Online lovers

To some people this kind of relationship won't last or impossible to happened. When love hits you, you have no escape but to fall in love to that person. Love choose no one. I met my partner in cyber and we've been together for almost five years. For five years I haven't seen my partner's face on cam and haven't met personally. When true love comes i guess you don't care if he/she is besides you. What matters most is the feeling you have towards that person. It's risky to invest your emotions and trust to stranger but once you're happy and contented, i guess there's no problem with that.

I don't like `online love. Maybe someone think that is ture,but...perhaps all is not as you wish

Hi ellie! Seen you after long time. I thought you are going to write a serious peom about lovers on on-line. It is an interesting post because those who fall in love through cyber world may not eventually succeed. Some of them do get their lover for life time. You see there are many obstacles in loving a person, through on-line channels and untill and unless both the parties are truely committed and sincere, flower of love cannot prosper and bloom. BTW, if it did happen with you that you could not succeed in getting your lover, please do not worry, life is too short, there are many other things in life, which will make you busy. Or if it was a hypothetical situation, then let it ne. There is no need to get emotional, because it is not going to help, in my opinion. Deepak WISH YOU MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR.

sometimes maybe it is worth the emotions and the experience. i met my huby online and i can say its all worth it. eventhough we did had ups and downs..so much worse but still we are together till now:))

I think online lovers really don't feel true love, because love has laws and it won't change just because of technologies. for example, true love needs trust, and how could you give full trust to someone whom you can see only if they are online. Others would defend that they really feel true love, but yet i say you are just fooling yourself.

Frankly speaking,I don't believe in online love,people are complicated animal so it's difficult to know what other people are thinking of.Love sometimes is also complex even if they know each other very well.So if me, I will reject this kind of love,untruthful.

I think that meeting someone online does have its benefits. As long as both people are being truthful in everything they say, it is a great way to get to know someone's personality. You don't use body language or vocal intonation or physical appearance to get to know the person, only what they say and explain. However it may not be the same if the two meet in 'real life'. I guess it's a trial and error thing, you can meet up and see if the romance translates in person and if it doesn't well then that's a friendship made.

You may be loving a fictitious person online who only dramatize his love for you knowing that it is almost impossible to realize that love affair you have created over the net. Unless there is meeting of the eyes which eventually correspond with the stirring of the heart that would likely confirm the real love. Otherwise you should only enjoy the presence of the other vaguely in the chatroom. Don't be a victim of cyberworld love as it will only leave you with unnecessary emotional baggage to shoulder. Come back to reality and seek the love you need in the real world. They are too many online casanovas hunting for their preys. Don't fall for one or you'll be sorry for breaking your heart into pieces.

I think that it is much harder to break up with an online lover because I tend to make them into the perfect guy and they are only putting their best foot forward. I am missing the gassy nights after chilly, or that he snores. I am not hearing a stupid giggle but imagining a voice I melt to. I know that they do the same. I am the most sensual and sweet. They are not seeing much of who I am offline. They only see what I want them to and they only take in what they want and fill the rest with someone they would want in their mind. So it is like breaking up with prince charming because that is what I created and not really what was there.

Online lovers is one of the most crucial when entered in a relationship. For it gives no assurance but only relays. It may give many doubtful thoughts and fears. If the person on the online love has gave you the realization that somehow, It brought out the best in you based on your considerations. Then, I cannot blame you. Emotional baggage always exists in any kind of relationship especially when things have to end without any justification at all or properly made a clear exit in a relationship. It is normal nowadays, and the best remedy for that is try to overcome the pain instead think of what lies ahead of you. Let it serve as and additional learning experience and correct mistakes to avoid it happening again. Though, there are successful relationships happening in some online lovers but it depends on the person's involved.

most of the time is just do it,to do,to smile,to cry and to remember to forget,it's the life...tastable and colorful....dare to do it..

I've never been in an online relationship before, I never thought about the concept you've written here. That sounds pretty sad. I'm not sure if I'd want to get into a relationship with those risk. Maybe only if your going to have an actual face to face relationship in a predetermined amount of time.

Whatever emotion about somebody is definitely unique. So, don't ever feel shy to express. The chance maybe only once and never happen again. So, do what you suppose to do. Don't regret because not doing it and don't regret after you do it. Think before you take action.