Have a relationship with a partner that does not know how to communicate?
By barbara7321
@barbara7321 (240)
United States
November 22, 2009 7:04pm CST
Maybe he knows how? Maybe he doesn't? I am not used to this sort of relationship. Any advice before I break up with him?
2 responses
@eddiechoohn (340)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 09
How long have you dated with him?
What has he done that made you think that he does not know how to communicate?
@barbara7321 (240)
• United States
23 Nov 09
It has been a year now. Well, everytime I want to discuss something with him, he tells me he is tired, or the discussion is over, or that he is not getting into it right now. We never deal with anything, and he thinks that time heals everything. I am not to bring it up though or he considers me as 8itching at him.
@eddiechoohn (340)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 09
If thats the case, i suggest you tell him about how you felt. How you want him to talk and face problems pr issues that both of you are facing. I think he is just another lazy and inmature guy who needs time and lecture to bring out his sensitivity.
Good Luck: )
Happy Mylotting
@barbara7321 (240)
• United States
24 Nov 09
*sighs* It has been three evenings and he has not came home yet. I don't know why I put myself through this.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
23 Nov 09
hi barbara!...yah it's not really healthy relation if you partner doesn't know how to communicate, did you talk about this? if yes and he still he doesn't know, there's really problem with him, it's time to end up and move on..