MJ_Dakota

@MJ_Dakota (126)

United States • Age 58

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Provoking individual thought and encouraging balance

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MJ_Dakota's Responses

do you eat in the morning?

IoanaBI @IoanaBI (494) • Romania 24 Sep 10

Even since i was a little girl my parents forced me to eat something every morning and the same hate i have for breackfast now as i did then..I know that it suppose to be the most important meal of a day, but i can't do...

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MJ_Dakota Actually, breakfast is one of the hardest meals for me to eat. It is not the food, it is the time. For as long as I can remember, eating before 10am has made me feel nauseated and tired. Even as a kid I had difficulty eating in the mornings. If I'm hungry and...

25 Sep 10

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Will a poor guy gets his woman?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 14 Aug 10

Usually it is the rich who will get to be with whoever woman he liked. No matter how old/ugly he may look, there are still many pretty girls queuing up to be his girl. In the contrary, will a poor guy gets his woman? Most women...

love

poor

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MJ_Dakota Attitude and vibes... May sound funny, but if you believe you are a poor guy, you will send out the vibes of "oh poor me". Even when speaking monetary riches versus personal riches, it will come across as "poor". The first thing is to stop thinking that...

21 Aug 10

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I am not going to give advice anymore

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 20 Aug 10

There are friends that seem to want or need advice sometimes,so in the past i have given it to try to help,but as i have found out they do not listen.The way i see it,is that when you tell them something for their own good aswell...

advice

family

soft touch no more

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MJ_Dakota Funny this should show up in my alerts as I was just discussing this topic with a friend. And, now I would like to add my two cents with a bit of analytical advice. Since you posted this, 1. Are you looking for advice on how to handle giving...

21 Aug 10

Hwo to know if you friends are using you?

xxHellsxxangelxx @xxHellsxxangelxx (106) • Netherlands 8 Jan 10

Ever had a friend take advantage of you? Well some people don't realize that there friends are human. They also don't understand that there friends deserve reespect. What would you do with them?

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MJ_Dakota Currently I am in a situation where I offered help to someone and now that person is dictating how, when and what I need to do for them. On top of that, when the outcome is not what they wanted, I am told that I am not helping or not doing enough. What am I...

9 Jan 10

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Dating younger men

needcash @needcash (3) • United States 8 Jan 10

I am 41 years young and became single again after a 6 year relationship. Lately all I have attracted is younger men. Some as young as 22. While I enjoy the attention, I just think it's wrong to date someone that young. I don't...

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MJ_Dakota Age is a number of years that a person has been on this planet, it does not indicate a maturity level in emotion. I have had a 12 year relationship with one man who was 15 years older than me and a 7 year relationship with a man who is 3 years younger than me....

9 Jan 10

I got citation on the car that I didn't own

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 2 Jan 10

Hello, I really need some advice on this one. I got a citation (parking ticket $54) on the car that I don't even own. well, my husband own wholesale car dealer and we live in Long Beach, California. then I got a mail said one...

ticket

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MJ_Dakota Have his brother write a statement that they were together, at what times and where. Then have it notorized. Take this to the County clerk at the traffic division of the courthouse. I'm not a lawyer, but I believe that should do the trick. I received a...

3 Jan 10

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How to the angryness suddenly...?

anandhiganeshbala91 @anandhiganeshbala91 (99) • India 2 Jan 10

How to the angryness suddenly...? Is there any way to keep control of it..?

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MJ_Dakota Well, the first and foremost is the person who angers quickly needs to want to change this aspect of themself. Second, they need to be willing to look at themselves and find "what" triggers the outbursts, then look at the triggers to find the root of the...

3 Jan 10

When and how often did you surf in internet???

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 1 Jan 10

Hi!!I am just curious...There is a question for you... When and how often did you surf in Internet???And which are your favourite sites.... I prefer the night time because during that time the net speed is very fast. I prefer...

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MJ_Dakota Well, I am pretty much online from 6am to 7am everyday, myLot, Xomba, Facebook, Myspace and LinkedIn. Oh yes and email. After work, from about 9pm to 10pm I re-check all of the above. On slow workdays or weekends, I have been criticized for being on all...

2 Jan 10

hard logical questions

xmlukax @xmlukax (231) • Slovenia 1 Jan 10

just write all sorts of hard logical questions like incapable people can make capable people incapable but then theese incapable people arent incapable because they are capable of... you get it

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MJ_Dakota LOL, it is fun to confuse with logic sometimes, but to know logic and use it to make the capable incapable is not nice. I do enjoy a challenge of the mind though!

