. However, I don't think someone should forget his/her first love neither it should make someone worried. As long as you are happy with your memories, no issue.

9 Dec 09

Life is not fair, Don't you think?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 9 Dec 09

I saw that movie 2012 last night again, and it wasn't only about the natural disaster about the Earth comes to the near end, but about how unfair of human treating each other. When the disaster comes, what rights does the...

2012

life

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sasmitadas I don't think a movie or fiction can justify the whole situation of world. It depends on your own perspective; how and which fact of the world you are visualizing. Sometime people around you compel you to think as they do and believe me psychologically you...

9 Dec 09

Do you intend to sleep more during weekends?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 4 Dec 09

As we all know, we need to wake-up early during working days or during the weekdays. We need to do this to prepare our things and ourselves for the days work. As for me, I need to wake-up as early as 5 o'clock in the morning...

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sasmitadas Not only you and me, but I've seen this happening with all the working couples. But sometime when I get too late to wake up, I feel like more burdened as there will be a short of time for the pending works. So I try to maintain a balance with time, work, and...

5 Dec 09

Do you eat in a fast food chain?

bren_yrra @bren_yrra (354) • Philippines 5 Dec 09

Around the world, it's a fact that there are many fast food chains.For adult people who are busy, they want a fast food to be served in the soonest possible time.So, definitely, they eat in a fast food chain.For parents, they...

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sasmitadas I don't prefer for one reason. I can make more delicious and healthy food that my hubby and child love to eat. We hardly go to a fast food chain, may be on some special occasion. There is no harm in going out for fast food occasionally, but it should not be...

5 Dec 09

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Is spanking a bad child abuse or a punishment? Is spanking bad or good?

Jennifer_lee_88 @Jennifer_lee_88 (589) • United States 4 Dec 09

If spanking a child that is acting out a good way to teach that child to behave? Do you think is abuse or just a punishment? Do you spank you kids? Why or Why not? Do you think this will affect the child in a good or bad way?

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sasmitadas I can't say that spanking is good. Probably you will agree with me if you can understand the reason behind their mischief. Kids tend to do wrong things because they are not aware of the result and they don't understand or think as we do. That's the difference...

5 Dec 09

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Would you take your friends as business partners?

soledadclickz @soledadclickz (1106) • Philippines 30 Nov 09

I have just incorporated a company with my friends as co-incorporators. Many have advised me against it. They told me that it would be a bad idea as I could lose them because of money matters. In my case, I chose them as my...

business partners

friends

friends as business partners

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sasmitadas You are not wrong but I don't prefer this. I think, money spoils the relationship and friends or relatives should not be included in such business. Now that you have already chosen your friends as business partner, try to keep the partnership and friendship...

30 Nov 09

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We are completing Forty yrs of married life

maygodblessu44 @maygodblessu44 (7336) • India 30 Nov 09

Hello everyone here Ji, We were married on 02 Dec, 2069, goingto complete our 40 yrs of long relatioship with many sweet and sourtaste to the life. I wish to join all those couples who too have completed such land-marks....

married life

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sasmitadas Congratulations. May your future days bring more happiness to you. I believe in such relationships. For sure you are an example for the people who never believe in arrange marriage or who assumes that it's too difficult to get marry to a person, whom you don't...

30 Nov 09

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Is our online earning something we should keep to oursselves?

punjab911 @punjab911 (240) • Canada 30 Nov 09

Hi everyone, I have been thinking for a while about his. Is earning onlnie something we should keep to ourselves? Think about it, if some guy comes up to you and asks you how much you daily income is from your job (this guy is a...

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sasmitadas No, you should not reveal it to a stranger. However there is no harm to guide somebody by giving an overall idea or some example. Whatever be the matter, think twice before discussing it to a stranger.

30 Nov 09

I am fed up of trying to be nice to a friend that has no respect for my feelings

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 30 Nov 09

well if you had a friend that used to text you at least once a week then they stopped for no reason and yet you did text them and they never bothered to text you would you make any more effort.If you left an inbox on facebook and...

feelings

never bothers

respect

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sasmitadas It happens most of the time in our busy schedule. However, you should try to know if anything wrong happened to your friend and if you are very sure that there is no such reason then just wait for some days without sending any mail. True friends will never...

