Think Quality and not Quantity?

@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
January 1, 2010 5:57am CST
Today we are in our first day of a brand new year and as I am sitting down here typing and composing this discussion, trying to string words together to make my maiden post of the the new year, my thoughts pull me back to what I have and have not achieved in the year 2009 and at the same instance thinking what this year might bring home to me. I am skeptical, I am unsure and dare not make advance plannings in my calender. I only plan to live one day at a time and be happy for the present while allowing the future to take care of itself. We must admit that our money is going to buy us less and less goods, and if you are planning to buy a bigger car to fit the family I suggest you think carefully. Fuel hikes will be inevitable and if you haven't got started on 'Project Baby Four & Five' I suggest you rethink and do some family planning. It's really going to hurt your pocket in ensuring those little tots have a bright future. Some countries have made it compulsory to have only two children in the family which I think is a good move by the Governme to ensure quality citizens. But mass production is not necessary be of poor quality as is seen in a popular American television sitcom 'Brady Bunch'. So what have you projected in this coming year...a productive year? Or live a quality quiet life in the comfort of your own home?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Jan 10
Thats all we can do is live one day at atime and to the fullest. as I am to old to have any more kids and I was fixed years ago. I grown when my brother tells me he has 20 grand kids and another on ther way . I know his house is ery ful when they all get togethr!. I will do what I do mostly stay home but I also will go out once in awhile to gamble when I can lol l HAPPY NEW YEAR and more to come!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
2 Jan 10
It can be if you go wild but do within my means so I really dont go out that much anymore. But would be nice to meet you here in Vegas sometime!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 10
An expensive hobby lakota. Hope to join you in Las Vegas in future!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Jan 10
I am with you moment by moment, one day at a time is how I am striving to live my life. I have lived through good times of plenty and bad time of very tight means. Of course nothing I have lived through has been as bad a most of what the world lives in now. So I count my blessings and do what I can, be positive.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 10
Life is really not a bed of roses. I have sailed in rough seas many times but have equally experienced the good times when lady luck never stop smiling at me. It has made me a seasoned person and accept everything that comes my way.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Jan 10
Good morning Zandi & happy 2010. I am thankful for each day i heave 7 try to live it to the fullest & be thankful i had it. I don't make any plans for the future to speak of. U as always gave some good advice. There is nothing i want or need that i can think of so i'm in a good place. I hope all the young people or old people to for that matter has a good year.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 10
Hi Lady, your morning see my evening here. So it is nice to wake up in a fresh morning of the new year 2010. I hope everything is moving fine with you in the new year. . Today, 1st January is a public holiday for the world community and everyone is still in their New Year moods I suppose. We all hope for many good things to happen to us in this new year.
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@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
1 Jan 10
One Day at a time,, sure,,also thinking of starting a NEW PROJECT,
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 10
Happy to know that you'll have a new project in the pipeline this new year. Hope what ever you envisage will materialize and brings benefits to you and the people close to your heart.
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
for me,it's all about the quality,not the quantity.what will you do with a lot of stuff when they are all useless.I would rather have a few items that are of good quality than have a lot than easily break.I apply that principle in all aspects of my life.whether shopping or dating,quality wins over quantity.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 10
It is good that you have chosen quality over quantity. I wouldn't want to clutter my life with quantity without quality.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
4 Jan 10
As this new year will bring me to a milestone in age, I wanted to focus on my own health. I've neglected myself for far too long that I am hoping that this vigor for the new year bring with me a vigor to live healthy. It is day 4 and so far so good. I plan to take baby steps. I've cut down on the bad intakes, hopefully I could sustain this for the rest of the year. And maybe start with exercise at the end of the month.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 10
You have all the plannings set for the new year and hope it brings more good to your life.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Jan 10
I have a cavalier, come what may attitude towards the future. Ambition has never been part of my life and plans I have made to improve my lot have fallen by the wayside...either because I'm unable to focus on anything for very long or else outside influences beyond my control have interfered and I lack the drive to overcome setbacks. While I like to have something to look forward to, I am in no position to plan anything nice in the future. I will be keeping my eyes open for surprises and opportunities. At the same time, I will be needing to cut costs as much as possible in order to survive financially.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 10
Take care of your present as it is the gift of today and let tomorrow takes care of itself. Planning for the future can bring more disappointments than good if they don't materialize and would bring more stress to our already stressful life.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
2 Jan 10
I am planning on losing some weight this year and take more time for myself so I can get out and enjoy more things with my family. I work alot and never have the time for myself but I am going to do it this year.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 10
losing weight has been my yearly resolution but never really got around to do it seriously. Hope you succeed.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
1 Jan 10
Hi zandi! And a very Happy New Year to you! I have been sitting here responding to some discussions and I am just feeling very depressed and quite unsettled. I am very glad that 2009 is behind us, but I just am not having a good feeling about 2010 either and I hate that I'm feeling this way! I want to believe that things are going to get better this year, but I knew that even though the year did change my own personal situations really haven't and were still carried over into this new year! I am going to try to make the most of my situations and try to get a more positive outlook because that was one of my resolutions! And I am praying that the same holds true for the rest of the world, because of things don't get better in alot of ways this year I honestly don't know what is going to become of us!