2 Jan 10

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What is important in choosing career job?

ghieptc @ghieptc (2522) • Philippines 1 Jan 10

When I finished my college degree I was very excited to get a job immediately to earn my own money. During my first year of job hunting I've been from one company to another. I worked in 6 simultaneous companies in my first year....

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MJ_Dakota I have worked many jobs in my life, but the one thing I found is that if the ethics of the company or co-workers did not correspond with mine, the job became difficult to appreciate. I'm more of a humanitarian and people person than a bottom dollar line...

2 Jan 10

Think Quality and not Quantity?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 1 Jan 10

Today we are in our first day of a brand new year and as I am sitting down here typing and composing this discussion, trying to string words together to make my maiden post of the the new year, my thoughts pull me back to what I...

life in the new year

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MJ_Dakota Good day and New Year hopes and dreams to you. For me, the New Year is a year of re-birth. 2009 was full of many challenges and self lessons that although everyday brings more, 2010 feels very bountiful in bringing more "life" than more grief. I do make plans,...

2 Jan 10

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Does being poor mean a better life?

TLChimes @TLChimes (4822) • United States 1 Jan 10

I have watched as American rich folks who thought they had it all, fight to survive on lower or no income, losing their homes, and fighting just to stay on an even path. They thought that going to work each day at a high paying...

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MJ_Dakota I personally know "rich" people, but definately am not one of them, monetarily. As some have stated, it is all in the attitude, not the dollar amount that makes one rich and happy or rich and unhappy. Coping skills are tougher on "some" of the rich. The ones...

2 Jan 10

long lost friend...

squaretile @squaretile (3778) • Singapore 23 Dec 09

how would you react if a friend whom you haven't spoken to in 10 years suddenly contacts you via facebook and says 'let's speak on the phone! emailing is too slow.' personally, I feel quite inertia-ed. We were not too close...

facebook

friend

phone

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MJ_Dakota When I first joined Facebook, I was stunned by all the old friends reaching out and those I was able to reach out to. What I have found is that once they connect with a "Hello", not much else happen in communication. The game play notices is mostly what I...

24 Dec 09

Do you prefer shopping online?

Iram786 @Iram786 (498) 22 Dec 09

personally i prefer offline shopping because i like to actually see the product and if it's clothes i like to try them on, that way i don't need to return to the store to exchange it or return it. online shopping does have its...

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MJ_Dakota I'm with you on this!! I do however go stores' websites and get an idea of what I'm looking for. I will read descriptions and technical info and then go to the store to again examine the product, try on the clothing, etc. I prefer to buy "in store", but I will...

22 Dec 09

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Do you always crayon within the lines?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 22 Dec 09

This could be taken as literal as actually coloring a picture book; or the philosophical way as in life. Last night my 3 year old had in his hand his box of crayons and his coloring book. It was a color-by-numbers page that he...

color

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MJ_Dakota I would like to write a resounding "yes", but unforntunately, some rules are just so absurb to me as well as a bit "nit-picky" that at times I find myself outside the lines. In coloring, sometimes we can create a beautiful picture by lightly passing the lines...

22 Dec 09

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why is tigerwood resigning from golf

tundeemma @tundeemma (894) • South Africa 17 Dec 09

the problems are getting too much for this guy and i believed he should be left alone, afterall he is not the only celebrity caught cheating, there are celebrities who have been doing this thing for several years yet the world has...

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MJ_Dakota Frankly, whatever Tiger Woods does with his life and career is his choice. He will be rewarded, with love or grief for whatever he chooses. If people would stop putting others on pedestals this type of "moral catastrophy" would not be such a media circus. With...

18 Dec 09

do you decorate your house for the Christmas?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 17 Dec 09

So, do you hang the Christmas lights outside of your house yet? And do you do the Christmas gift shopping yet? What about the Christmas tree? Honestly, I didn't do any of these, because my budget is tight, and I simply don't...

christmas

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MJ_Dakota Well, I don't really do much except put up and decorate a tree. A $20.00 Day after Thanksgiving fake 6ft douglas fir tree bought at Big Lots 8 years ago when I could not afford presents or ornaments, but tried to have a little Christmas for the kids. Now,...

18 Dec 09