Will you love him or her if he or she gets AIDS?
By pengyachu
@pengyachu (296)
China
December 12, 2009 11:03pm CST
James was stricken by AIDS when he had blood transfusion in the hospital.He was nettled but didn't know how to reveal it to his girlfriend.Aferwards,he thought at least he didn't get infected for cheating her.So he toud herfrankly that he was infected.This was a great shock to his girlfriend Lucy,ahd she had no idea how to get along with the infected boyfrieng.
If you were James,how do you inform your girlfriend of the infection?
If you were Lucy,how do you relate to your boyfriend?Will you persist or dump him?
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10 responses
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
13 Dec 09
If I were james, I'll tell lucy the trueth, that I got the ADIS by blood transfer. I'll tell her to leave me for her own happniess. But if I were lucy, I'll not leave James as he's still my lover. I'll learn how to get along with ADIS takers and stay together with him, company him to the last.
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@bingchen (1119)
• China
13 Dec 09
nobody could hope that this thing happened,but in fact,lots of people gets aids,this chioce really make them suffering,if i were james,i could talk truth to lucy,you know,if you really love her,so she have right to know truth.if i am lucy,i would be willing to look after him,because i love him,i dont hope that this become departed reason.we would be together forever.
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@sangramsanand (29)
• India
14 Dec 09
Its quite a tough situation, and need to handled with a lots of guts if i was JAMES, its better to tell everything frankly instead of cheating her, becoz its upto her to decide whether to stick to the relation or not. Here as JAMES said honestly to LUCY wat he is going through, i feel she'll persist.
And coming to Lucy, I feel staying in hard times with JAMES would be the greatest job also a real duty & responsibility if she mean to be his real care-taker or well wisher.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
13 Dec 09
Hi umer: I am sorry but i don't share the same opinion you have. I mean, what about love, it's not necessary that you get AIDS for it but you can live together. Even if there is no cure, people with AIDS can have normal lives with new health discoveries. I think i will not abandon a person if i love her and that means that we can continue our relationship. Have a nice day.
-Alvaro.
@sathishss (274)
• India
17 Feb 10
hai den.
you are right frnd, precaution is better then cure, be safe but dnot leave her.. take care good luck
@sathishss (274)
• India
17 Feb 10
hai frnd.
yes if it same thing happen for my girl frnd means surely iam always with her only, becz true love needs nothing love all.. good luck man..
@vicky22101984 (573)
• India
13 Dec 09
Well , in general everyone will say I would never dump my girl frind or boy friend, but the reality sucks. No body wants to be with an AIDS infected partner for a lifetime. They are most likely to get apart after this incident. The practical life tells me this thing. But when you look deep inside and view it from the point of James or Lucy , only then you can see the importance of love and true emotions. If the infection has come from transfusion of blood, then its surely very unlucky on James as well as Lucy and I guess they both will understand it. but again practical life has its own way and you never know.
@rescarez (37)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
that is a tough situation on both sides..If I am James, I would first start asking some questions like what would you if I am blah blah, things like those then I would shift to ask what would you do if I have AIDS and wait for her response..And honestly if I am Lucy, I would dump him..I don't know but that is just me..Am I too harsh?
