Will a poor guy gets his woman?
By asxenon
@asxenon (1440)
Malaysia
August 14, 2010 12:35pm CST
Usually it is the rich who will get to be with whoever woman he liked.
No matter how old/ugly he may look, there are still many pretty girls queuing up to be his girl.
In the contrary, will a poor guy gets his woman? Most women are now materialistic, they will feel that if a guy does not have enough money, then he may not be able to provide her with the security she needs... so how does a poor guy ever got a chance to meet his girl :P
5 responses
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
14 Aug 10
I think this is a sad attitude to have towards women, we are not all like that and most women these days are more than capable of taking care of themselves. You are either looking for the wrong kind of female or have been looking in the wrong places. A poor guy has just as much chance of finding someone to love as a rich man possible even more chance because he has nothing to loose in being himself. I think women are more interested in genuine men than anything else.
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
15 Aug 10
Its all good, I'm not offended I just think that love is there to be found if you are looking in the right place, it doesn't matter if you are a doctor or a garbage collector if it is meant to be it will happen. Maybe men should stop looking for love with glamourous and beautiful women who are possibly shallow and self centered and look to ordinary women who more than likely possess all the beauty that a man looking for love could possibly need.
@MJ_Dakota (126)
• United States
21 Aug 10
Attitude and vibes...
May sound funny, but if you believe you are a poor guy, you will send out the vibes of "oh poor me". Even when speaking monetary riches versus personal riches, it will come across as "poor".
The first thing is to stop thinking that you are poor. So what if you don't have a lot of money, you can be rich in many other ways. Providing security for a woman is also not all about money. I would like to find a guy whom I could feel secure with when I need an emotional hand holding, not just a new pair of shoes.
Money does not buy you love, it buys an image.
Security in your "self" will help you find your girl.
May you find the riches of love
MJ
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Aug 10
Relations are all about Love, faith & Trust. i dont understand the part of money in it. If both of them lovce each other then there should not be any problem. The guy need to be dedicated and determined and he will get what he wants in life.
@asxenon (1440)
• Malaysia
16 Aug 10
I would like to agree on this, but sometimes it is also difficult to put the blame on the girl. If she is matured, she certainly knows the importance of money in real life. Although money is only a material, without money, one would not survive in this world. Everything needs money nowadays. If you don't have money, you won't be able to buy a land that you can plant something to eat in order to survive. We cannot deny the importance of money :p
