Esmechan

@Esmechan (53)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Relaxed and Enjoy

Esmechan's Activity

Will you paint your bedroom wall in black?

sasalove @sasalove (1709) • China 14 Sep 09

My friends just kidding me that if she has a dorm of her own, she will paint it in black. I don't know whether the joke will come true or not as she will do whatever she can do. LOL And I just jokes back," Is there any black paint...

in black

wall colour

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Esmechan It seems that your friend's idea is unpractical. I would preper the pink or warm color in my bedroom to keep me feel warm and cheer up. Facing a black wall maybe could make me become glommy,haha.....

27 Jan 10

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Do you own a lot of dresses? (Or dress-clothes)?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 18 Jan 10

I recently found myself buying this super cute formal dress, despite the fact that I have absolutely NO WHERE to wear it to! I don't go out to bars (as I'm not 21), I don't go to social dinner parties or many parties in...

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Esmechan haha, i always have the similar occasion as you. Once i saw sth cute and on sale, i would buy impulsively, even though i do have no opportunity to wear it. It seems to be waisting money, but i still remember I was quite happy and excited during my shopping....

19 Jan 10

made in china!!!

prepzter23 @prepzter23 (131) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

We know that almost all the products that arte cheap and but low in quality are came from china.Is it the secret of there booming industry to make huge quantities of products but low in qualities?My father said that if you have...

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Esmechan It seems that nowtodays Chinese Manufactoring industry are going 2 extremes. One is mass production with low quality and low price, like the Brand Copy; The other is Luxurious products manufactory with supreme quality but high price. Studyng the root...

15 Jan 10

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1 person

Beauty Does Matter

gracefuldove @gracefuldove (1668) • Malaysia 14 Jan 10

Don't we feel jealous when we see a Venusian of a beauty/ Tall,beautifully endowed features and a most charming face. They get the best boys. They can pick their jobs. Even in colleges, professors and lecturers drool over them and...

beauty

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Esmechan Yes, i agree that Beauty is very important and enjoying so much priority, especially at the first impression. But it doesn't mean anything. If the beauty is very rude in manner and impolite to everything,i don't think she can achieve anybody's...

14 Jan 10

Eating...eating.... dilemma!!

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 14 Jan 10

I went to the town yesterday accompanying my mom to buy groceries and it already past 12 before lunch. So we decided to eat in a nearby fast food as I queuing on the line with many people who just like us are in a hurry to be...

annoying services

eating dilemma

unhygienic fastfood

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Esmechan Personally, i will prefer the clean and healthy food. But, occasionally, i would still choose the place just like you mentioned above. Since you can great fun there, even though there is noisy and crowded.

14 Jan 10

Do you study late at night before you sleep or in the morning?

kafueenu @kafueenu (1073) • Philippines 12 Jan 10

Personally, I am kind of not in the best form when I wake up hehe. Plus I wake up when there is only time to eat and take a bath, if I do more than that, I would be late hehe. And that happens even if I sleep early hehe. I do...

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Esmechan My living habit is similar to you, so i have the same feeling as you. There is never leisure time for me everytime, even thoug i sleep a little bit earlier and waked up a litter earlier.

13 Jan 10

My husband is FINALLY getting treated for sleep apnea!

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 12 Jan 10

Yep, he saw a doctor and had a sleep study done last Friday! YIPPEEEEEEE!!! During the sleep study, his sleep apnea reared it's ugly head as high as it could manage. They put a CPAP (Continuous Positive Airway Pressure) on him...

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Esmechan My parents both have sleep apnea. Once they fall asleep, they snor loudly just as the sound of the gale. It is not so important that these noise affect me, but that i am so worry on their health. Does CPAP really help? Is it a medical equipment ? Is seems...

13 Jan 10

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Another Day In My Life........

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 11 Jan 10

Have you ever did this before? Well today I answered the telephone and it was from this insurance company trying to get me to take some insurance that I can not afford. I am unemployed and have been for over a year. I am a senior...

made my day

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Esmechan Haha, Funny...But it is a common phenomenon. It seems that you are a vigorous person, who always wanna to convince others. Now, you felt disapponited and confused, i supposed you really need a quiet listener. As a good sale for insurance, he should be...

