What Does Mommy Want For Christmas?
By dorannmwin
@dorannmwin (36392)
United States
December 20, 2009 12:26pm CST
What would make you happy this Christmas? Money isn't an issue, but no paying off debt, this is something for you only.
For me, I'd like to have a weekend where I could get away from the kids and do things that I enjoy. Take a long bath without someone else in the bathroom with me. Lie in bed and read and be able to watch television shows that don't involve singing or talking animals.
I've been a full-time mother for over three years and it has been that long since I've had a day without children as well.
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16 responses
@much2say (55912)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Dec 09
I can't imagine a WHOLE day without kids . . . what a concept - hee hee!! Well, sometimes parents need a healthy break . . . so a weekend getaway would be great! As you know, I have a newborn, so I won't be going away from the family for a while. Let's see . . . what do I want for Christmas and what would make me happy? Funny how "money" comes to mind as it would take care a lot of things, but I know I'm not supposed to answer with that. So, I'll say . . . taking a full week to catch up with projects and errands that have been in the back burner. If I could have just a week to myself, I think I'd be a lot more organized and have this place cleared out of the mess. That, for starters, would make me happy!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
A full week to catch up on the things that have gotten behind in the house would be a great thing to have as well. I may have to add that to my holiday wish list. Do you think that either of us have a chance of getting it?
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I have come to realize that as well. I sometimes feel like I am going crazy hearing the children yelling and fighting with each other that I just want to be taken away from everything for a small period of time.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
LOL. We do need money to pay for our bills, but I don't feel like beyond that it is necessary to have a lot of money. I'm becoming more of a minimalist every day of my life.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
21 Dec 09
This Mummy would have liked to have had all chldren and grands together on that day but son and family are in Dubai. However I do give thanks for three out of four children and two out of four grands.
Many years ago when my family was small I had a good friend who also had four children. she was financially better of than me. So twice a year, her husband took over the house and she booked into a hotel from Friday night to Sunday evening. She took a book to read - or two - and had a mani and pedi plus services f a masseuse and had her hair done. She cherished her quiet time as she said it rejuvenated her. Most of all she said she enjoyed eating a meal in peace without forever jumping up from the table for something. I always envied her
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
It is a great wish to be able to have your entire family together for the holiday. You are right though to feel blessed that the majority of your family will be able to be together for the holiday. I hope that you will also get to talk toy our son in Dubai on Christmas day.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
A housekeeper for a few days sounds great too. Maybe if I were to have one I would be able to get my house in line and organized once and for all.
@Lovebirds90 (207)
• United States
25 Dec 09
what does mommy want for Christmas?
Ans is NEW BABY (just kidding)
mom only want that his child will be stand on his/her feet and face all challenges and have ability to solve all of his/her problems
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
26 Dec 09
Thank you so much for sharing. That is such a beautiful and selfless wish that you've shared.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
I have been a full-time mother for four years yet I can get a little extra time for myself once in a while. For this Christmas, I just wish that me and my daughter will be able to travel and hope that my husband will allow us to do so.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I hope that you and your daughter will be able to travel as well. Are you hoping to visit family or do you just want to be able to take your daughter somewhere that she has never been?
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
21 Dec 09
i know just what you mean. been there, done that. many yrs ago as the old saying goes. my oldest was 8 yrs old before i got hardly an hour alone without they were in bed asleep then my in laws insisted on giving us the honeymoon we'd never had and sent us to the Marriot and watched the kids for the night and a day. it was heaven they even had an indoor heated pool and it was of course snow outside cause we lived in ohio at the time
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Since my oldest was born, there has only been one time that I was away from kids for more than 24 hours. That was when my husband and I went on our honeymoon when she was 19 months old. Those few days were heavenly, but now that I've got two children, I think I need a rejuvenation weekend again.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I am a mom and a gramma, and I live where the winters are long and cold, so I think I would opt for a vacation in a small comfy beach-bum cottage in the Bahamas or Jamaica or somewhere like that :))
Fun question!