30 Nov 09

How many schools have you changed?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 29 Nov 09

I friends I was one of those luck/unlucky guys used to change schools very frequently, till my 10th standard I have changed to almost 8 schools, sometimes it used to interesting but some times very boring as I had to start with...

change schools

friends

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sasmitadas Changing schools frequently affects on a child's education. It's very difficult to get settled and to catch up other kids. Fortunately my parents never did that; me, my brother-sisters, and my mom got settled at one place and my dad used to switch between our...

30 Nov 09

Parents letting their kids run around in the mall unsupervised

saizo6 @saizo6 (2199) • United States 29 Nov 09

This is just something I'm seeing a lot of lately. The parents would be eating in the food court and their kids would be running around on the other side. I know that they are in the general vicinity of each other but some of...

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sasmitadas How careless the parents are!!! It's true that a child should enjoy freedom but not in a public place or in a place where it is too risky. I never let my child go alone without any guidance. City life is totally different from village life. In a village...

30 Nov 09

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What do you like to eat (fruits or vegetables)

neelimaravi @neelimaravi (1793) • India 26 Nov 09

hi friends, good morning, actually fruits and vegetables are more healthy for everybody, there is no compramise in both. i think fruits give us immediate energy, vegetables give us healthy. frankly speaking, mostly i prefer to eat...

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sasmitadas Though I don't like fruits very much, I eat occasionally. But I love fresh vegetables. I feel like making delicious foods out of the green fresh vegetables and eat whenever I go to buy them. But, now a days the use of pesticides and chemicals are making the...

26 Nov 09

How much time do you spend on surfing the internet?

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 26 Nov 09

Hmm.. If you will ask me, cause i don't have a permanent work right now but, making money online... It's like, uhm... i spend almost 8 hours sometimes much more time, just to earn money and help other people as well. I help people...

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sasmitadas Internet is the most easy and faster media to communicate. Whenever I get time for surfing online from my busy schedule, first I check mail, then quickly go to the tasks where I can earn some money, meanwhile I play some good music which really gives energy...

26 Nov 09

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How to increase the confidence level in children?

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 25 Nov 09

The confidence in one is more important to work.....how to increase the confidence level in kids....Few of the kids they feel that how much if we say also that no I can't reach to that stage....I can't they say....How to say them...

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sasmitadas I will tell you a better idea. You need some acting skill, act as if you are less eligible than your kid to do the task and ask help from your kid to do that. Praise them, get surprised, and try from your side to do that and see how it works. Your child will...

26 Nov 09

Do You Often Make a Plan for the Next Day?

niuniu1 @niuniu1 (166) • China 25 Nov 09

do you often make a plan for the coming day?sometimes i felt i do nothing when i lay on the bed at night,i would feel upset then,and decideded i should work hard tomorrow,but no detail plan,the next day the same,so what about...

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sasmitadas I always plan certain things like traveling, inviting friends, any pending task, or to do something new. It helps me a lot in completing tasks in time and saving time. If you see, the corporate culture is been driven by your daily requirement, and if you are...

26 Nov 09

Happy Thanksgiving to My Mylot family

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 26 Nov 09

Happy Thanksgiving to all of the mylot family. This year, more than any other year in my past I find that I have a lot to be thankful for despite the fact that I have less than I've had in the past as far as materialism. So, to...

family

thankful

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sasmitadas I'm always thankful to god and my family members. As long as you think of materialism, you can't be thankful to your well-wishers with a fair heart and I believe in love and peace which you will never get from any material.

26 Nov 09

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our living room has been flooded!

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 26 Nov 09

it rained cats and dogs for a week now and i we weren't expecting so much water that it got to the extent of getting in our house especially in the living room. it happened midnight yesterday while all of us are asleep. when we...

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sasmitadas So definitely you would have to do something so that next time it won't happen. Speak to your owner if it is a rented house and if it is your own flat then no issue. However, if the landlord does not take any action, do something to prevent it. You can't...

26 Nov 09