12 Jan 10

What will you do if you are the President of a country?

joseph_jedidiah @joseph_jedidiah (130) • Philippines 11 Jan 10

Hi! mylotters, Good morning or good evening as the case maybe! Every citizen of a country desires to effect some changes in their country or community or perhaps in the world.Some in trying to effect these changes resorts to...

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Esmechan Well, if i were the president, i would pay much attention on the social welfare and society security. I really don't want any refugees existed in my country.So the Goverment should provide more opportunities to the people. That it is, more and moren people...

12 Jan 10

School Uniforms

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 10 Jan 10

My daughter is in the first grade at one of the public schools here. Many of the schools in our county have gone to dress code schools while several of the other ones have not. Her school is one of the schools where the children...

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Esmechan Yes, i agree that school uniform will be more convenient, both for the parents and school. The school become easily to manage and the children can spend less time on dressing.

11 Jan 10

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my grandmother has decided to just die

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 8 Jan 10

she has cancer and just has a seisure and is in the hospital. she has demanded to go home and stop kemo treatments and just live out the rest of her life with out hospitals or meds. i understand her point but it's so hard to...

cancer

death

grandmother

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Esmechan So far as know, hospital may not be the most effective way to cure Cancer. Living in hospital will easily make the patient felt upset and disappointed,especially for the aged person. If so, that will sharpen her illness and pain. Have you think about that...

9 Jan 10

Being friends with an X of the family

natnickeep @natnickeep (2336) • United States 8 Jan 10

Okay where do I start. I am so frustrated right now. Let me explain. I am an only child but my husband has 4 siblings. I became friends with his brothers girlfriend when they were together. They have a 3 yr old together but split...

anger

exs

family

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Esmechan In different position, people always have different idea.In your friend's idea, she need your support and want you to become her listener; In your opinion, you really don't wanna hear such complain. That is common phenomenon. If i were you, i will back up...

9 Jan 10

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question about relationship

Nymphantom @Nymphantom (143) • Vietnam 7 Jan 10

Hello everyone, I plan to go abroad for MSc studies, which will take me 2-3 years to complete. Yesterday my boyfriend of 5 years told me not to leave and "What if I have someone else?" And I start to think: what if he DOES have...

long distance relationship

love

relationship

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Esmechan haha, yor are so frank, thank you ! If so, i advise you just go ahead and let it be naturally. Maybe both of you won't change anything and you will be still together; maybe you can find another belove. Nobody knows. Just go and follow your heart.

8 Jan 10

how's the weather in your city?

rose66 @rose66 (378) • China 7 Jan 10

this winter is very very cold in the worldwild. i live in the qingdao city shandong province china . this city is considered a beautiful and fit for living city . in summer it's cooler and in winter it's warmer. but this winter,...

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Esmechan Hey, Rose, i am a GuangDong Native. GuangDong should be much warmer than QingDao. As a Cantonese, we alway worried how should we live in the Nothern Area, especially when we feel cold in GuangDong, even thouth we seldom come to the negative stage. In these...

8 Jan 10

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People trying to tear away a marriage

magrylouyu @magrylouyu (1627) • United States 7 Jan 10

My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We split up for 8 months years ago and that is how I have a stepson. Now, This girl I thought was one of my good friends is trying to screw all of us over. She told me that he was...

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Esmechan Oh, it seems that your relationship is in a mess . I am still confused and can not understand. Just wanna to express that you should go and do anything in according with your hearth. Good luck to you !

8 Jan 10

Fighting the Munchies

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 7 Jan 10

Do you have any creative ways of fighting off the munchies? Especially when you know you're really not hungry, you just want to eat. I've been rather tired lately, and being tired makes me want to eat a lot! I fought it off...

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Esmechan Haha, Katsmeow, i have the similar phenomenon like you. Even though i am not hungry, but i always eager to eat, especially when i am upset,lonely, unhappy or angry. But, after consuming the food, i am so worried about my figure and weight. I suppose the...

8 Jan 10

question about relationship

Nymphantom @Nymphantom (143) • Vietnam 7 Jan 10

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Esmechan If you assure that he is your Mr. Right, you can get engaged before you going aboard. That is help to guarantee your relationship. If you are still not quite sure if your heart will always belong to him, i think you have no right to worry he will find...

7 Jan 10

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