Karen
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
That sounds great too. I love spending time at the beach and I haven't had the opportunity to visit the beach in over five years. I miss going and just laying on the beach with no other agenda in mind.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
21 Dec 09
i think that your arrangment is good for Christmas,sometimes we should give ourself full-time to share festivel and relax completely.although i have no child with my husband,but i often was busy with my job and life and few time to share,i find that it was good way to relax myself,i think that i would visit my husband family and share village life,the quite village life would be useful for me.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Sounds like your form of relaxation would be very nice as well. I think that anything that gives us a time out from our regular day to day life is a wonderful thing to have.
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I remember when I was little my brother, sister and I made home made gifts for our mom and dad. I also remember how happy my mom was when we would help the church put together gift baskets for those less fortunate. We also donated to the toys for tots drive. Now, that I do not have any kids of my own I still make gift baskets full of treats and give them out to the family. I also make home made fudge and will bring them over to the Christmas Eve party. I still donate to the toys for tots drive and this year we donated to an organization that collects books for children. This always makes my mom happy.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I do love when my children make me a Christmas gift. The thought that they put their own time into a gift for me really does make me happy. I really love that about children, the simplest things about them are the things that make mother the happiest.
@terrile (97)
• United States
21 Dec 09
This sounds like heaven to me! My oldest is 9 and I have had 17 days in that time without my kids. 15 of them they were with my parents out of state while we did an extensive whirlwind remodel of our house and it was too dangerous for them at home. the other 2 I was 7 months preg. with another child and went with my husband to a business affair, I don't think it was 2 full days even. no real mommy time at all. And since I homeschool.... (i've thought about assaulting my husband just to get the jailtime)
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
LOL at assaulting your husband so that you could get some jail time. My oldest is 7 and I've had a total of 5 days without a child with me in that time. I did, however, continue to send Kathryn to the babysitter's after her little brother was born so that I had a little bit of peace when Paul was a baby.
@lilachoney (15)
• United States
21 Dec 09
Wow I have been thinking of doing the same. I wish men would have designed bathrooms where u could see a tv while you soak in the hot massaging swirling water in the tub thats big enough to sit in. Light candles that you can set somewhere especially with kids ur counter must be full of "stuff". I like to read magazines in the tub. Now that my sons got older and moved out I have my own bathroom which is really nice. Now if I could just talk the husband into giving me a small version of a hot tub a flat screen tv on the wall and candle area table. I'd have it made I had to wait 20 years for this u know .Santa owes me BIG TIME
I have plants and a siamese fighting fish in jar which is held by a plant hanger.I dont know what u do for a living it sounds to me u should be an interior designer.U would make millions because u know what an everyday housewife is going through. NO PRIVACY
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I'm a stay at home mother and have been for the past three years. I guess that is why I know what a housewife needs in her life. We actually rebuilt our own bathroom from the tub and toilet up last year and now that I think about it, I really enjoyed doing that from picking the flooring and the shower surround to choosing the shower surround and the colors. Although my bathroom doesn't have a hot tub in it or a television, it really is like my little slice of heaven in our home.
@lovely514 (35)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I wouldn't be greedy.. i just want a two hour massage and a day where i can lay in bed and get waited on all day. just some time to myself. i have a 4 month old and i havent been away from him since he was born. so a day to myself would be heaven. come on santa bring me what i want!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I wish that it was possible for Santa to bring us the things that we want that aren't material at all. Best of luck to you and to your new little boy.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
That sounds like a lot of fun. I love to shop but I would have to do it solo because my husband is the kind of man that doesn't like to shop unless it is for electronics.
@dmrone (746)
• United States
20 Dec 09
Hi, dorannwin! I can't say that this mommy wants anything for Christmas, except a home for her and her family. I know this is supposed to be just for mom, but i have never been one to actually look out or worry about myself. I basically always put myself last. I don't think that i could even think of something just for me, it has been so long since i have worried about or even wanted something just for me, that i would not know where to begin. Merry Christmas!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I don't think there is anything at all wrong with thinking about your entire family when it comes to the holiday season. I also think that there is a small amount of selfishness in each mother and that I think is where this discussion stemmed from.