How many times have you scrolled through Spouse's inbox?

@ruchimom (280)
Australia
December 16, 2009 4:36am CST
Hi My husband just came back and went to take a shower leaving his mobile on the kitchen bench I saw the mobile and started scrollimng through his inbox,Although,I didn't find anything special but I was quite satisfied. Do you all do the same? Please share!!!
7 responses
@benny128 (3615)
16 Dec 09
to be honest I would never do that as that's his personal space so to speak. I wouldn't expect someone to go through my belongings, and would never do that to anyone either. If you have a strong relationship which I assume you have then you really don't need too,
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• United States
18 Dec 09
Hi guys! It is not a man's point of view or a woman's point of view, as stated, it is trust and respect. The two things that will make or break a relationship. It is nice to know there are men out there who still believe in such things! and to be honest... I wish I could read more women feeling the same.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
16 Dec 09
Yes, I do it sometimes, but not with the intention that there will be something undesirable that I can find. I will do it when I bored and nothing else to do. I often play the games in his mobile and sometimes check the call list or narration. I don't think he will do the same time. He will attend a call that comes to me only if I ask him to attend.
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@livewyre (2450)
16 Dec 09
Sounds like you don't really trust him... what were you expecting to find? If my other half has left her email open I will look, but not because I don't trust her, If I didn't trust her, there would be no relationship. In short, I may look because I am interested in what my spouse is doing - but I trust her implicitly as I know she can trust me. Maybe I'm just weird
@ruchimom (280)
• Australia
16 Dec 09
Hi Thanks for your input I think it was not about trusting but curiousity,LOLZ
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
hello ruchimom! actually, i do scroll on my husband's inbox...sometimes! hehe not for anything but just to look if there's also a message for me...coz i am also using his phone sometimes. and there are times that he forgot to tell me that there's a message for me, that's why i check it once in a while... with our e-mails... both of us don't have the habit of reading each other's messages unless we share it... with phones, he also don't read on my messages... that's why there are times that i also don't get interested in reading messages on his phone...hehe even if he gives me full authority on it... good day!
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@apexiph (123)
• Malaysia
23 Dec 09
Hi. The same thing happens to my handphone too. My wife will always check my handphone for no reason. Maybe she was just boring or maybe she is suspected me of having affair? Hmm..Trust your partner. How can I having an affair while I'm not a well rich man :
• India
25 Feb 10
When I got married I had doubt on all these things.....I also saw his inbox messages once, but I asked him my doubt........his reply was too satisfactory. After that incidence, I don't have any doubts on him....
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Dec 09
no I would never have done that to my hubby if he had even had a mobile. I trusted him and he trusted me. we never did anything to break that trust so no I did not suspect him of doing anything wrong. Why do you do this? It sort of like breaking ones promise to love honor and obey, its saying you think he might be up to something wrong.