I Might Come a 1000 Years Later To Your Discussion But I'm Still Your Friend
By zed_k4
@zed_k4 (17589)
Singapore
November 28, 2009 9:35pm CST
I just feel like saying that. Do you have any special wish or wishes to your mylot friends that you want to say personally, if you ever have any chance to do that. For me, I might miss out some comments or discussions, but that doesn't mean I don't care. I might be ignorant of that, or forgotten to. But once I see, I'll never let it go. So hence, the title to my discussion. So if it means I come back a year later or just a second in time or a day after, I'm still going to be the same person that I am. So how about you guys?
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
29 Nov 09
Hi Zed,
Feeling sentimental my friend?!!! well, if we already established a friendship the imprint will always be there no matter what... zed will always be remembered, will always be a friend!...
to all my mylot friends...take it easy, let's all have fun here and i will try my best to reach out to you by patronizing your discussions. IF BY CHANCE YOU'LL NOT SEE THIS BUTTERFLY ON PLEASE HOLD ON TO THIS: goodbyes are necessary for two or more persons to meet again. Meeting again after moments of lifetime is sure to those who are FRIENDS. we will still meet here in MYLOT...OURLOT!
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
30 Nov 09
Very well said, msfrancisco! I really like the last part especially; that's just so2x awesome. I'm feeling kind of wondering where all friends are; whether they are also sometimes busy like me and feeling helpless to answer lots of discussions that they have created, LOL. I try my very2x best, and I try to be as active as possible, but the time is always not enough... ha... but you saying that has given some meaningful insight and I'm so glad. Thanks yeah..
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
30 Nov 09
...since we already established friendships here no wonder that we will be keeping in touch in whatever way we can because we will be missing each other's candidness, frankness, "rudeness", naughtiness LOL, etc. There are so many reasons to rekindle friendships--- a lot here in mylot, ourlot!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
30 Nov 09
I will just wanna say, Thanks for being there for me, and not forgetting about me, no matter how long i might be gone.. hehe ^_^
Real friendship wont be breaking up that easily, just because of long periods of absence?? Real friendship is patient, and it's reasonable.. They will only get stronger along with time.. The longer the absence, the stronger the bond, as when they meet up, they have lots of catching up to do, and that's where more interest, common topics, comes in.. haha =D
And i agree with what u said.. Time is actually a passing cloud.. haha =D It might bline us for some moments, but once the dark clouds passed us, we will be able to see our frenz again, and be back to where we felt welcome.. haha =D
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Nov 09
Kitty hi there it is so good to see you again
It is great News that little one is home and I understand your worry you have all been through a lot so of course you will worry
Please keep letting me know how you are doing and I hope your Daughter is much better
Much Love and a big Hug to you all
I am so glad to see you I was getting worried about you
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Hello my friend
What a great discussion this is, and how amazing that I have two friends on the same page as me that I was able to say hello to as well.
Thanks for being there for me my friend, the baby is home and doing so well, I shall return once she gains more weight and I know she is 100% o.k, although I know in my heart this is the case, but unfortunately I am a worrier so I just need to be sure
So good to see you here my friend, thanks for all the messages and warm thoughts, they mean so much to me, I will never forget it.
Hope your Thanks giving was great, we had a good time we all went to my brothers and we had a ball.
Smoochesssss my friend.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Hello my friend
They are both doing really well my friend, like I said I know it will stay this way, I give it a few more weeks then I will feel a whole lot better
Thanks for the hug my friend, I will keep you posted, thanks for being such a wonderful friend.
Smoochesssss
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Nov 09
hi zed I am the same way.If I say I will be your friend I willstill be your friend two or ten or three years from now.
I do not waver when I commit to friendship. I wish all my friends a happy evening and good luck, wish I could meet some of you face to face, and want to tell a certain Lamb to come back safely or else. I will always want to comment and respond to all my mylot friends. great discussion zed. good luck God bless
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
I couldnt agree more with you on that, zed. I often miss some discussions or responses, among other things, but regardless of that I just want my friends to know that I also do care and think about them. I might not make my presence/ thoughts known but its always there. When I do have the chance to, I will show them in the best possible way that I can that they do matter to me . I might be late in responding, commenting, or whatnot but Im still here somewhere, thinking of them, ...and maybe even stalking them.LOL
That's about it I guess. Happy Holidays everyone!
