School Uniforms
By dorannmwin
@dorannmwin (36392)
United States
January 10, 2010 12:40pm CST
My daughter is in the first grade at one of the public schools here. Many of the schools in our county have gone to dress code schools while several of the other ones have not. Her school is one of the schools where the children wear a uniform.
So, my questions are: Does your child go to a school that requires a certain dress code? What is this dress code if they do? How do you feel about the dress code? If they don't go to a school that requires a dress code, would you prefer that they did?
I like the fact that my daughter's school has a dress code. It makes it easy for her to get dressed in the morning and it also means that we are not ultimately spending more money on clothes for her.
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25 responses
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
10 Jan 10
We do not have a dress code with uniforms here. Usually they have various codes about how long skirts can be, the language on t-shirts, no spaghetti strap tops are all that I can think of.
Though I will say my nieces and nephew go to a district out of state that requires uniforms however they do have a few problems with them. Mainly that ESL students come to school w/o supplies and uniforms that are required. The issue my SIL2 has is that kids are bigger than the standard slim kid & they have to order their uniforms online as there are no uniform shops near them. As her 11 yo is 5ft 5in 160lbs and clearly would wear an adult size but has a tough time finding the required uniform in the sizing.
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
19 Feb 10
So then do the teachers dress the part as well? Some of what the teachers wear @ my DC's school would put the teachers I had to much higher standards.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
That kind of a uniform I think would be more difficult to deal with. At Kathryn's school it is just black/navy/khaki pants/skirts/shorts and shirts with a collar (used to be required to be solid colored but they've changed it to allow the children to wear stripes and patterns). If they were strict dress code like private schools I don't think that I would be happy with the situation.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Feb 10
Actually, yes, the teachers have to conform to a version of the dress code as well. I think that they are allowed to wear a few different colored bottoms and can wear dresses, but they aren't allowed to wear anything that is outside of the typical dress code. If they want to dress down it can only be done on Fridays and they can only do it if it is school wide dress down day or if the principal has given them a dress down pass.
@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
10 Jan 10
Our school does not have a dress code. In a way I wouldn't mind having the dress code because then it would solve a lot of morning stresses of what to wear. We have so many mornings of those dilemas.
On the other hand I don't like the fact that all of the kids would look the same. You have to think what if something terrible were to happen like a kidnapping, or lost child, and there wouldn't be anything unique about there outfit to describe to the police. I'd feel better knowing that my child was wearing something different like a pink top with blue butterflies as opposed to hundreds of other kids wearing the exact same outfit.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I don't really see how it is any less expensive or less time consuming - have any of you seen the cost of uniforms? I can buy MORE regular clothes that are much cuter and spend less in the long run. I'm not sure where people live or where they are able to purchase uniforms cheaper than ordinary clothes, and I'm also not sure how anybody could think they look better lol. If you pick out clothes the night before or AS SOON AS YOU GET UP, it isn't a problem getting ready.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
With my daughter's school uniform, they have to wear black/navy/khaki pants/shorts/skirts and either polo shirts (any color or design as long as it is not logo) or school logo t-shirts/sweatshirts. It isn't a really strict dress code/uniform but it is far stricter than some of the other schools in the district. I think it works out great for the students at her school as well.
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
10 Jan 10
School uniforms are a wonderful idea. Children can concentrate on their studies rather than have to worry about fashion. My grandson's school does not have uniforms, but it appears that all of the parents have the same idea and the children dress conservatively. There are some basic ground rules for dress - girls cannot wear spaghetti straps, boys cannot wear their pants sagging, girls cannot wear short shorts, t-shirts cannot have anything (images or words) that may cause a disturbance in the classroom or on the school ground. Basic stuff.
