Life and gratitude
By PeacefulWmn9
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
United States
November 25, 2009 12:08pm CST
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Nov 09
I start my day with a prayer of praise and thanksgiving for another day of life, for a sound sleep and for the new life blessed upon my family. I too ask for wisdom to do the right and best things during the day. i extend some help to our child caregiver in preparing our breakfast and preparing the kids to school. I smile with people i meet on my way to work. I say thank you to the cab driver for a safe trip to work, i used to greet our office guard and everyone in office a smile and share snacks with them. I used to buy extra bread and 3-in-1 coffee so i can have something to share to my officemates.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Nov 09
Karen,
This year i have a great thing to be thankful for being in mylot, for meeting many friends from all over the world, for sharing the fun and above all --earning an additional blessing!
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
26 Nov 09
Hi Karen !
I always thank the great God for the blessing He has bestowed upon me and His kindness towards me. I do not forget to convey my heartfelt ‘thanks’, if somebody does favour to me. I always feel grateful for the favour and try my best to repay the same, in whatever manner I can. Prayer is also one of the ways to convey our gratitude to the Almighty. I am really impressed with your idea of writing ‘your blessings’ on the journal. It is better to write because we possibly cannot remember each and every event in details and our mind has limited capacity. Also, writing posts on myLot is also not less than a diary for keeping records of events happening in our life.
Have a great day!
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
27 Nov 09
Hi Karen!
How and where do you maintain your diary?
(I'm not goint to search it..........LOL!
just asking to know if I can also do the same thing for my own record, our memory might fail us one day, but not the typed/written record)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Nov 09
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@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
25 Nov 09
Hello Karen, I have started going through the attitude of gratitude thing and I really like it. At the end of the day just before I retire for the night I do have a little ceremony that I perform. I say a prayer and give thanks and I write it down on a piece of paper. I then burn this piece of paper in a little pot and it feels quite powerful as I am submitting this prayer and the smoke slowly rises after the flame has been distinguised and only ashes are left. I sense that the smoke slowly rises and becomes one with the Universe. I like this ceremony and it's something I like to do. Andrew
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@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
25 Nov 09
Hi Karen, you are more than welcome to use the ceremony yourself! They say that when you carry out an action with prayer or submitting requests to the universe then it suddenly becomes more powerful. Anyway, nice chatting with you. Take care. Andrew
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
If referring to our dear God. I will show my gratitude in a thanksgiving mass. I always go to church to praise him then have a little prayer to say thanks for his good did unto me.
If this is referring to a person. If someone help me and or did something kind to me. I always show gratitude saying thanks and God bless. So that God, will one to repay him/her if I will not pay back those kindness...
Hello Karen, nice to participate in your discussion again. Long time no talk my dear friend. Have a nice day!
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
hi karen,i think for me is just a simple thank is great and that is alright already but for some they return any favor to say thank you like giving gift or cooking and baking food to appreciate what this people do to them because of the help and that is sign of gratitude.other health alliance they give free medical consultation and some do dole outs to help more people especially those under served people in my place.i also participate in volunteering for charitable cause and i am happy doing something for others and that is life give and take.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
yes your right,i am pity to those street children wailing away from their homes and have been abducted to work by abuser for money and another especially those civilians that was caught in the war and was being killed with no reason.armed conflict are existing still in some of my place that makes our government pursuing to catch them.yes just a simple thank you makes a person a happy.doing volunteering makes me feel good and that i can share to many less fortunate people especially those who are not involve in the war conflict. have a nice day..
@victory12 (348)
• Nigeria
26 Nov 09
My favorite way to show gratitude is to say thanks and pray for the person so that God can shower more of His blessing upon the person. The only ritual thing i do everyday is just to thank God for given the grace to see another day .
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@victory12 (348)
• Nigeria
26 Nov 09
We are having holiday here in my country too because tomorrow is Muslim (Islam) day. Although am not a Muslim but i have some friend who are Muslim
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
25 Nov 09
Hi Karen,
Well I pray and say Thanks, I go to temples whenever I can, but I don't have a fixed day or time set.
I try to be kind but I guess I could improve a lot in that aspect. maybe someday I will.
