Anything in your home that is strictly yours?
By PeacefulWmn9
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
United States
December 13, 2009 10:25pm CST

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@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
14 Dec 09
Hi Karen!
Interesting post. Except my identity, my clothes, my shaving kit, my tooth-brush and my shoes are mine...........lol! rest of the things are shared between the family members. There is nothing as such which could be called exclusively for me. When one lives in a family with better half and children most of things are shared and one cannot help it.
Have a great day!
Deepak


@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
14 Dec 09
I could not get you Vandana! Please explain again.
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@vandana7 (101289)
• India
14 Dec 09
My dad. He is strictly no for any other girl. I am not good at sharing parent. :( Funny, I was always match making for him when I was a kid. But the moment he appreciates another person, I am green with envy. I just want him to think I am the best. :(
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@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
14 Dec 09
Vandana!
If you had a sister, I think your mindset would have not been the same. Probably, you would have learnt to share the love of parents since your childhood, because your mind would have been conditioned by your parents that you need to share everything with your siblings.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
15 Dec 09

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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
14 Dec 09
LOL, I wanted that last piece of gum to. I got a kick out of your discussion. I guess everything in here is mine. I have never put things up from the grandson, he had to learn to leave glassware etc. alone when he was young. My son does get on my computer sometime but i don't care. I don't have near the company that i use to. I use to cook alot & invite people over but don't feel like doing alot of that anymore . People don't seem to visit like they use to, everyone is busy. U behave yourself now & share your gum. lol
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
14 Dec 09
I don't even chew gum was just teasing w/karen. Thanks for the offer tho.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
14 Dec 09
I have been alone for soooo many years i wouldn't be fit for anyone to live with, don't guess i was to start with, lol consdering i have been married to 2 different men & it didn't work. 

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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Dec 09

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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
2 Jan 10
Hello my friend PeacefulWmn9 Ji,
IN fact, in my home, everything belongs to us, including my both the sons, who have their own homes with their spouses and children, but they do belong to us. o body has right to claim. But feeling your sense of irony, I would flatly and with strong words say that my hubby is only mine, rest any thing can be used by anyone in the family.
Wishing you a very happy New Year-2010.
May God bless You and have a great time.

@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
2 Jan 10

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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
3 Jan 10
Hello my friend PeacefulWmn9 Ji,
Well, nice that you shared your private and entirely personnel relationswith your daughters. But In our case, we have never used any under-garments so far. My hubby is presently using shirts/T-shirts/Swetors only discarded by my sons as they became out-dated for them. Even I use sarees hanging in ward-robes of my DILs. I know, they hardly use them. But, off coyurse, we have only common soap in bath-room, and all sanitery items are seperately used.
May God bless You and have a great time.

@aamir030586 (382)
• India
14 Dec 09
well i think my stuffs like my chocopies and muffins which i bought for myself is strictly for myself..
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@aamir030586 (382)
• India
14 Dec 09
actually im the youngest so i can eat anybodies chocolate and pies...but no body dare to look at mive...and btw i dont hav any sis...
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
15 Dec 09

@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
15 Dec 09

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@savypat (20216)
• United States
14 Dec 09
This is one thing you learn about marriage, nothing is just yours anymore. This includes your body. But over the years I have managed to take back a little of what was only mine. The way I do it is to hide it. Just some old school pictures and correspondence.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
15 Dec 09

@sublime03 (2338)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
I have to say most of my things are off limits because I hardly lend people my clothes nor any important thing I have. My laptop is also something that is off limits because I intend to have somebody ask me if they want to use it first before it is shipped off to somebody's lap. I grew up having my own things and so I make sure everything is accounted for so that nothing gets lost.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
15 Dec 09

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• United States
19 Dec 09

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• United States
15 Dec 09

@blackflorinel (474)
• Romania
14 Dec 09
i have a lot of things that are strictly mine :P my TV my computer my ps 2 a lot infact the things taht i bought frome my salari :D and of course the fotos whit my girlfriend :))
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Dec 09

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• United States
14 Dec 09

@stardiva (3)
• Australia
14 Dec 09
Hi,
I live with my husband. So we share everything i think except for clothes. So i can say my clothes r strictly mine. Before marriage i was living with my parents and two sisters. Me and one of my sisters are of same size ,so we used to share our clothes also.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
15 Dec 09

@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
14 Dec 09
I grew up as an only child so I was fortunate in that there were many things that were strictly mine.
However, my parents did pretty well in ensuring that I knew how to share so I have no problems sharing to this day.
Most people who meet me for the first time think I grew up with a huge brood. :)
At present, there are things that are mine that I don't share cos my hubby doesn't use my girly things and my daughter is too young to share anything I own, except food perhaps!
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Dec 09

@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
14 Dec 09
hi karen madam,
at present no person is in my house except me ,my wife with my children,because my second son take deekha of "Ayyappa god",he has to perform it for 41 days and he must reach Sabari malai on 15th January to visit "Jyothi",so i am alone in the home,my mother with my brother's family,some times my mother will come offer some food to me,have a nice day
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Dec 09

@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 09
Each item I buy is my personal item that means no one can use even borrow it without my permission. When I was a kid and still one home with brothers and other relatives, I often fight with my brothers and sisters just because they use or borrow my stuff without permission. Maybe I'm including those cheapskate but I do not like people do not appreciate my efforts to purchase goods
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Dec 09

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• United States
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• United States
14 Dec 09

@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
I am too sensitive when it comes to my personal belongings like all stuff in my bed, I hate to see them arranged or disarranged not by me. My personal coins and different countries currency collections are also included in my watch list. I do not like someone using my bath soap and shampoo too.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
14 Dec 09

