Do you think he loves me?

Hello thanusha85! I hope you have a good day! If the man respects you when you say no to him, then that is good. What is bad, even if you did not allow him to kiss or lean on you, he still keep on insisting or show bad reaction in any ways... Honestly, I don't agree with the kind of courtship he is doing... If that is courship to him. He is kinda confusing... If he likes you, then why not be straight and true to his feelings? Why did he need to ask you those questions? Those are very embarrasing... Is there a woman who would say Yes to him when in the first place he did not even say that he likes the girl... He is putting you in an awkward situation... Same with you, that guy is really hard to read. I don't know what he is up to. And what he truly feels for you. Really hard to tell.

It is very easy to read guys mind, but no one can read the girls mind. I guess both of you love and care for each other. In love, kissing and petting is common, it is very uncommon and unsafe to go beyond kissing and petting. Hope you got it!!!

It is hard to say for sure but he does sound like a really nice guy who wants to take things slow and is also considerate of your feelings as well. Could be that you both are very unsure and afraid to move forward. I think that soon you should at least let him know how you feel or you may risk him misunderstanding and thinking that you are not interested in him at all. Communication is really important. I think he must have feelings for you as you have been seeing each other for 3 months. Love takes time to develop and I think you guys are long overdue for the first kiss. Good luck. Sounds as if you found yourself a real respectful guy!

i think its time to go to the next level... he really likes you, and its natural that he would want to touch you to. you dont have to cross any limits that you dont want to, but holding hands, leaning on each other, thats fine... maybe he feels bad as it seems that you dont like him to touch you, that would also give him the wrong impression about your feelings. let him know how much you like him, and the way he treats you, be a bit more familiar with him, you've been going out for 3 months for god's sake. and also, if you are not comfortable with him touching you, then let him know that you have nothing against it, you just need some time, and if he is please willing to give it to you. but first, let him know how much you like him...

hi anusha, well the guy does seem to like you a lot, he would not touch you in the beginning and spoke to you in friendly manner, seems like he had feelings for you from quite some time and did not find an opportunity to express himself, though seems like he is a little shy and i guess you don't have to worry if he will ever force anything on you, no wonder you are slowly falling for him, he is being gentle with letting you know if kissing and leaning all these are fine with you, he seems to like you quite much and may be you don't know but he is trying to know if you like him or not coz if you show sings of rejection he might start getting away from you slowly so think about it, i should not say much coz i haven't seen the both of you personally.. but as you it seems you both like each other.!... he has always wanted to kiss you and now that slowly you are letting him loose on you he will get closer but i guess you fear him at the moment so take things slowly and i think it could get great later on .. well if you like him and want to be special to him too then you could perhaps have some opinions about him from his friends, oh yeah that guy your friend who introduced you to him.. i would not be sure but seems like he is nice sensitive guy and he could be yours if you want him .. he as already given himself to you and waiting for you actually.. but he could turn away coz he is thinking too - thinking what you think about him.. say no as politely as you can and he will be fine with it and he will know you just need time.. all the best!

Hello, You have gotten a lot of good answers here. The truth is, as I see it, nobody can tell you what might or might not be on his mind. You say you are both shy. In my experience, shy people find it hard to begin talking - but then speak plainly once they start. If I were you, I would ask him what you are asking on an open forum. Choose a semi-public place if you want - a park, or an outdoor cafe - and ask him these questions. Make sure he understands that you do not want to put him on the spot, but that you want to be sure you understand him. You do not sound at all sure about what kind of relationship you want. Maybe you need to decide that first. Are you looking for a friend, a lover, or a lifetime commitment? Then tell him what you are looking for, and ask him what he is looking for. If you are both honst and upfront, then you both know what to expect from the other.

well if he dont speak to you a friendly manner and do things that just isnt right. drop him look for someone else. the main thing not talking to you as a female should be talked too.

i think that love need time to certificate something,there is not easy to read this fellows at the short time,you need understand him more and ask him what he mean to your feeling and he treat your love as friend or lover?you need correct answer from him,you always suspect his mind,it only add your owned trouble.so you should express your position to him.

Hi, thanusha! No one can actually read what others are thinking, but I guess this is a normal situation at the beginning of a relationship, being shy, awkward, scared and at a later stage, showing the affections by touch and physical contacts. Since you grew fond of him and you just don't want to mess thing up, it's natural if you are feeling unsure about his true feelings towards you before you are really falling for him. From the way you describe about how he treated you, I think this guy has already sees you as someone special to his heart. If you really must hear what his actual feelings towards you, you can take the opportunity to ask him the next time when you both spend some romantic time together. Perhaps you can also ask your friend's opinion about his behavior who introduced him to you for a peace of mind even though it does not guarantee how far your relationship with him is going to be, but at least you will have a glimpse about him before you met him.

still be carefull, his love with you will be tested by time, what if reverse you understanding, don't let him take advantage of you, don't give him a kiss or don't let him kiss you, and observe for a period of time if how he will react if he is disappointed to certain situation, then you can tell if he really meant every words she said to you..

hi thanusha see if the guy is really pussing u. u have to take care if he is just askin then avoid and see if his behavour cahnges then forget him and even though after saying no there is no change in his behaviour then he is pecfectly all right to u ALL THE BEST

Well be careful, boys get tired easily if you say "no" all day long! Sometimes it is better saying "yes" and watching what happens...

In my point,i think the guy has problem in the express feeling,three months?didn't he there say love/like you?how can he demanded that kiss you without say love/like you......i don't understand that,and i think if like someone must to tell him/her,i suggest that you don't think of a way to read him mind,to ask him what feelings about you in him mind

Hi How old is this guy you have been seeing? He sounds very sweet to me and, believe me, you can kiss and it not lead to anything. I am the world's expert in this department so trust me. What you have to do is trust him, of course.

may be he is in love...ask him clearly..or you can also take some time so that you an understand him well..is his attraction only physical..or he is really in love that you need to understand...if its physical only..it will not last long and one day you may have to regret....so be careful before you go ahead and try to give some gaps in meeting so that things will be clear

I don't know if he loves you, but it sure sounds that he respects you. Most (or a lot) of guys just want to jump in the sack, but this guy is taking his time. It sounds like he's a keeper.

I hope you have a good day ! I do not know how to handle this sort if thing that ,but I know you will handle well,but will not let his regret.come on,go go go ...

No advice on reading minds..it's generally better to just ask. 90 days isn't that long, there's nothing wrong with waiting or taking things a little slow He may be a very sweet guy, time will tell.

hmmm interesting storry but you did noth tell us how old are you :D if its that hard 4 you too just lay a kiss on him it's sad to se afther 3 months you dont even give yourselfs kiss'es live the moment ;) do what your heart tells you the guy is probabli as confused as you are so just go whit the flow