Trying too hard?

True.there are kind of stupid People who wants to make friend's but as soon they make friend's the frequently they change them and these kind of people have no priority in specification for becoming a Good friends.however these are the kind of dreamers who believes in making the progress in non-creative manner and Just Grow Social circle Thats it....!

I've also came across people like that, but i usually just ignore them.cause thats how my personality goes haha, if i dont like him, i wont even bother trying to hear what they got to say or anything.

As long as they are good I would tolerate their irritating approach. I will be friends with them.

Hi Karen, Yes. A hard sell friendship will not last. along the way the consistency of things fail. you can feel the sincerity without forcing it. lasting friendships allow each other to grow along the process and provide space to know and appreciate each others uniqueness and differences. the best thing i like is giving me the chance to improve myself without asking me to change.

You are picking my vain again. Normally God is very kind to me gave such beautiful life, parents, friends, colleagues, myLotters. etc.. But for the things for that I pay some extra desperation leads me to pay very extra efforts. I have to try bit harder. For that I sometimes complaints also to great GOD but more than that I asks him to give me the strength to full fill those efforts and achieve my I desire.

Yes I've met a few people who are like that. They follow me around, constantly ask me questions, and don't know when to stop. I get so irritated that I want to burst out like a madman. I know they want to make friends, but this isn't the way to do it. It just annoys the heck out of people. Even though they bother me like crazy, I accept them as one of my friends.

Yes I have come across People like that and I have told them in a gentle way to just be themselves as it is driving me crazy how hard they are trying to be Friends to just let things go their own way It is not so much off putting to me it is embarrassing

Hi Karen! You see if someone tries to be my friend without any rhyme or reasons and I have no interest towards him/her, I remain non-responsive. I believe that if I am not comfortable with any person, it would be not in the fitness of things to be his/her friend. One feels repulsive towards certain people and cannot be friends with them. Have a nice day! Deepak

I think more than anything they seem fake when they mean well, i guess. I'm very bad about forming a opinion about people the first time i meet them. i never usually change my mind whether it be a good or bad opinon.

I've met someone who soon became my friend. She proved herself too good to be true though. She would do everything to please me. Giving this and that, inviting me here and there but later she proved herself to be fake. She was not herself all those times that she tried to look the best friend I've ever hand. One day her true color came out. She is a great pretender and the biggest liar I've known and so I junked her and refrain from seeing her again.

Hey Karen! I most definitely know what you are tallking about! I have had many friends that I have had to "do away" with for that very reason! There are always some people that "try to hard" to be your friend and you find out that they are nothing but phonies. Then there are those that try to hard and they are "leechies with damaged personalities". There are so many different types of people in this world and it is easy to get caught up with anyone type that is wrong for you especially if you are basically a nice person and a "people magnet" like I think you and I are! People like us have to watch out for people like that who will suck the life out of us! If you want more info opal2626@yahoo.com Email me there and we can talk forever! Hugs, Opal/Leslie

I am sure everyone knows someone or a few someones like that. Some people just don't have a good sense of self worth and they want so desperately to be liked they don't realize they have to like themselves first.

The thing that I notice the most in these kind of people is that they tend to be very needy. They want to always be included in everything that you do. For me, this is off putting because I can't stand to always be on the phone with a person or to always be spending time with the same person. Actually, one of the reasons that I consider myself to be a good friend is because of the fact that I'm not a needy kind of friend, either I get along with a person or I don't but I don't ever try to push the issue.

I do not like people who irks me,I am an introverted person,I hate to always talk to please others who feel they always have lots to talk about,then ,really bores.If they are on my side I woule say to them ,please go away to frends,I need clear,you let me not to work in.I know this not good for them,but I really no way.

Hm, well I always thought it was mostly just me, but I do get put off by people who try to get too close too quickly. If somebody comes around acting like my long lost best friend and I barely know them, it just doesn't feel right somehow. It takes me a while to warm up to somebody...

I am somewhat shy so anyone who comes on strong tends to make me very slow to make friends with them.

hi friend, Friendship is a longlasting friends forever. This kind of people i avoid and i don't make a friendship. I don't like to make a hard friendship. friendship is a great relationship and lives forever and ever. have a good day.

Hi Karen, Fortunately I haven't met this kind of person. Those who want to be my friends are all welcome, for as long as they don't make me feel like they're stalking me, or want all of my privacy. I tend to keep a considerable distance (unless I consider the person a really close friend), and I expect them to respect that. Have a good day!

Dear Karen, So far I have not personally encounters this to a serious level. However, after thinking about it, I did recall an incidence when a guy whom I dislike keep passing by my house in the evenings... I try to avoid him and this is really annoying. That happens a long long time ago, perhaps 20 years back. However, I normally quite tactful. Therefore, I do not turn down any good friendship. I will find ways to make sure it is at a acceptable and comfortable level. Cheers and take care :)

i think i am not a girl that easy to make friends. first i never go and talk to a stranger intiatively and if a atranger wants to talk to me and make friends with me i won't agree. that's not because i don't believe people, just i don't like. so maybe such people like me are one of the reasons why it's too hard to make friends.