Anger - do you lisen?

@hireshd (490)
India
December 6, 2009 12:00am CST
Hi friends it happens with me that when I am angry I dont listen to others view at all, why I dont know but after sometime when I calm down and think about his/her views I understand that what problem does it make to listen patiently. I never listen to anyone when I am angry and I am not ready to accept anything the other person says even if it is correct and appropriate. Does it happen with you?
4 responses
@malamar (779)
• Canada
29 Dec 09
It is hard to listen to someone else when you are angry, just like it is hard to be reasonable when you are angry. I rarely get angry, but when I do, life has taught me to walk away and think things through before I say something I may later regret. I also try to find the source of my anger, since anger is a manifestation of a deeper issue. Learning to deal with anger is not an easy task. But living with anger is near impossible. Given the lesser of the two evils, I chose to explore what/why/who was a cause of the anger in the first place.
@felice369 (239)
• United States
26 Dec 09
It does happen to me, and I was lost my sense and reason at the moment. But after a long thought, I would realize that I should listen to someone's opinion first, then I would impose my thought to it. Otherwise, you might misjudge people at this point.
@dong88 (795)
• China
6 Dec 09
Hello! Yes,the anger of the time, no matter how good the proposal would not listen to.Are thus to themselves and others more damage .Therefore ,we must learn to manage their emotions.their emotions do housekeeper.In this way,when you are faced with anything,can calm rational approach.
• Indonesia
6 Dec 09
no way when I get angry I could make many damage to my people around me but I know that's worng and I often regret about that...