What do you want your partner be? Nice or Naughty?

For a healthy relationship, I like my partner to be nice & naughty. I think that's as descriptive as I would like to be.

Of course, nice and naughty. These 2 must come together. Else there will be no fun being together. Too nice will have a boring situation where she/he will always tolerate. Too naughty will create more conflicts and arguments. If nice and naughty means there is an up and down. Never feel too boring and never have extreme argument.

I'm shocked a number of respondents to this question wanted their guys to be both nice and naughty. Uuh. Well, I believe that the two can't just go together. It is better to be on the safer side; in the long run, a nice guy or gal is better than any that is naughty (even if only sometimes). A person who lies to you, cheated on you, treated you badly, maybe end up using you in the name of being "naughty to some extent" is a time bomb. While it is not good to always misrepresent the intention of one's friend, a person who appears to "play naughty sometimes" may eventually show you his or her true colour. Don't say I didn't warn you!

The guys that have always appealed to me more seem to be on the naughty side... but they were naughty all the time and turned out to be a-holes. hehe But now I have a wonderful man who is the best of both worlds! he's one of the nicest people I have ever met. He's very caring and very loyal to his loved ones. He has a huge heart! And although at times, he may be... overly sensitive, I wouldn't want him any other way! And when its just him and I, and the day is done or life has calmed down for the moment... he knows its ok to bring his naughty side out! haha I love a man with a good sense of humor, a good sense of self, and a man who is confident in himself (but not to be confused with arrogant or prudish or whatever). He's a great father and a great lover. There's a whole laundry list of reasons and things... but here's just a few!

I've my partner already and she has all qualities which i want. She is Beautiful, Nice Sense of Humour, Caring, Loving and many more. We'll get married after 2 or 3 years ;)