Singles - How old will You Get Married?

So, if you think to settle I suggest you to follow those ages, my friend. When did you plan to get married with your boyfriend?

Hi aerous thaks for sharing... I also read some articles about that scientific studies you have mentioned... but I don't want to rush on things just to conceive at that age. When I think that my whole aspect of life is ready and well prepared, that's the time I will say my "i do"... God bless you...

Hi littlehill, I like what you have said. It is pretty true that most people who are married at the early age find their self being trapped, that they look for some freedom... which result to a divorce or annulment. I think it is wise to enjoy first your singlehood for a long period of time before starting a family.

God knows what is best for us. His thoughts are higher than then the thoughts of man. Lets seek His wisdom and will with our whole heart, praying that He would give what is best for us. We should not rush on things.. We should have the faith that in perfect time, God will give what our heart desires. God bless...

Hi karen, thanks for sharing... I agree with you that maturity and love are really important in making any decisions before marrying. We should be matured in thinking and must realized that marriage life it not that easy.. it has a lot of trials.. a lot of ups and downs... we must be emotionally, physically, spiritually, and financially prepared. May you find the desire of your heart my friend. God bless to you.

Hi friend, it is really important that anyone should be well prepared both physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and financially before accepting the matrimony of marriage. Nowadays, the usual age for that people got married is about 30s for the reason that most people are stable in both career and life in this age.

Marriage is wonderful and worth waiting for. It is one of the most wonderful feeling, having at the side of your most beloved partner and having fruits for the joy and love you both shared together. But this is only true if that person is the one meant for you. So we should not rush on things that we might get the wrong one. I guess there is no specific right age for marrying... we just need to prepare our self and be ready before entering the marriage life. God bless to you. Best wishes for your marriage life in advance.

Hi there... yes it's true.. get married when you are ready. Marriage is not a game to play but a life to face. Marriage life is a another phase of life that needs patience and understanding. It is then very important that you are well prepared and ready before stepping into this new phase of life called "marriage"

Very well said... I agree with you, marriage life is not all about age but it is more on the responsibilities that each couple are willing to do. If both think that they are willing to give up their singlehood days and step into a new phase of life called "marriage" then that's the time they could tie the knot regardless of age as long as it is a legal age.

Hi zkapfo123, I understand what you are trying to say. I know it's true that the more older the woman is especially after age 30, the more risk in conceiving. But I want to be fully prepared before starting a family. But how about you, what is your ideal age for marriage?... I know guys have no worries with their age especially regarding marriage.

Yes... and I agree with you. Enjoy being single, because when you're married there are things that you cannot do anymore that you do while you are a free woman. But you must not abuse your freedom, you must know your limitations. It is important that you are well prepared for everything before starting any commitment. Marriage is not a game that you can quit anytime you want. You need a lot of patience and understanding to work it out.

...well you have point my friend, but I guess it depends on ones point of view. To some, as long as they think they are prepared of whatever age it is, it is then the right time for them to settle down. While to those who are particular to health, they want to get married before turning the age of thirty. And to some, no particular age and they are not up to age as long as they are ready to build and start a family. For them , it is better to be late than not to be ready at all.

I'd rather keep the God part out of it all. I'm an atheist, and my favorite girlfriend was also an atheist. That doesn't stop the idea of marriage though, 2 of my best friends have been married for about 8 years now, and they're atheist, also. What I have found, is that people who keep switching relationships, have less of a chance to get married into a "perfect" relationship. The more people we see, the more likely it is that we'll find faults in the people we're in a relationship with, and there's a better chance the relationship won't continue. I'm not denying the idea that I'll find someone perfect, there's always a chance that I will, a good atheist girl here in my city, but my point is that the longer you go without getting into a lifelong relationship, the better chances there are that you won't have one. Actually, it goes the same way for all mammals. Even with children, the relationships only last a couple years before they split up. Monkeys and apes are a perfect example. They very seldomly keep the same partner and have a bunch of children with them. They go around to other mates, just like many of us do. For us, however, our intelligence makes us want to stay with a singular person, no matter what harm that can cause. I'm just asking you to look at all the possibilities, rather then just sinking down to the direction of talking about God through it all. Weather he exists or not, we are in control of our own lives.

Hi Christoph56, may you find that someone whom you think is a real partner for a lifetime. Have faith and keep believing that someone is really meant for you. Always seek God's guidance to lead you to that right person. Who knows maybe she is just somewhere around you. God bless...

What God?

It seems that you lack trust?.. Oh don't get me wrong... but trust is very important for a relationship to work. How could you marry someone if you do not trust him/her?... I guess it is best if you first look inside what you really want and seek for God's guidance. May you find the desire of your heart.

ya, but untill now i did not get the woman who want to share her life with me,who mant love me and i love her.twice iam hurt by woman, and both of them had married and had a children.and me?i only a men who are looking for a ordinary girl but she love me so much. but i feel it take a time.

It is all true adhyz82, it is not the age that counts in marrying but how you see yourself in it... if you think you are ready for a new phase of your life, if you could handle another responsibilities, and if you accept the sacrament of love and devotion to marriage life... then there's no reason to postpone the wedding... age is just a formality but being perfectly ready is what really counts.

well friend just don't rush on things. I believe everything has its perfect timing.... who knows... you'll be getting married soon enough. God bless to you my friend.

I really think that the later it is that you get into a relationship, the better the chance will be that you'll break up. The more relationships you have, the less of a chance there is that you can find someone "perfect", it becomes easier to see flaws. I say, just let it happen. Keep on finding loved ones, and keep happy with it all.

You know what they say "practice makes perfect" maybe that's true of relationships also.

Yes there is really no right age for marrying but a prepared and matured life are the things that really counts.

and you are right... age is not that quit a criteria for marrying but the person whom who will get married. We should not rush on it, but lets take things slowly in the field of marriage.

Definitely. I just meant that 30-35 seems ideal but if we meet that person at 40, then that is the perfect age ;) If you think you met that person when you are 18, wait like a decade to see if you still think the same :):)