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@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi Karen,
when I posted this response it was around 1, past midnight and now it is about 10 in the morning and I am on a cup of coffee and sneaking into mylot, hhehehehe... ![](/Content/images/emotes/lol.gif)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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@doryvien (2284)
• United States
26 Nov 09
Hi Karen,
Indeed there is every reason to be grateful, just being here in this world is enough reason to thank God. I thank Him for giving me a wonderful family, a job to help my husband augment the family income, a home to stay. Every night before going to bed, I pray to thank him for everything, and ask forgiveness for the things that I have done wrong, and those that I should have done but didn't.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
27 Nov 09
Hi Doryvien,
You forgot to mention...you are blessed for having us "the power puff girls minus one" to keep you sane and cheer you up. What are you waiting for, come i have something for you "pandesal"/bread. Have a great weekend!
Hi K,
Doryvien is a good friend of mine and she's the one who referred me here.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Nov 09
A couple of the ways that I show that I am grateful for the things that people have done for me are to give people that have helped me out in some way a gift of some sort, usually something that I've made for them.
I also do a lot of thanking in the prayers that I say every night before I go to bed.
Finally, I pay forward the good acts that have been done for me. I donate to charity as much as I can and instead of throwing away the things that are no longer useful to me, I will see if I can find someone who could put those things to use again.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Nov 09
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@olepmis (840)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
When I became a christian, God commanded us to give thanks in whatever situation we are in be it a blessing or trials. So always give thanks to God for everything you do to show your gratefulness and as a worship to God for His unconditional love for us. ![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Nov 09
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@alexysabelle (905)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
saying a sincere THANK YOU to the One who gave us all the blessing is enough i think. Plus being a good person. :-)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@SCANDINEVIAN (67)
• India
27 Nov 09
Hello
I think prayers are the process of self empowerment. It is the process that makes us feel our strenght and ability. And the offering self towards the super power that lead the whole universe.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Nov 09
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@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
27 Nov 09
Karen,
first of all I would like to thank you for initiating such a topic for discussion. I don't think miracle happens when you get something you've wished for long, like a car or an apartment. Miracle happens when you suddenly feel the love of God and your faith that God is there to protect and love you, gets stronger. God has created us, so he loves and adores us just like our parents do. I do prayers. Everybody does. Absolute wisdom comes with the realization that God's blessings are the most valuable possession we have. Everything else is temporary and perishable. Even if all we have at preset is suddenly taken away from us, there is no reason to believe that god has abandoned us. The belief that He is the one who always decides for our good is the ultimate gratitude, I think. Gratitude is not to divert from the path of faith and righteousness no matter what.
I highly value the tendency of human beings to help each other. But one has to remember the fact that its not Us who is actually helping. In reality, it is God who is letting us be a means to serve others, he is letting us serve a holly cause. When we are helping the family, the needy we are certainly not doing a favor to anybody. One should really consider himself fortunate if he gets such opportunities.
Take care.. and God bless you all....?
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
28 Nov 09
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
25 Nov 09
Hi Karen, I have thought about this discussion long and hard and to be honest I found it difficult but I guess someone who has depression and find life tough views life and gratitude not going so hand in hand, I do try to take what mother nature has given to us as a blessing, watching the wonderful animals, the fauna and things that we take for granted such as the beautiful sunsets, and the ocean, which incidentially I find extremely therapeutic. So for me at the moment it's not life I see with gratitude but what mother nature gives us unconditionally if that makes sense?
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Nov 09
Hi, Karen,
I thank God for what he has given me so far.
I thank the people who helped me.
I try my best to help the needy people within my capacities.
I try my best to help my friends and relatives within my personal and financial abilities.
I try my best to share my knowledge with others.
I try my best to make others happy.
I try my best to make others laugh-I am almost like a joker at such times, lol.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Nov 09
peacefulwmn9 although I have and am still in a sad situation I do have gratitude that I am safe here at Gold crest. that I have some good friends,and I am alive, also am thankful my son come to see me often. yes even
now I pray to God with thanks for all he has given me.I try to help others here whenever I can even with just a pulled out chair or a helping hand or just a smile. I also journal every day.![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
26 Nov 09
KAREN, I hope u & your family have a wonderful , happy thanksgiving.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
26 Nov 09
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@Humanalex (31)
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25 Nov 09
I think the best way to show gratitude is a simple thank you. It goes a long way, just remember back to the times when you were thanked!
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
25 Nov 09
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