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Jan 10
Like you I plan to live one day at a time and not worry too much about the future. Money is still tight but we are lucky enough to have a good home and food which a lot of folks don’t have enough of and most importantly we have our health which is fortunate because without that life would be a lot tougher. I have no specific plans I am going to go with the flow and see where it takes me...
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 10
We need to live today and open up for the future.
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@May2k8 (18362)
• Indonesia
3 Jan 10
As we are planning something at least put a little of our savings books. Sometimes something that was planned with the mature unlike what we imagine. Life is full of challenges and trials we may even fail to try again until successful. This trip was very long and more meaningful if our words and the quality was absolutely perfect. Go on, still a lot we can do.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 10
Never give up hope. When we fall we should rise up immediately to face all the challenges in life.
@teamrose (1492)
• United States
2 Jan 10
I plan to stay focused on losing weight. I want to be totally fit by March 27, which is my birthday and keep it off.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 10
Losing weight is the most difficult part to accomplish. We all love to eat and that makes us forget about the fat that is slowly accumulating in our bodies.
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
2 Jan 10
I think Quality is more important then quantity. You can have lots of different stuffs but they could break down and just not work anymore. Then you would be stuck with a big repair bill. But with quality stuff you will know they are strong and reliable and don't need as much care and repair.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 10
Good reasons to buy quality. We only clutter our house with quantity things without quality.
@MJ_Dakota (126)
• United States
2 Jan 10
Good day and New Year hopes and dreams to you. For me, the New Year is a year of re-birth. 2009 was full of many challenges and self lessons that although everyday brings more, 2010 feels very bountiful in bringing more "life" than more grief. I do make plans, but I also am able to recognize that all plans made may not be accomplished in MY time frame, but that doesn not mean they won't be accomplished. If you do not have plans, goals, dreams, your spirit will become bored and stagnate. I do appreciate the quiet times, but those are the times when I let myself dream... and plan to achieve those dreams or actually put the effort into those dreams. Plans do not always mean obtaining objects, they can mean spending quality time with the family, your self and loved ones. Goals and flexabilty to all!!
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 10
I agree with you that without plans, dreams and goals is like living an empty life. We need to have some dreams to make life interesting.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
1 Jan 10
The year 2009 has been one of big changes for me. I have moved out of my parents house and into my own appartment with my boyfriend. I have switched jobs and I have started a part time studies instead of being a full time student. Also, I started an internship. It has been a busy and productive year, but it has taken a lot out of me. I am still planning on making the best of my studies and working a certain amount of hours, but my biggest concern is to make more time for my family and friends. Money can't buy you time or love, but we can make those two ourselves if we can find the peace of mind.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 10
Moving out from the nest to a place you call your own is the first taste of independence. It will be a great experience and a good lesson for the future. Sooner or later everyone needs to be detached from the family and find their own comfort in life. It is good that you have taken the bold step to be independent from your family.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jan 10
hi zandi oh yes quality instead of quantity might work for a lot of things I think. I am not sure yet what the new' year will bring for my adult son and myself, but I am sure that it will be better than this past year by far. the first thing for my son of course is a good job then we can go from there. I would love to make a bit more money so to have more funds on hand. the rest well I will just wait and see what happens. I am keeping very positive this time in hopes it will draw only good to us. To have a home again thats my fondest hope, my biggest,best hope.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 10
Hi Hatley, I pray that you will finally end your long standing problems and be reunited with your son once he finds a house. It will be something to look forward to in this new year.
• India
21 Jan 10
Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, For me money is secondary, as I know verywell that I can limit my desires and control my expeses, but I do believe in quality delievered to society as a whole. We all must satrt doing at least something good for our society, and eraidicate at least one evil including extra=-spending, and not becoming misor. I know money plays important roll, but money is something and not everything. May God bless You and have a great time.
• United States
21 Jan 10
Here is what I think about quality vs quantity. I think that everyone should keep both in mind equally. Reason being, what is quantity without quality? But who says you can't have quality WITH quantity? Well, both are possible. It depends on what it is and what it's for and how long it takes to successfully create a quality product. The US is slowly declining in quality and monopolizing on quantity. We just don't realize it enough to fix it...