Is it Wrong?
By Zahra07
@Zahra07 (101)
United States
December 10, 2009 8:18pm CST
I have heared many people been loved over internet, and they got married.
What you guys think, Do you think love over internet or in chatting is not ture or it can be ture? Is it like any real love Face to Face? Becuase when love someone you really not gone see them good like you see them in every day life face to face. So Tell me your opionion about this?
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13 responses
@rebaozi (100)
• United States
11 Dec 09
Actrually our love began from the internet.At that time both of us often went to a bbs then we know each.After giving each other's msn we often chat on internet.Then we fallen in love.But we can't meet each other is really a big problem,it is because we were not in a same city.So I quit my job and went his city to be with him.Now we married,and we are very happy.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
12 Dec 09
Hi rebaozi: Love can be found on the internet and that's a great hope for those that, because of they're jobs and all those things of our new age, can hardly to find a right person for them. You two are an example that love can be found everywhere and i feel glad for you and the person you found. Hope you are ok right know. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
-Alvaro.
@kaursurjeet2310 (20)
• India
11 Dec 09
I think love is from mutual understanding.Looks does matter but u should understand each other,respect.Whether it is internet love oe face to face love.
@kaursurjeet2310 (20)
• India
12 Dec 09
U r right, i Do agree with u,becoz sometimes first impression is the last imperession.But love come with mutual understanding,financial stability,good cooperation,good decisions etc.
@kiwibee (240)
• New Zealand
11 Dec 09
Internet romance works if both parties are totally honest. I know this because my son met a lovely lady online in 1999, and they fell in love. They got married in 2001 and have been happy ever since. They were honest with each other.
The problem is that people can be dishonest, and trick the one they are writing to. Maybe something small like taking a couple of years off their age, or maybe something huge. And often there is no way of knowing.
When my son met his lady-friend, they did hit it off right away. He had to travel along way to meet her, and he met her family at the same time; acted honorably. The following year, she travelled to our country and stayed a month, during which they got engaged. It was a lovely time.
I have heard horror stories though. So truly, each case is different. You have to have good instincts. It's easy to get "carried away"....
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Love can occur everywhere anytime when it`s really your destiny so it really doesnt matter if it is actual or in the internet.There are couples that met in real but not really honest to each other and maybe in the internet it's much more challenging if your indeed interested in the person you met.
@sandipanbhuiya (134)
• India
11 Dec 09
Hi Zahra... I read your topic. As per my opinion it is wrong. You may get angry but let me place my explanations. See life is once for all. We should choose the best in every aspects throughout our life. Ok you say that..... is it possible to understand a person whether he/she is right/wrong through internet? Feelings which comes from heart, is it possible to share it through internet? I think your answer will be no... So why we should marry internet guys/girls? We should make face to face contact before loving someone or before marrying someone. Don't you think Zahra that this is a good and safe way? We should not play with our lives by doing experiments.... every steps should be taken carefully. We should listen to our parents because they are our only well wishers in this whole world as we are their own blood. Last but not the least "love is the brick of silent, which laid one after another to build a pillar of believe". And this thing can't be done through internet. Internet is appropriate for work and entertainment.
Hope you will like my comment.
@Zahra07 (101)
• United States
11 Dec 09
Sure we not going over an experince, but depends on person we talk is she/he similar to us or not, or the way we feel about them. Yea for sure we always need to be careful becuase not only over internet but same in normal life there are people who just having fun and really don't care about others. I mean we could me someone and then we meet face to face and get know each other more and always no one plan the marriage in one day.
Yea I like your comment thanks for sharing :)
@greenlife45 (3)
• United States
11 Dec 09
In my opinion, I don't think that love over the internet is true because you are not talking to that person face to face and some people may even play with you over the internet. Tell you they love you, but it is just a lie. I think a true love is when you meet a person face to face.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
11 Dec 09
I believe in internet love, for sure and don't think it's any wrong than someone being in love through outside means like getting to know each other through recommendation, or first love or through college love and etc. Internet love is a modern way to find someone, and it might work for some and not for others. It's just like a normal love story, and I do know of a couple of people whom find love through the internet and ending up in marriage etc. Cool topic here..
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
11 Dec 09
i think you can make a connection over the internet, you just seem to know if they are what they seem. i've meet a few blokes on the net and will chat to them, no harm in having more friends. i've had met on guy on an adult site who i can talk to with ease, i feel there's a connection there. so why not, love know no bounds nor age.
@josethomas177 (17)
• India
11 Dec 09
i found my girl in net. i met her with her fake id. she used her fake id for chatting. after she understand me she given her real id. first u try to understand the person. then start to love only if he suite for you
@riani2009 (581)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
I meet my husband on line. I don't want to state it's not a true love because untill now we still learn to love each other.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
12 Dec 09
Hi Zahra: I think Internet could be the first step but at the same time it seems to me that a face to face relationship it's really necessary. I could fall in love with someone funny, lovely and nice that i'd know on the internet but in the end i would like to know this person and then Internet won't be that important for us as a couple to use the internet. It seems that i think almost the same you do. Thanks for opening this discussion. Have a nice day.
- Alvaro.
@erfan_85 (2)
• United States
11 Dec 09
For some people dating websites on the Internet is the only way that they can meet new people. Because they may work in an office all they long and they don't have time to go out to clubs or bars to meet new people.
Love over the internet is not wrong. But it has many problems. First of all you don't see the girl or the boy you're chatting with. Sometimes they upload a photo and you might think that is his or her photo. But that photo might be belonged to someone else.
Another problem is the distance between your city or country to his or hers. That in almost always the problem. You see a girl or a guy on the internet but he or she lives 5000 miles away from you.