How will you recover from breaking-up?
By freeze386
@freeze386 (73)
Philippines
December 2, 2009 1:25am CST
I have been in a relationship that started to be great. Unfortunately things had happen and my partner broke-up with me. When my partner say goodbye it crashes my heart into pieces.I had bad relationship before and breaking up for me is so easy but things have change now. I dont know what to do. Guys tell me, how to ease the pain. What advises can you share.
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4 responses
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Sad to know that. I believe it would help if you divert your attention to more productive and enjoyable activities. Instead of staying in your house and think of the broken relationship over and over again, start seeing your friends. Be involved in other activities that you have not tried before.
I wish to I could tell you more but I really think that there's no other way but to move on with your life - start enjoying the company of other people around you. Do lots of stuff/activities with them. Before you know it, time have already healed the heartaches. In life, I believe that we could not really forget the pain...but time could help us cope or live with the pain. Have a blessed day.
@freeze386 (73)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
actually i do that every now and then but the pain is still there. it always came back everytime that im alone. i just hope that i will turn ok. thnks so much for the responce. God bless
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Hmm, I noticed your other discussions about breakups/relationship issues and sadness/heartaches. I'm just concerned and I hope you wouldn't mind - but please STOP writing about breakups and heartaches. It doesn't matter whether you want to FORGET or GET MORE heartaches, what I know is that the more you nurture that feeling (BY thinking, talking, writing, reading about breakups and heartaches), the more you will attract more things/events that could actually give you MORE heartaches. It's OK to mourn over past relationships, but please do not stay in that stage for a long period of time.
START thinking, speaking, writing, and reading about happy memories or successful relationships. That way, there's a good chance that you will cope with the pain, learn the lessons and move on. With this, you could also attract more positive energies which could give you the inspiration and strength to face the world and attract more positive life experiences.
I wish you happiness and have a blessed day.
@elokps (138)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 09
i also just broke up and i also feel like u feel now. i was so sad and cried almost everyday. and thought that life was not fair . but fortunatly i have family and friends. they support me a lot. they told me that time will heal my pain, frist i don't believe them but now i know that time can heal my pain. so what u should do now is you can cry as many as you want but after that you have to wake up. you have many families and friends, try to call them and spend time together with them then finally you can forget your ex.
@freeze386 (73)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yes im sad. this is the very first time i feel this wat. Is just happen last night so it is so fresh issue. i just keep my self busy now but i still feel the pain. I know it will be heal soon.
@musicman6 (2407)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I'll tell you, like it says in my favorite song, 'and when I kiss the lips of another woman, I'm gonna forget about you'! And this is true, I've been through this also!
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
2 Dec 09
avoid listening to love songs especially those heart breaking one, watch funny movies, avoid going to places you usually had dates, have more time with friends and relatives that has positive and active lifestyle, get into sports and regroup yourself and assist your personal goals in life and make it happened or in other words make yourself always busy and be successfull with your undertakings..
@freeze386 (73)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Im glad with your responce and im thankful for that. But how can i move on if i will not face it. just a thought. thnks so much
