Would you like to make friends with the guys speaking rudely?
By lubeimao
@lubeimao (118)
China
November 24, 2009 1:22am CST
Some people babble a lot willingly to kill time.When job is too tedious and dull ,paintaking and tense,or when they want to earn the applause,they have to take the idecent words out of mouth to arouse people's interest.But there are also evil guys ,they deliberately speak some indecent words in the presence of young ladies .The first guy who bursts out the dirty words if the one who would like to draw the ladies' attention .because they are lack of confidence and have to get approach to ladies in this way.Some may speak dirty words without malice,some say it for fun,some may try to follow the fashion.My dear friends ,would you like to make friends with these guys who like to speak dirty words?why?
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8 responses
@aixshaonline (600)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
I hate all guys who speak rudely to other people, especially to women. I still don't get it why some guys would prefer to do so. Attention-seekers will do everything just to catch attention, even if it is in a rude way. I admit, my friends and I do speak dirty at times, especially when we are joking around (we usually do when we are the only ones in a place).
I personally do not talk to people who speak rudely. I do not like to have any kind of association with such people. It may sound harsh, but I don't feel comfortable with those kind of people.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
25 Nov 09
I don't use bad language, and most of my friends don't either. I guess sometimes people use that kind of language for the shock value or to get attention. It doesn't really bother me if someone uses that kind of language, but I always felt you should be able to express yourself without swearing. It would bother me if the language was constant I guess.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
24 Nov 09
yea i have seen some people getting lot more attention using this technique by using or demonstrating which other don't do often,well you cant blame them poor guys they need some attention it seems,but when things get out of hand it needs to be acted upon.there are many type of people who does this mainly to get attraction among women thinking they are acting cool.
@annenica1986 (28)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
Since I don't know them, I don't think I'd want to befriend them because it is somewhat disrespectful in a sense. One should also learn when and where to speak like that... if you're around some people you don't or barely know, then it'd be good if you maintain this air of respect for other people as it gives away an impression of that person's personality. but if they talk like that and we're already friends, then it's ok with me... but if I were to befriend someone like that, never mind. :D
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
24 Nov 09
I would not be friend with someone who does not respect others, specially women. In college my friend circle consists of about 9 people. We sit together and chat together. There are 4 girls in the group. We often speak dirty (including the girls) but that is just fun. We did not use such words when we first got to know each other. But we have been friends for more than 3 years and have grown close. We know that none of us means any harm or has a bad intention for the other.
But there are boys in my class who speak dirty actually meaning them and that is very very wrong. I hate that kind of attitude and it is disgusting.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
24 Nov 09
hi lubeimao, in casual sense is ok for me but in professional sense like your inside the office, well i will be frank to the dirty tongue colleague to shut up his/her mouth, if his/her own way to have his/her confidence well do it so during coffee time..