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Hey zed! You are always welcome in my discussions no matter when
you get there! I don't care if you are a year late or 1000 years
late, just as long as you get there! I am very grateful to have
you as a friend and that is all that matters! I am constantly
late for discussions, but my friends know that! At least I do
get there...eventually! So, take all the time you need or want,
just know that you are always welcome...Hugs, Opal
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Hello my friend
Thank you so much for your kind words, you all are so wonderful I will always remember how great you all are too me, my family is doing so much better thank god, and thank you all for being there, and caring.
I miss mylot so much, but for some reason I can't get back into it the way I was before until I can give 100% and I am not ready to do that,soon I will be able to do this, right now I am loving my grand she is so beautiful and I give her all my love and time, so bare with me I will be back eventually as of right now my main focus is her.
I will share pics soon, just know that kitty is never to far away, I shall return my wonderful friends.
Smoochesssssss
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
6 Dec 09
That's ok Zed. No matter how long you are away, you will receive a mighty welcome when you return because your friends will miss you true. Don't worry too much, there is always something taking someone away from the Lot...it happens all the time.
I'll be here for you and I will still be your friend too.
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@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
that is so sweet of you zed... that made me wish i have started a discussion for you to respond to even if it took you an eon later.
that busy huh? hehe i could hear the long sigh from here.
it may only be a few discussions, but during those times with you and linda (aka xiaolin)... perked up my otherwise busy days setting up my new business. that was the first time i have ever run out of chatting space in a discussion. hahaha miss you guys.
i totally understand the feeling... of wanting to say something you feel like saying... just because. sometimes when i could not utter the words, i just feel like doing hugs. hehe just because.
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@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
thanks zed for being ultra nice.
one of the things that kept me coming back to mylot is because of the people i have come to meet and interact with... who were nice and had been helpful and quite encouraging in more ways than a simple discussion has allowed us to do. you're one of those "nice" ones zed. hehehe
stay sweet. no matter how busy we tend to be.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
1 Dec 09
Hello mylesn...it's definitely great to hear from you again. You are right; ever since that chat, I've also been busy here and there and I do understand that all of us have lots of things to do, schedules to meet and other work commitments, including personal stuffs, so once in awhile, being able to get down and answer discussions and interact, it's just so2x fun. Thanks for being a part of mylot journey, you and other friends too..
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
29 Nov 09
Hello friend. I can see and understand what you say. I appreciate the nice words from you and I am sure that you will be still the same friend of mine. I also see that it is not easy for all of us to encounter and respond to all of the discussions of our friends as there are so many discussions to show up each day. The latest can always have more chances to be responded to. Take care, zed.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
30 Nov 09
Hello williamjisir, thanks so2x much for your wonderful response. I really respect members of the lot, especially you and others whom have been longer in the lot than me. Without you guys, we might have lost hope and given up. But the bond and friendship that all of us have here, it gives a sense of belonging definitely. And that's why I find it hard to get fully active on other sites, because my heart always belongs here..
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
30 Nov 09
Yeah, I see. That's why I am more interested in mylot rather than other social sites. I am glad to have so many familiar friends here as well as new ones.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Even if it takes a 1000 years, I'll be sitting right here waiting on you!!! Good friends are worth the wait!!! I do understand that "real" gets in the way sometimes, but I know you will be here when you can. We form "SPECIAL" bonds here...bonds that aren't easily broken!!! I mean this to ALL my friends!!!! Love each & everyone of you!!!
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
30 Nov 09
That's one of the sweetest thing ever, Marissa! I love you and the rest of our lot friends too..........you guys have made my life so colorful and I don't care even if it's the internet life, because there are faces and feelings in front of the PC and the hearts type the words and that's all that matters..