When he was in year-round school, clothes were not a concern. We just bought clothes as he needed them. A pair of pants here, a shirt there, etc. Now that he is out for the summer, he looks forward to wearing new clothes back to school. Oh how I wish he wore uniforms. They are not always less expensive, but they are certainly easier on the budget in the long run.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I completely agree with you on the uniforms being easier on the budget in the long run. My daughter is now in her second year of school and to start this year we only had to replace the articles that she had worn out last year, she got a little taller in kindergarten, but lost weight so she remains in the same size as of right now.
@angela018 (143)
• Philippines
10 Jan 10
hello!
well i formaly likes having a dress code from a school.. since i was in pre school.. dress codes or shall i say uniforms are really required. it looks really good an really formal. and for me it is one lesson for a student on how to follow the rules and regulations of the school.. to wear their proper dress codes..
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I too think that it teaches the students an invaluable lesson. Besides that, I think that is one less distraction for students to worry about when they are in school if they are wearing uniforms.
@Cookiemania (25)
• Romania
10 Jan 10
Children till 4th grade have to wear school uniforms in my school. When I got into 6th grade the school wanted to give us blue shirts to wear as the schools uniform, but we wore them like a month, because `they were sleeveless and the other ones we ordered with long sleeve never came... and that was the end of the school uniforms.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Well, I guess you all were able to get out from under your uniforms. So what kind of clothing did they allow after the uniforms ended?
@jbrown12333 (3)
• United States
10 Jan 10
I am in public high school now and no one has ever even put up the discussion of uniforms, although at the middle school I went to, which was also public, people constantly brought the idea back up. I think that most kids don't want to wear a uniform the same way they don't want to go to bed early: someone is making them.
I can clearly see the merits of such a system of uniforms, but on the other hand, this could change the way that the students, who are really the important ones here, interact and do things at school.
My younger brother went to pulic middle school for nine years and then is going to a private school (with uniforms) for his last year before high school (go figure) and he says that the kids just ACT differently at his new school than at his old one. I think it just comes down to "do you really want to change the way that kids act and develop at that age?" We were fine for a long time in america without uniforms at public middle schools and I dont really see the point in doing them now.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I do think that the transition would be difficult for people that were already in school. However, in the long run I think it would be a very beneficial thing to students that are incoming for the next years. Those students would never know the difference.
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
12 Jan 10
I know dress codes are very important as kids should look equal in all instances. I am with the compulsory steps taken for dress codes.
but we had this dress code in college too, which was really very boring.
Our college was one of the first to have dress code in our whole country.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Jan 10
I completely don't agree with the idea of having this kind of dress code in a college because I feel like during that stage of your life you have to be able to search for yourself, but for students of a much younger age I think it is appropriate.
@suzzy3 (8341)
•
13 Jan 10
Every school in England has a dress code it is a really good thing.It levels out the kids and makes them all equal.If kids are well off it is so unfair on the poorer kids whose parents cannot afford to keep up with the fashions.Like you day a school uniform is so much cheaper as well.My son does not have to wear strict school uniform like the others as he is year 12 ,but saying that he has to go to school smart shirt and tie,no trainers we can just afford it.My son looks good some of them don't and I think school uniform should have continued through year 12 and 13,as well.The actual uniform was grey trousers,or skirts for girls.white shirt,black coat,smart shoes.grey socks.Plus the normal pe kit blue shorts,white polo shirt.The normal football boots and trainers.Rubgy kit.To be honest the pe kit was more expensive than the uniform.All the uniform had to have the school logo on it as well.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Jan 10
I agree with you, I think that the uniform should be effective for all years of your education. I think it makes students look smarter and I think that it has a positive impact on how people learn.
@nitu1952 (286)
• India
11 Jan 10
SChool uniform is the first sign to investigate the student of which school he/she is from? as school uniforms are now very much colourful which kids want to be drssed and go to schools for studies after wearing these uniforms. as school uniforms also creates no chance of ego clash among the students as every student has same uniform to wear and no formal clothes.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Exactly correct. Plus, in the way that my daughter's school is set up, the students do still have some small ways in which they are able to show their individuality such as through shoes and also for girls they can wear tights when they are wearing skirts and that is another way to express some degree of originality.
