Able to Forget your first love?

Hi. It's really hard to forget all the "firsts" in our lives. That would certainly include "first love."

I have had many years to forget my first love and while I do remember, it's like it was a dream, the memories are there but the feelings are unreal

In everything, there is always a first time. It is precisely because of this first time that one may fumble and stumble and hence remember for life. It is also precisely because of this first time that one experiences something one has not experienced before and hence remember for life. So to answer your question, there is a possibility one may forget but the memory will not be totally erased.

Yes friend it is difficult to forget first love for any person who sincerely loves.We cannot forget anything which has occurred first time in our love.It feels great pain to do so,but we need to adjust our self according to the needs and deeds of our life,and we must go on with our life,just enjoy your life,never be sad in your life.If it was your mistake that made you away from first love then go and tell about your love and lead a happy life.

Hi arun, I think I can NEVER forget my first love. He is the one who taught me almost everything in love. And also he is the one who first break my heart. And he is the first guy who made a break up with me. It is so sad that our story never went well because he made the other woman pregnant.

The answer is NO. I can't forget my first love because it was special and I won't forget how we broke up either.

I don't believe anyone will ever forget there first love. Even if they move on and love someone else that memory will always be there.

first love is very hard to forget...its not easy to forget the person who have changed ur lyf...

It is always hard to foget the first love and the first everything, it is on that you base some experiences... I do remember him, but most ofthe time i never think about him, mainly because i have found one whom im with now i love even higher and have more qualities...

First love is pure, sincere and impressed, it's a beautiful memory in all of our lives. I can't forget my first love, which blossomed my life. I once blessed my first love can be successful, but it failed because of many factors.

Hi Arun, I am glad you asked that question! I am one lucky woman! My first love became my husband 6 months ago. He is my best friend and I am so happy with him. I still do shed tears when talking about my first love, because he is amazing and I love him so much. If he wasn't my first love, and I moved on with my life and got married, then I would say that I would have a difficult time forgetting my fist love, but I would grow closer to my spouse and start remembering the times with my spouse and not my first love. Also, I have a theory - I believe in the "One True Love". So, when you are "in love" and something happens to that relationship and you move on - then you might realize that you weren't TRULY in love with that person...you just thought that until you found your REAL true love. Thanks for the great post!

We all remember our first love. At least what we thought was love. When we finally have that special love the others no longer matter. You don't forget them by any means you always remember their names and faces what you did. Its the emotions you felt that no longer exist when true love enters your life. You don't think of these people unless someone mentions first love first kiss like now. The thought no longer makes you happy or sad because you have the love of your life. Believe me I've been married twice and thought I was in love. At 42 I have true love finally my past is exactly that a thing of the past, and the people that were in it no longer are for a reason. You'll find that special person that will make you forget all the past and look only at the present and future

For me, my first love is last, I'm blessed with a very successful love life. However, I don't think someone should forget his/her first love neither it should make someone worried. As long as you are happy with your memories, no issue.

I do not think you can completely forget your first love. I think we can move on and think of the great times, however, we are human and everyone has a heart. I believe that everyone will have great loves but there will only be one first love.

I have a daily reminder being married to him.I dated many guys in my time but never knew how special things could be, much less love. But this one was love at first site. 25 years and counting he was my ,In my senior class at school.

Hi arun! It is difficult to forget 'first' love, first kiss, first success, first job in our life. Memory of every 'first' remains always fresh in our minds and we never forget those experiences through out our lives. Whenever, need arises, we can recall those lovely moments.

I havent had a first real love. Though I think I almost had it. Its just all too complicated that the feeling in itself just wasnt able to grow to its full bloom. I guess I just nipped it in the bud before I was in too deep, cause I know that it's just not possible between us. It could work if we both would want it to work given some sacrifices that we would have to make, but sad to say that its also possible that I was the only one feeling that way. I still think of him a lot but Im trying to forget. Its just hard being trapped between two emotions. I cant go forward cause I might be nothing more for him, but I cant go back because Im already at the point where Im in now. Like most "firsts", I think most people really cannot forget their first love. Sure, the feeling would be gone over time, but the mind cannot forget the point where we first gave our hearts to someone, hoping to be loved back. There are those who are fortunate to receive the others' heart in return, but there are also those who just end up hoping and longing for something that they might never get from that person. That's just what I think anyway..

how can somebody forget the first love is the basic training in love i can never forget my first love i would do anything to bring hear back but it seams that everything you try is noth efective so life goes on whit only a beutiful memory of what a grate love it was :(

Yes definitely, I can't for get her, but the emotions have gone. Especially the ones that make you feel depressed. Can I ask you a question? Have you found someone else? most likely not from reading your post. But I'd say once you find some one else, you forget about the first