is it unfair or what?

I also have found that ,I think it is a nice game that the Lord is playing.

What an interesting question. Normal can be sooooooo over rated. Anyway, looking good is nice, but not everything.Maybe you want to dabble on the other side of the fence and you just don't know it? Could be struggling with your subconscious? I have seen many beautiful gay men, as well as nasty gay men. Many good looking, and nasty straight men. I never thought about it before. Will be interesting to read the other responses.