@froggieslover (3069)
• United States
12 Jan 10
Hello dorann, my kids go to a public school and have not yet been made to to wear uniforms..the only sort of dress code that they have is that the shorts have to be fingertip length, no flip flops and also they are not allowed to wear any sort of "spaghetti" strap tank tops. I don't really have much problem with these codes and just feel that the codes are nice because then you don't have to worry about the clothes being to provocative. There are sometimes when I wish that the kids did have to wear uniforms because it would make it easier than buying all new clothes wach year and also for the families that can't afford name brand clothes it is also nice because I think it would cut down on the name teasing and bullying.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Jan 10
The basic dress code that you've mentioned is basically what the schools in our county that are not uniform schools go by. I personally think that there was a time when this was sufficient, but I don't think that it is today.
@iocustheoda (70)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 10
I don't have any kids that go to school in uniforms, but I am an ex-student of school that have uniforms.
When I was still in school, I hated it. This must be straight, this must be short.
However, I now appreciated it. It helped a lot when I had to represent myself in front of many people. I see a lot that come from free form school students having difficulties in that part.
Besides, the way a person wears their uniforms is not only a fashion statement, but a way for employers to analyse how would they perform their jobs. A sloppy dressed person would do his job sloppily. A person who is too meticulous with his clothes would be so straightlaced in his job, and may not be able to expand the possible venture of his job. Not profitable.
Yes, at this point, in the world after school, the clothes may not make the man, but the clothes is the avatar of the man.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Great points that you have brought up here and much thanks for taking the time to share your views.
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
18 Jan 10
hi dora, yeah, even my kids has a dress code, actually in every school they should keep uniform to know the people who is studying in that particular school, it looks nice too..for my son has yello T-shirt and blue shorts, and for dd has Blue pinoform with yello color.. it looks nice to see also.and even shoes too white shock with black shoe.. thankyou, have a nice day.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Kathryn's school doesn't go so far as to have assigned shoes and socks, but I do like the fact that with their dress code it isn't a fight to get her dressed in the morning for school and it is also easy to keep her play clothes and her school clothes separated.
@sleepylittlerose (1648)
• United States
11 Jan 10
We do not have a uniform policy in the county that I live in but two counties to the south does have a uniform policy. There a good and bad things about having it both ways. The older high school kids, as long as they dress appropriately, should have some freedom in what they wear. They are developing their most important social skills at this point and need to know that not everyone in the world will dress to their standards. Younger kids the uniforms are probably good for; becuase at that age many of them do not know when to disingauge their mouth and not pick on each other and clothing is the easiest target.
As for the expense of uniforms the county to the south that does have the policy has a real cool thing right before school starts. They do a uniform swap. You can bring in your child uniform from the previous year, if they have out grown it, and trade for a larger size. They also allow parents on fixed income to come in and get uniforms through this swap even if they do not have ones to trade in. The parents that bring the uniforms in are responsible for making sure that they are laundered and free from any holes. The uniform swaps are usually administered by the Parent Teacher Association at the individual schools.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I think that I am going to have to propose the idea of the uniform swap for our school next year. I think that would be a great thing that would help out a lot of our students. Thank you so much for sharing such a great idea.
