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IoanaBI @IoanaBI (494) • Romania 24 Sep 10

Even since i was a little girl my parents forced me to eat something every morning and the same hate i have for breackfast now as i did then..I know that it suppose to be the most important meal of a day, but i can't do...

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MJ_Dakota You are definately not alone. My oldest son is the same way.

26 Sep 10

IoanaBI @IoanaBI (494) • Romania 24 Sep 10

Even since i was a little girl my parents forced me to eat something every morning and the same hate i have for breackfast now as i did then..I know that it suppose to be the most important meal of a day, but i can't do...

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MJ_Dakota I am the same way. I also don't do well with eating meals. I am a snacker. I eat a little all day long. Fruits, vegis, sandwiches, and the occassional junk food. I get bored sitting down to eat "proper" meals.

25 Sep 10

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IoanaBI @IoanaBI (494) • Romania 24 Sep 10

Even since i was a little girl my parents forced me to eat something every morning and the same hate i have for breackfast now as i did then..I know that it suppose to be the most important meal of a day, but i can't do...

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MJ_Dakota Actually, breakfast is one of the hardest meals for me to eat. It is not the food, it is the time. For as long as I can remember, eating before 10am has made me feel nauseated and tired. Even as a kid I had difficulty eating in the mornings. If I'm hungry and...

25 Sep 10

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asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 14 Aug 10

Usually it is the rich who will get to be with whoever woman he liked. No matter how old/ugly he may look, there are still many pretty girls queuing up to be his girl. In the contrary, will a poor guy gets his woman? Most women...

love

poor

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MJ_Dakota Attitude and vibes... May sound funny, but if you believe you are a poor guy, you will send out the vibes of "oh poor me". Even when speaking monetary riches versus personal riches, it will come across as "poor". The first thing is to stop thinking that...

21 Aug 10

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jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 20 Aug 10

There are friends that seem to want or need advice sometimes,so in the past i have given it to try to help,but as i have found out they do not listen.The way i see it,is that when you tell them something for their own good aswell...

advice

family

soft touch no more

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MJ_Dakota Funny this should show up in my alerts as I was just discussing this topic with a friend. And, now I would like to add my two cents with a bit of analytical advice. Since you posted this, 1. Are you looking for advice on how to handle giving...

21 Aug 10

MJ_Dakota @MJ_Dakota (126) • United States 18 Mar 10

Ok, I find myself here surfing the internet, visiting my writing sites and trying to keep busy or at least looking occupied so I am left alone. Why? Because my roommate and his friend are "busy" with alcohol and I dont want to be...

avoiding alcohol induced behaviors

relationships and alcohol

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MJ_Dakota Yes, the morning after is a great time to be extra motivated with a little hop in your steps. Great time to do dishes and vacuum too! : ) Thanks for commenting.

21 Mar 10

MJ_Dakota @MJ_Dakota (126) • United States 18 Mar 10

Ok, I find myself here surfing the internet, visiting my writing sites and trying to keep busy or at least looking occupied so I am left alone. Why? Because my roommate and his friend are "busy" with alcohol and I dont want to be...

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MJ_Dakota Thank you for the comment too. I do wish this roomie situation would be as simple as kickin to the curb, but unfortunately, the curb would be mine, not his. : )

19 Mar 10

MJ_Dakota @MJ_Dakota (126) • United States 18 Mar 10

Ok, I find myself here surfing the internet, visiting my writing sites and trying to keep busy or at least looking occupied so I am left alone. Why? Because my roommate and his friend are "busy" with alcohol and I dont want to be...

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MJ_Dakota Hmmm.... sounds like you know what I'm talking about. When a friend is in need, all thoughts are lending a shoulder, an ear and a beer. Thank you for the comment

19 Mar 10

MJ_Dakota @MJ_Dakota (126) • United States 18 Mar 10

Ok, I find myself here surfing the internet, visiting my writing sites and trying to keep busy or at least looking occupied so I am left alone. Why? Because my roommate and his friend are "busy" with alcohol and I dont want to be...

