How would you feel
By bigplay
@bigplay (212)
United States
December 16, 2009 11:47pm CST
How would you feel if every where you moved to one of the neighbors developed a crush on you? Now, i don't think i'm that attractive but for some reason some girls do, i don't know why. But every place that i moved to that i have lived for a year, some girl had a crush on me, i'm not bragging or anything because i'm nothing special and not much to look at in my opinion. What would you do as a guy, or what would you do as a girl? And how would you feel about yourself? Would you become arrogant? Or would you stay humble? Me? I remain humble, i don't think i look good at all, i just keep my hair neat and i try to be clean and clean cut, and i don't even try to impress girls.
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13 responses
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
I guess you just be yourself and appreciate that there are others that appreciate for who you are. I think by thwe way you described yourself you might just as well attractive but you just don't realize that for yourself. I think there is something wrong with your self-worth. You should try appreciating yourself and I do not think there is nothing wrong if you do that. Just do not think that you are unattractive because you are not since there are others that see you attractive.
Being humble is a good attitude but looking down at yourself is not also good. Just be fair about how you treat yourself. Start by thinking that you are a good looking guy.
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@mstriguna (418)
• India
17 Dec 09
That's positive thinking rsa101.
I never faced such a situation as I always thought I am looking smart today but I was never hmmm. I guess the author here is actually getting attracted by girls because of his character may not be because of the look only. I guess he has an attitude which makes girls attract towards him. :)
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@moonchild117 (1987)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
Can't see your photo so it's hard to judge the physical factor. But if you say you're not so special in looks (or whatever), then girls may be attracted to your personality. Maybe you're friendly, a gentleman, easy to get along with -- you probably have the traits that girls find attractive. With that, you should feel more confident about yourself, but of course not to the point of being arrogant. Stay humble and stay as you are. Don't try to impress because as it is, they're drawn to you already.
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@Gram13000 (443)
• United States
18 Dec 09
I have had this issue all my life and I must say that a little arrogence might help. Im not saying be a total jerk but the way you feel ive been there before and you are too humble. I am very humble too but sometimes I have to break out of that because looks are not all there is to it and eventually they will loose their crush if they dont get to know you. And trust me when I say women love arrogent guys. I am not arrogent but I will play the role for a good moment if I have to it works like a charm.
@Apple3Cranberry (678)
• United States
18 Dec 09
i think that if you have this problem then it is a problem within you. it is something you need to deal with. it is not something for other people, not something for your neighbor or mom, but something unique to you. maybe it is a therapist question, or it is a question for your mom. or a diary. perhaps you can come up with an answer by experimenting through art. just let things be. there is a lot of experiences in life, and there is a lot of time.
@hotsummer (13837)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
it is just normal i guess. that is part of life. people get attracted to people .and some sort of crushes developed.
@mstriguna (418)
• India
17 Dec 09
First of all that never happened to me. So being humble or arrogant in that case never comes into my picture.. :)
But if I were then I would feel good about me but I would be careful as being feeling good may increase and become bad sometimes. So to be on the safer side, we should not change ourself because somebody likes us. Someone else is liking us because of what we are now. So be whatever you are and let more people like you.
Enjoy your day bro.. :)
@mkings (289)
• Germany
17 Dec 09
I think you just have to stay the way you are what I me is remain yourself.Never forget not all that glitters is gold some will came some will go but the one that stay will remain your and your forever.
@bhav27 (442)
• India
17 Dec 09
Well if this will happen with me then definitely there is something in me that's why people are getting attracted towards me and i will also like this kind of behaviour from them but it will start irritating me if it will keep on stretching , hope you understand what i mean to say exactly , it is good that people are attracted towards you or having a crush on you but after sometime it is like irritating. so better i will stay at home and watch any movie instead of going out where starring eyes will irritate me.lol
@spice_r_do (37)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
For me as a guy, just appreciate if they will say something good about me. I value respect so I would not play on them. It would be of great advantage for me since I'm new to the place and for sure I would want to have more friends... I would not try to brag about myself instead.. I will also look for positive things about them and appreciate the beauty that they possess