@Rvd007 (95)
• India
11 Jan 10
Wow ! In your country some school dont have dress code that is cool for us means for kid student :D. actually now i am collage still i am following Dress code..... means you can think about my school actually here in my country in INDIA there is dress code for all School till 10th some collage like me which are known as Junior collage have dress code..............I was feeling sad wen i was in School but now i am not feeling becauz i know its importance u know we use uniform to identify that student from which school or collage becauz here in some places there are 2-3 schools are very near means nearly in 10-15 steps away........so in this case u can identify the student is from which school about collage I think its not good becauz we are in collage means we grown up to mature level it seems :D actually reason i got bore of this Uniform............Hope your daughter will be agree with me once he finish her school :D and your last reason is perfect not much money spend on cloths same in my home i dont have more T-Shirt or Shirt to wear :D wen i will go to degree (graduation) collage i am sure gona buy Some becauz we dont have dress code there :D
.......................and yes to wear specific uniform is easy becauz we habituate of it by wearing it always :D.................Regards,
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Thank you for sharing what you have to say about this. I don't think that my daughter has an issue at all with uniforms because as far as school goes she has never known any different. I only hope that by the time she moves from elementary school to middle school they have made the uniform policies to be county wide.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
11 Jan 10
In India of course all school have a dress code and same goes for my son. His are white shirt and blue trousers with blue tie. I like the idea of a school uniform simply coz (I might sound old fashioned) to me a school is a place where a child goes to learn discipline and adherence to certain codes of conduct and this learning process ultimately benefits the child in later life. wearing a particular uniform is just one step in that direction…if all the kids just came in as they liked, I don’t think school would be taken as seriously as it should.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Thank you for sharing your views, I very much so agree with you.
@verabear (796)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
I've always had to wear a school uniform, except when I went to University. Even public schools here in the Philippines have uniforms, though in rural areas they are not so strict because families can hardly afford to send their kids to school, much less spend on uniforms.
I know of at least one private school here that does not require uniforms, but they do have a dress code (i think). In our culture, it might be difficult not to have uniforms in schools because what you wear will probably be seen as your status symbol.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Actually, what you've said there at the end is the reason that I feel that all students should have to wear uniforms (college and university excluded because by that time people should be more adult). Even in our culture, what a person wears is what makes their status. If I was to send my daughter to school in all name brand items and the next parent was to send their child to school in all clothing from Wal-Mart my daughter would be looked at much differently than the neighbor when at school.
@vopols (204)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Good day dorannmwin!!
Yes I agree with you that wearing a uniform is cheaper and can save save money than just buying clothes. One of the purpose I know about wearing a uniform is security wherein if one student is kidnapped we as a civilian we can readily identify that if we saw a student which was accidentally dragged and kidnapped we can somehow identify that that particular student came from a particular school. So that that tracing of the authorities will be easier.
Because we are not sure about the safety of our students outside the campus so wearing a uniform somehow gives them assurance that there are eyes staring at them all the time.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I never thought about it that way, but you could just be right, that might well be another way that wearing a uniform is a benefit.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I think it is also great to know that all of the students are looked at the same way when they are wearing uniforms as one of the other posters mentioned.
@ChaozRiser (44)
• Singapore
11 Jan 10
LOL I live here in Singapore and all Schools in singapore have uniforms.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
For all of the schools to have uniforms is what I would really like to see here in Lexington, KY as well.
@stand87 (664)
• Bulgaria
11 Jan 10
I don't have children but I can tell you about my own experience.
I graduated language high school at my hometown. It is high school with big reputation! My mother graduated it, I graduated it and now my brother's on this way too. My mother used to wear uniform before 20+ years. I did't have this chance, but now my brother wears too. My mother told me they were wearing black-white uniforms which were awful. All classmates were looking the same. There were no personality, nothing individual. My mom says : " We were feeling like - I can't be what I am! I'm what the system says I am. I can't be smarter, more beautiful or more nice than the others . . . I even can't be human being if the others are not! " Well, that the only bad thing about it. My brother don't have problems like these now. But it's because they are only supposed to put some marks on their clothes. The school's logo, name... some kind of a sing, putted near to heart. They also have hats, school bags and shirts with the mark of the school. I don't thing it's a bad thing. And it's all for free! You don't pay anything for it.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
11 Jan 10
That's great that they provide everything. Sometimes money can be a great barrier for a family to overcome. Where my daughter's school isn't in a wealthy area there are children that can't afford to have nicer things for school. However, the school does do what they can to help the children that aren't as lucky. They have their own small clothing bank and will send school clothes home to the children that can't afford their own. Actually, when Kathryn outgrows her school clothes I intend to donate them to the school to be passed on to another student.