question about relationship

If you assure that he is your Mr. Right, you can get engaged before you going aboard. That is help to guarantee your relationship. If you are still not quite sure if your heart will always belong to him, i think you have no right to worry he will find someone elso. That is equal, Girl !

can he go with you,i mean find a job or school there? first, he doesn't want you to go, so if you leave, he will be angry and then, that will be the biggest excuse for him to have someone else. and, i can tell he knows you love him much more than he loves you by "what if i have someone else". if he really love you as much as you do, i think his should be worried about "what if you have someone else, if you aren't happy with me". so in my option, i choose my education. becasue education will never cheat on me. second, for long distance relationship , you guys have to work it out together. if he doesn't care, whatever you do, won't work. my husband and i had long distance relationship for 2 years before we got married. we both worked very hard. call , chat online, be honest, work hard keep us busy and the most important thing, we trust each other.

Its very clear from what you have mentioned. You should choose you priority. I am not telling to leave him but you should decide what is you priority. From my point of you I would prefer my priority and dump him. Dump him with reason being explained to him. Not just cold dump, a warm dump. I don't understand one thing. If he has already cheated you in past, why you want to take risk at all. You should learn from your mistakes. If you keep doing same mistake again, then you are the only responsibile for your condition. So dear, Please make study and your career priority. And just listen to a beautiful song by Robbie Williams, title is Something beautiful. The reason is that somethig beautiful (not just in appearance) is waiting for you. Good luck...!

actually we often met many selection in our life and could not keep balance between the career and love,especially as women they sacrifice too much.when you go abroad for 2-3 years.it is too long process for him to wait your coming,actually noboby can promise what happen during this time.maybe you can lost your love.maybe you could not be here together even you give up your education.nobody know what happen in the future.as for you.i think that you should select your education.although the time is long.but nobody hope to do regret thing and you should do what you want,as for love,i think that if he love you and can wait for you.then he can understand your mind and leave you go,not prevent your step.

It's such a tough one. Is there no way he can relocate to by you either? I guess you would really have to take advise from someone who had had aa successful long distance relationship. It's all very well to trust each other but distance sure makes things hard. If you are seeing each other regularly still for holidays and the like it could work?

It seems you and your boyfriend have a complicated relationship.You want to keep this relationship,and the new world also make you excited.There is unknown waiting for you,maybe a real Mr.right. So for my opinion,there is no problem for your boyfriend,the problem is yourself,what do your need?If you konw that ,just do it. Thanks.

Hello! If your boyfriendhas cheated on you once there is no proof that he will not do it again exspecially when you will be far away! You have to go!don't stay because of your boyfriend. and if he doesn't believe in 8-years-relationship then probably his just not ready for moving on or hes just afraid that you could leave him...you have to go and then you will see how your relations will move on - don't regret anything!!! We live in this world for too short time to regret something or doubt to do it or not! Just be happy and don't worry about him too much!

well nymphantom if he did cheat once, and hes going what If I have someone else, then he is saying dont go or I will cheat again. either marry or dump him, if you can go together all that time why not commit, if you cannot commit find someone new with whom you can commit and get the heck married. this living together is the bunk.

If he truly loves you he will let you grow. What is the purpose of your study? To have a better life in the future right? If you can have a better future someday he should not take that opportunity away from you, that is unselfish love. Your main purpose of going abroad is to study and not to find another man. Before you convince him you should have convince yourself first so your mind set is not changing. If he fooled around again, then let him go. Five years is nothing compared to the lifetime you will spend with the wrong person.

Hey if he really loves you he'll really understand you and he'll also understand that msc is also important for you..but if he doesn't its five year of infatuation. relationship doesn't mean hanging around with each other and kisses n hugs, its also about understanding each other and keeping on the faith.Aniwez you do have phone and internet and its just about 2 to 3 years and i guess you'll be coming home for vacations.Romance after a long time has a special meaning in itself and is filled with magical indegrient if its real love but not infatuation.