please advice..
By april_02
@april_02 (82)
Philippines
December 3, 2009 8:23am CST
when a guy asks a girl out, lets say he asks her to play badminton (just the two of them), is this an indication that he likes her or he just considers her as a friend?
5 responses
@chadster42 (74)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
hello there, it is too early to tell if the guy likes the girl even if they play badminton just by themselves. I have been in a lot of badminton courts around the in QC, san juan and pasig, and i have seen a number of young couples play (just the two of them). I noticed that some guys makes it a point to show off too much which may seem that he is trying to make a good impression on the girl.
My advice for the girl though is not to think about it yet, it is still too early. You don't have to think about it right away, it is more important for the girl to get to know the guy and his attitude first. Playing badminton by themselves should not be the basis.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
3 Dec 09
From my experiences, when a guy asked me out even if he says just as friends, he usually is hoping that more can develop at some time unless he is gay and wants someone to go out with him so he can find someone to date. This may sound harsh, but I have never had it happen where a guy just wanted friendship. So I would think this is true in this case cause he doesn't want anyone else there.
@letssstalk (285)
• India
3 Dec 09
hi April
its too early to thought all this , May be possible he just trying be her friend to know her better or may be no one else their to play bedbinton ! ... any thing possible. This is possible he like her and only for this reason he want keep her with him through play...but if really then he try every time be close to her.
may Be...
@madie8008 (209)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 09
Base on my perspective, maybe the guy are giving the hint that he just wants to be friend with the girl. It is a platonic friendship where a guy and girl just be friends without having any feelings of romance. However, there is another maybe. The guy probably wants to asks her out for a play because he doesn't want to be rejected if he asks he to a real date. Maybe also he just wants to be friend at first and let the time decide which way the relationship are heading. The best answer is to asks him herself.
@mandy719 (49)
• China
3 Dec 09
well in my opinion, it's just be friends between them...cuz I always aks some guys out to play badminton...and they also do it .....it's normal we are good friends...but if you want to have a futher development with that person,you can make use of such kind of situations...