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
1 Dec 09
I feel exactly the same as you do zed, especially during the last couple of weeks because I have not had as much time here as I usually do and I am waaaay behind in responding to my friends’ discussions but respond I will! Your discussion is already three days old but I got here eventually! I made a commitment to be friends when I accepted or made a friend request so I will endeavour to always give some response to everyone’s topics, as you say it may be a lot later than planned but I will get there in the end!
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
2 Dec 09
And nothing is lost on me, which means that I will always appreciate friends like you, Paula, whom takes time to answer friends' discussions. Thanks yeah..
I try my very best too, although it is also sometimes hard because when cool friends are active, I try my best to catch up on the latest discussions as well as the slightly older ones. But that's cool. Lots of discussions mean good business* for me, LOL.. have a great day, Paula and thanks for dropping by..
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Hello my friend
How are you, hope all is well with you, hope your Holiday was a great one as well.
So glad to read this from you, I am so behind and knowing you feel this way makes me feel so much better lol I have so much going on at this moment, in time I will catch up so no worries, just hope everyone else else feels the same way you feel.
For my friends that I have not been active with, please forgive me just know that kitty has alot on her plate at this time, when I am able to clear these things I will return and things will be as they should, until then my friends, don't forget about kitty, for I will never forget you all.
Thanks for letting me share this my friend
Smoochesssss, see you soon.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
1 Dec 09
Hello Kitty, what have been latest from you? Glad to see you around, thanks so much, for coming and embracing this discussion and other comments with your positive cheerfulness, I appreciate it very much. We will all still be here for you when you can be active again. No worries and do take care wherever you are, aite..
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Hello my friend
Thanks again for this wonderful discussion, we have many friends in common that says so much so glad you started this discussion.
I will be back soon, until then you keep posting/responding I will catch up in time, always nice reading thoughts from my wonderful friends.
Smoochessss
@hexeduser22 (7419)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Wow what a nice thing to say. I couldn't agree more! I hope all people here have the same mindset because sometimes i notice new lotters adding friends because they want their friends to respond in their discussion.
"It's the thought that counts"
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Nov 09
... and the clock that ticks taking the minutes away and leaving no time to get everywhere
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
1 Dec 09
Cool phrase of the thought that counts.. awesome. I can see new users genuinely creating new discussions and a lot have yet to answer. To all new users, a great and big warm welcome. Just relax and go with the flow. I'm sure with time, you guys will have more friends and having more discussions to answer. Thanks for your response, hexeduser, you are a great mylot friend..
@GardenGerty (160626)
• United States
29 Nov 09
I know that many members ware my friends, even if they do not make it to my discussion. I know what you mean about always coming back.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Nov 09
That's what I like about MyLot,there is no time limit. I have many posts that I started that get a reaponse Yearslater.As long as you remain active,you will always be on my friends list.
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@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
1 Dec 09
Awww.....that's so sweet of you and the message which you sent across is really nice. If I had to say something to my frendz here, I would like to thank them for their support and suggestions for so many important decisions of my life. So, How are you doing?
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@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
4 Dec 09
I got the same words for you. I am always available for friends. My friends are most important part of my life and no matter how far we go or how many years we dont communicate but i am still the same best friend for you always.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Hi, zed. I agree with you. I am going to be cream97 even though years have passed. I feel like saying this too. Sometimes mylotter's may expect you to respond back to every discussion. But it is impossible sometimes. One thing about me is that I appreciate every persons response to any of my discussions. I don't take nothing in vain. I am delighted to receive comments to my discussions. I may not be able to respond back as fast as they would like me to. But, I am cream97, that will never change.
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@doryvien (2284)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Hi Zed,
Same here. While I don't respond to each and every discussion my myLot friends start, I make sure I check on them everytime I'm here, and see if I can contribute something to their discussions. Unfortunately, I can't be an all-knowing person and I prefer not to respond if I have nothing relevant to say. So I might pop in and out of their myLot lives, but I'm just here, always a friend.
Nice post.
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