the mind of a mistress

United States
December 25, 2009 6:35pm CST
I have come across women who indulge in a relationship with married men.Most of them have affairs with men who are not in love with them but just to use them.The only language used by this men is my wife do not understand me, i never wanted to marry her even worst i will divorce her for you!. And you see these women fallingfor that.I see women claiming that they are into a relationship with a married man just because they are trying to be a shoulder for them to lean on,some even went as far as saying that they are helping them to be better husband. I often wonder how a relationship born out of infidelity will last.And for the men who think they can eat their cake and have it?Take for instance the case of Tiger Woods,did he ever thought that the women are keeping tracks and records of every discussion they make.
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
27 Dec 09
many people are lonely and desperate for a relationship. they go after whoever they meet and is interested in them, regardless if married or single. it is not easy to meet the right person nowadays, and most unhappy married couples married for the wrong reasons that they have wandering eyes for others.
• China
26 Dec 09
i think if a husband cheat on her wife,there must be some reasons,marrage is needed to be built up by heart
@drakesuyat (1063)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
i know one mistress whose passion is to home wreck! she has been into so many relationships with husbands. she is a very beautiful lady right but cant seem to understand how that thing on her head is going? although most of this guys only wanted experience with her in bed, some fall for her and leave their family only to find out in the end that the great mistress has fallen out of love. funny thing is, she never even demand for money and she even give them money most of the time. huh! most of her friend even advice her to just look for an old wealthy guy but she doesnt seem to get thrilled with that kind of a relationship.
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
I think it's one of the cases of desiring something you can't easily have.while I think it's crazy,some women do have that complex thinking.when something is uneasily obtainable,they will work hard to get it.once they get it,they get sick of it and forget it.it might be also the case of an egotistical jerk who is insecure and not contended with one woman alone.some men are bothered by their marketability that they go out and flirt with women to affirm themselves they are still "hot".
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
26 Dec 09
I share your sentiments in disliking women who get into relationships with married men, I myself wouldn't want to be a victim of a broken marriage because of a third party. I pity these women because they will not find true happiness, how can they if they are making others unhappy. Having a relationship with a married man usually has a sad ending.
@arym72 (49)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
Many women consider themselves the hero type and just thought they are better than the wives...Gosh,how would they feel if they are the wife and her husband cheat on her?I hate that kind of mindset of a woman who thinks they can do better in this world being a mistress.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
i think most women may have fallen for the crap like this one and actually allow themselves to be the other woman because they think or they thought these men will leave their families for the other woman. believe me... there are quite a number of homewreckers out there and there are quite more fools who really did leave their families for the other younger woman. i would not like to judge each and every person... but for most i see that the other woman really is the one dependent on the man in terms of financial gains that is why they stick to the relationship. for someone like Tiger woods, well i have expected these women to keep track of every thing, and every proof she can keep to make sure she does not become the liar in this situation. because for someone as famous as Tiger woods, it would have been easy for him to deny having had affairs.