When people at work don't like you, what do you do?

keep away from them when I dont have to be near them. If i do have to work with them I will just talk to them normally and get the job done. They are going to be a few people that dont like me and I dont really hold it against them.

tell your friend to be minfull of only what our employer thinks,it is the employer that will be paying her not the employes,she is too mindfull of others that r not mindfull of her in a positive way,be mindfull not of them it will affect her sooner or later,to work effectively,

i know team work is important but at workplace you can manage things with your skill and efficiency at your work to some extent.just ignore the extraneous part.that's the best you can do.

My view is it is a place of work only. As long as it does not affect your work, then you should ignore these people.

At first, I'm also affected if people at work doesn't like me but I realized later that I can not please everybody. So I learned not to bother them, I just ignore them and continue my work. Your friend should learn not to listen to everyone, because anyone can just say whatever they want and doesn't consider other's feelings.

Well.. the older I get, the less I worry about what other people think. But it can be hard to go to work and face people you know do not like you. I do not know if it is self esteem thing, but it can be trying on the nerves to say the least. I used to go out of my way to make those people like me. Sometimes, though, people are just not going to get there. You can not make everyone love you! I usually just try and ignore them now.. not let them effect me one way or the other.

well i do have an officemate like that where people often give her comments and always tease her and criticize her even her personal life, i do pity her yet i guess she just found a way to cope up with all of it and being able to ignore it all,. that is why at times i do admire, she was able to ignore it till now

I rememeber that I am not there to make friends. I am there to support myself and my family and although I am very nice to everyone, I don't take it personally if I am not liked. Not everyone will like you and you will not like everyone but the important thing where work is involved is to keep all relationships within the company on a professional level. You will gain respect from your coworkers and superiors if you stick to that.

ignore them lol, you are at work to work you don't need to be liked or to like any of your colleagues. If somebody doesn't like me at work then thats not my problem aslong as it doesn't affect the ability to work then no problem. If people cannot be professional at work then thats when you need to approach hr about it and let them sort the problem out.

of coursed i cannot expect everyone to like me, so if happen in my work someone happen not to like me will i'll just ignore these person and go on in my work...

I just ignore them.. I don't really care if they hate me or not.. i don't get paid by them so I just do my job and try to avoid any dealings with them. =) I always try to be positive and just enjoy the company of my friends at work..

hi friend, if we go to work we should not be too sensitive friend.if we have the talent to manage any type of situation only we will be comfortable with that job.in office environment sure there will be people who likes us so we can move well with people who likes us friend.if people who don't like us comment anything about us better we should not hear it friend.we should never turn to their side. have a nice day :)

i just say to ignor dat people as is stik on dat tension to face dat person, we not able to achive our targets to do work. so. just ignor and make them more jealouse by proving them dat u nt get affected with his/ her behaviour atall. all d best

for me i will just focus on what i do i will not let them affect my work..i will just mind my own business and work as a professional...hehehe

Depending on her job it is not really her place to please her collegaues. You do not say why they do not like her though. Are you sure she is just not being paranoid? If they do not like her, for whatever reason that is their problem. It may make her working life difficult but at end of day as long as she can do her job well, thats all that matters.

careguarden I try to be friendly but not overly so and just go about my business. as I know I am a nice person, I just consider they are missing out on my friendship and do what I am there for. If they do not like me that is their loss not mine. I have friends so thats not a biggie for me. I guard against being offensive but I will not kowtow to someone in order to gain their dubious friendship. I was so lucky where I have worked as we all got along so beautifully, no dislikes, no rudeness just friends all around.

I maintain good relationsip with all the people I work with. You should be careful about the relationsip at work. You can behave to people at any way in your home, but that should not be the case with people at work. You should be a little careful because work is important to you. Try to keep good relationship with everybody at work, but at the same time keep a distance. That is what I follow to maintain good relationship with my colleagues.

I dont reallly bother much about how my co-worker feels about me. If they dont like me so what? as long as my boss is not one of them and I am doing my best at work that is enough. My mom use to tell me that people who dont like you are more likely to be the people who are insecure... If you friends keep thinking about what other thinks of her it will drive her life nuts. And that wont be nice... My mom always tells my sister who used to be like that "dont mind them, there are better things to do than think of them... why should you want to waste your time thinking about whether they like you or not when you know that they dont care at all..."

Personally, I just choose to ignore them. I'm there simply to earn money for myself, not to make friends or enemies. I don't care what such people think of me because I know that after work, I won't have to see them again and I can spend time with people who I actually get on with and who I would consider friends.

hi dear , first of all there is always two reasons of people hate behaviour towards us one is that people are jealous of us and hate our position and repotituion that's why they develop hated feelings for us and second reason is that they are in misconception , due to some misunderstanding they develop the feeling , ask them about the reason of hating if the reason is genuine then ask them to forget it if not then i never get personaal with them , for me they are just my co-workers , let them hate.