Will you hate your friend in the situation?

...LOL...LOL... Hi histroydog, I can't help to think it to be a silly topic ,you should not always borrow things from your friends, if you do it too often you will irritate your friends,it is your wrong! you need not hate your friends. Take care,God bless you !

I wouldn't hate my friend, if he doesn't let me borrow his things or his money. He has a right to say no, maybe he needs the things himself or maybe he has another reason to say no, and that is okay. It is his things, so it is his decison. Of course it is nice when your friends help you or let you borrow things, but I think it is important to respect eachother and respect a no. I appreciate it when my friends help me and I am grateful for it, but I don't want to take it for granted.

well then also he will continue to be my friend.atleast he helped me other times.who knows he might not be in the situation to comply.so i will be as usual.

This has happened to me in the past. So according to my experience, I dint hate my friend. I was able to understand his position, and he was also unhappy with himself for not being able to help me. What he did was try to help me by asking the same favor from other friends, at last, it was with his help, I was able to borrow from another person who was his friend.

I can say, you should understand him that he is not in a situation to help. Friends are the only ones who comes voluntarily to help us when compared to our family members. This is my opinion. So just think of the reason why he refused to help and make a decision.

He/she will still be my friend,i will just ask him/her why she never let me borrow or i will just try to understand her situation,maybe she also need the thing that i'm trying to borrow. Not all the time our friend cannot give what we need so its okay because in the past however she still help me.. I think friends are not just for lending situation it is also understanding each other.