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MJ_Dakota Consideration for others and alcohol do not mix. Especially when the "reason" for the consumption is an "I want a divorce" argument. This does not happen often and as I was trying to occupy myself, thought I would pose the question. : )

19 Mar 10

MJ_Dakota @MJ_Dakota (126) • United States 18 Mar 10

Ok, I find myself here surfing the internet, visiting my writing sites and trying to keep busy or at least looking occupied so I am left alone. Why? Because my roommate and his friend are "busy" with alcohol and I dont want to be...

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xxHellsxxangelxx @xxHellsxxangelxx (106) • Netherlands 8 Jan 10

Ever had a friend take advantage of you? Well some people don't realize that there friends are human. They also don't understand that there friends deserve reespect. What would you do with them?

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MJ_Dakota Currently I am in a situation where I offered help to someone and now that person is dictating how, when and what I need to do for them. On top of that, when the outcome is not what they wanted, I am told that I am not helping or not doing enough. What am I...

9 Jan 10

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needcash @needcash (3) • United States 8 Jan 10

I am 41 years young and became single again after a 6 year relationship. Lately all I have attracted is younger men. Some as young as 22. While I enjoy the attention, I just think it's wrong to date someone that young. I don't...

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MJ_Dakota Age is a number of years that a person has been on this planet, it does not indicate a maturity level in emotion. I have had a 12 year relationship with one man who was 15 years older than me and a 7 year relationship with a man who is 3 years younger than me....

9 Jan 10

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 2 Jan 10

Hello, I really need some advice on this one. I got a citation (parking ticket $54) on the car that I don't even own. well, my husband own wholesale car dealer and we live in Long Beach, California. then I got a mail said one...

ticket

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MJ_Dakota You are welcome and I'm glad after the hassle, the solution is so simple. : ) Happy New Year to you!!

4 Jan 10

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 2 Jan 10

Hello, I really need some advice on this one. I got a citation (parking ticket $54) on the car that I don't even own. well, my husband own wholesale car dealer and we live in Long Beach, California. then I got a mail said one...

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MJ_Dakota Well, sounds like the best thing to do is to have the written statement done. Good luck!

4 Jan 10

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 2 Jan 10

Hello, I really need some advice on this one. I got a citation (parking ticket $54) on the car that I don't even own. well, my husband own wholesale car dealer and we live in Long Beach, California. then I got a mail said one...

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MJ_Dakota You are welcome. Another thing you can do is re-read the ticket notice and see what the make, model and color of the car is that is listed for that license plate. If it is different than the car with the plate listed, take a picture of the car, if you still...

3 Jan 10

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 2 Jan 10

Hello, I really need some advice on this one. I got a citation (parking ticket $54) on the car that I don't even own. well, my husband own wholesale car dealer and we live in Long Beach, California. then I got a mail said one...

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MJ_Dakota Have his brother write a statement that they were together, at what times and where. Then have it notorized. Take this to the County clerk at the traffic division of the courthouse. I'm not a lawyer, but I believe that should do the trick. I received a...

3 Jan 10

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anandhiganeshbala91 @anandhiganeshbala91 (99) • India 2 Jan 10

How to the angryness suddenly...? Is there any way to keep control of it..?

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MJ_Dakota Well, the first and foremost is the person who angers quickly needs to want to change this aspect of themself. Second, they need to be willing to look at themselves and find "what" triggers the outbursts, then look at the triggers to find the root of the...

3 Jan 10

xmlukax @xmlukax (231) • Slovenia 1 Jan 10

just write all sorts of hard logical questions like incapable people can make capable people incapable but then theese incapable people arent incapable because they are capable of... you get it

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MJ_Dakota And that Mr. Mindgames is what I will have to disagree with on so many different levels. Manipulation of another is just plain wrong and deceitful, no matter the reason, it is not wisdom you seek or have, but knowledge and it is and will be used in a sad,...

2 Jan 10

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